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writes:Hi all, I have a concern that maybe some of you can help me with. I've been with my boyfriend for four years, but it's weird because he tells me he doesn't see himself getting married or raising a family.the problem is I do, and I had been hoping it'd be with him, so what am I sticking around for? Don't get me wrong, our relationship wasn't in vain. I love him, but I know you can't force someone to change their minds with decisions like that and I won't try to. Yet this is starting to making me resent him as we go further. I feel like I'm getting to the point where I should at least be dating someone that has the same life goals as me. How should I handle this? Reply to this Question
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (24 October 2008):
 I agree, move on. Otherwise you will just keep resenting him more and more and things will not get any better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008): So basically he is wasting your precious time...and that is defenitely something that can't be replaced....don't wait on him..move on to someone else who will see you as a wife and mother.
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