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Stressed about choosing the right guy without hurting the others that are interested in me...

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Question - (24 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2008)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *rincessSmithee writes:

im so stressed about boys, I have a few that i think are nice and they are intrested in me, but i need to see who i like by meeting them, and that makes me feel really bad cause il kiss them and then il have to hurt the rest i dont want to be with.

Theres one who i have a love hate relationship with and i try to keep it freindly but we flirt so much, really cant help it. Hes nice but im not sure if i want to be with him and he clearly likes me lots, and il feel bad if i dont go out with him.

Im just so stressed out, this boy i did like sort of, has just started seeing another girl, I had my chance with this boy but i told him i dont know how i feel and i want to be friends for now, and ever since ive doubted if i want to be with him or not. and i juts feel kind of sad :( now. Im thinking off waiting til they break up and i might say something. Doubt i will though cause maybe im just jelous lol

I sort of dont want a boyfriend, but i really want someone to cuddle, and its so stressful trying to get with the right guy and not hurt anyone in the process.. how can i find the right guy without hurting anyone :(

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A female reader, Shonababes United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2008):

Get with the boy you feel knows you and will appreciate you not ones that just flirt, they may end up cheating.

Don't feel like your going to hurt them, they will move on quickly trust me.

You will only be happy if you are with someone who you are happy with and who is happy with being with you.

Good Luck and trust me , flirty boys will just hurt you and the really nice one will make you feel special.

.x.x.x.

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