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writes:Ok - to cut a long story short - Dating guy, taking it slow as both recently-ish out of relationships.He's a nice guy who's been completely and totally f***ed over by his last 2 GF's.I'm a nice, normal girl.All is going well, both of us seemingly quite into each other, very compatable in all ways, both equally affectionate etc...I spend the night at his, meet his family for the first time, he basically freaks out.Doesn't know if he is ready for a relationship, not used to a girl being so nice (for the record I'm not OTT smothering nice, just literally normal lol).I tell him that's fine, back away, ball's in his court, take time to think.He texts me the next day and says he wants to be with me.I reply to the message...and haven't heard back (albeit has only been since this morning...But I find that quite rude!)WTF...I don't do games, head f***'s, hot and cold...So help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionEmily - thanks you're awesome :)
Denise - You're an idiot.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (22 December 2009):
 You're taking it nice and slow? I'd hate to see what you would be like if you were rushing it!
Presumably you met his family at his invitation? How did it go? Do you have any idea what made him freak out?? Was it a comfortable meeting for you?
Okay: he sent a text and said he wants to be with you. Good.
Now, for pete's sake, give the man a chance! You replied and haven't heard back - since this morning?! Wait and see if he gets in touch and wants to go out with you again. If you don't hear from him in, say, a couple of weeks, give him a call........keep in mind he may be busy with the holidays almost here....
P.S. Are you sure you're not "doing head games"?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 December 2009):
Give the guy a chance, see if he gets back to me and organises to see you etc.
If he doesn't get back to you or you get the feeling you are getting messed about then walk away.
It's not worth your time to have someone playing games.
Good Luck!! xx
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