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writes:I am 20 and have recently moved from the country to to work in town.I have accommodation at my place of employment. My older sister works in the same town and stays in a commune.She is going out with a guy from work and introduced my to his friend.I have not lost my virginity yet. My sister has slept with guys and is actively encouraging me to do the same saying that if I don't I won't keep a guy.I stayed with her recently and the two guys were there. She encouraged me to remove my pantyhose and lie with the guy. I did that but did not allow sex even though he tried hard and I was very aroused. She had got into bed and was having sex with her guy in our presence, with the light off.I think she got a kick out of this. Should I have found them having sex in our presence so arousing? Can anyone share similar experiences?I am also worried about my sister's influence on me. She is trying to get me to have sex but never mentioned protection and STDs.My mother is deceased and I don't have any close confidant's
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 Just say no lol really you shouldnt be having sex if you have to ask this question one day a nice guy who will take his time will come into your life. you dont have to rush out and have sex just for the hell of it your sister is a freak im not saying that in a bad way, your just not like her she needs to understand that i suggest that you not partake in her sexual activities youll probably regret it maybe you can convince her to turn it down i not im pretty sure only millionaires can afford the cure for AIDS
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (18 December 2009):
 You are your own woman now, and just because you share DNA doesn't mean you have to share a bad case of Chlamydia. You sound more smart and level-headed than your wild sister, and you can be grateful years down the line that you didn't get pregnant by God knows who, and catch Lord knows what diseases. You will be happier with yourself if you stick to what you feel comfortable with - and you'll definitely be able to keep a man because he'll see your confidence and happiness shining from within you.
Good luck, sweet. Protect yourself first!!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 December 2009):
All that matters it that you stick to you morals. You do not have to do anything you don't want to. You are right to be careful of STD's, so make sure you always have condoms, and it might be a good idea just to go on the pill in case anything does happen. Also, if you need someone to talk to, maybe try a counsellor or your doctor. They can help. I suspect your sister is in fact suffering a lot over her mother's death, and is acting the way she does for attention. But you stick to your morals. You'll feel far better if you do.
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