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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi all, my ex boyfriend today called me a cling on, yes I still do like him but I'm no way like that,Anyway I rang him 2 confront him and I said comon then what do you really think of me, he said that I was annoying sometimes but I know that any way as we have always said that about each other, I mentioned that clingy thing and he said that's what was in his mind sometimes, I then asked him what else and he didn't say anything. Do you think it's something bad that he won't tell me what he really thinks or that it's something nice but won't tell me the truth?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (22 January 2009):
 I'm so sorry, but I ready this question and was like, "her boyfriend called her a Klingon?" - that may completely dorkify me, but Google Image a "Klingon" and you will laugh as hard as I did.
Okay, on to answering the question: Being called clingy is totally awkward to hear, huh? I agree with the other posters, I think this guy just is asking for a little space from you. If you cool down a little bit, you'll give him the opportunity to give YOU a call, or at least tell you how he really feels about you. So try to chill out your time with him and give him the chance to pursue YOU!
Good luck!
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (21 January 2009):
 To be honest it just sounds to me like he doesnt want the confrontation. Not that he feels like there's something he wants to say to you but doesnt know how to say it. Boys in general dont like arguing. Especially when a relationship is over. They usually just want to get on with it, draw a line under it and move on. They dont really like rehashing things and dragging old issues back up again.
If you called him to confront him he was probably feeling under attack and like he couldnt be bothered with it. If you still care about him and wanna get back with him hun, you need to mellow out a little bit and make sure when he speaks to you you're being calm and pleasant - not angry and confrontational.
All the best babe
Brooke
xxx
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reader, royalpredica +, writes (21 January 2009):
Try to give him some space. Men and boys of all ages like to "chase" a woman, its a game. So what you need to do is play hard to get. Go out with your friends, dont always answer the phone when he rings, do things without him etc etc. Dont always be too nice to him either. Treat them mean, keep them keen. If he doesnt come chasing you, then he isn't the one for you. Good luck sweetheart x
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