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36-40,
*o,Xo
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year and we are great together. But lately things have been a little dull. He spends a lot of time on the couch he only watches television and zones right out or he plays video games. This happens almost every night. I make suggestions to him for us to go out and spend some time together doing things but he either just shrugs or rejects it outright. I am starting to feel neglected. I also feel like I do a lot in this relationship and I get no appreciation for it. He is quite an affectionate person - by that I mean he cuddles with me and kisses me a lot. But I think there should be more to our relationship than just our bedroom activities. It is getting a little dull and routine. If I bring it up to him he quickly accuses me of whining and complaining. I just want that spark back!
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reader, Garm  +, writes (21 December 2009):
Maybe shake things up. He seems a bit too comfortable with your situation. Start making less time to do things he wants to do, be busy, but invite him along with you--otherwise, let him sit around and be lonely. He'll figure it out.
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reader, Xo,Xo +, writes (21 December 2009):
Xo,Xo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI go out with friends everyday as he sits at home on the couch!
I've tried to talk to him but all he says is there is nothing wrong..I've tried to talk to him a Million times
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reader, Garm +, writes (20 December 2009):
He's depressed. Talk to him about his problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): Don't whine and complain - go out with your friends sometimes and spend other times with him. And then decide which you prefer and whether you want to continue to do both. That should make everything clearer.
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