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writes:i have a big issue and i dont know how to handle it ,i met this girl on a party and well we hooked up that day without knowing each other in the dark ,but we didnt have no intercourse but the second time i saw her we did have sexual intercourse she would always party and get drunk same here i was doing the same,and for 2 years she became my personnal call every time i needed to have sex ,she would appear in my house at 4am every time i would call her she would pay for her own cabs ,but suddenly this last year i was feeling lonely and i started talking to her we started getting to know each other and somehow to like each other. i went away for sort of a month and i had told her to behave and to be a good girl when i came back she told me everything was ok and she would be hanging out with me than i met this chick in school and i had sex with her i told her about it cause i didnt wanna hide from her she took it normal than we had a conversation and i told her to put all the cards on the table ,she told me she had made out with this guy while i was away than she told me she was pregnant and i asked her if it was mine she said yes and i believed herone day not so long ago i decided to trick her on a question telling her i was sterile and she believed it to end up confirming the kid was the guy she made out with which is a guy i also know i yelled at her told her it was over that she was a whore and i ignored her for 5 days she would hit me up all those days she wanted to explain herself and i gave her the opportunity she cried and everything and shes been very sexual in the past and i know what she has told me but it bothers me and i cant get it off my head i think of her like why didnt she respect herself before and now she tells me she loves me ,shes always with me ,i forgave her because i didnt see myself starting from zero with anyone else and im used to being with her but deep inside me i dont know if im doing the right thing ,i dont even know if i love her or im just use to being with her and this is driving me crazy i need some advises.
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reader, notaland +, writes (9 December 2009):
notaland is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe had an abortion because she couldnt have the baby ,this was her 3rd year of college and the guy that got her pregnant wasnt gonna be responsible for the baby it was a one night stand.
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reader, notaland +, writes (9 December 2009):
notaland is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe had an abortion because she couldnt have the baby ,this was her 3rd year of college and the guy that got her pregnant wasnt gonna be responsible for the baby it was a one night stand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): i think if in doubt - a paternity test may have been a better suggestion than claiming false sterilization to catch her out because even if she has had mulitle partners, this kid could still be yours. I'd get the kid tested when he/she is born. Sorry i have kind of ignored your other issues - i don't think i have the right words to help or advice on that so i shall cowardly leave that to the other aunts here.
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