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writes:I need to know what to do there's a girl who i work with in a part-time job. I'm 17 and she's 20. I'm still in secondary school and she's in second year in college.What I look forward to is the weekend so i can see her. We can talk about absolutely anything. We even talk about sex. I love everything about her, her smile, her humor, her personality absolutely everything about her. I would say something to her but there is two problems; she has a boyfriend who she rarely sees and her brother is one of my best friends. Please help!
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reader, Frenzotic  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 You guys talk about sex as a general subject? Or more specifically both of you together?
Does she talk about her boyfriend much?
You could tell her your feelings but she needs to work out whats happening with her own relationship before she thinks about the potential with you.
You need to think, if anything was to happen between you two, would it jeopardise your friendship with her brother? If things were to happen between you and her like a heated argument would if affect things between you and your friend? Or you and her at work?
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reader, dorothy2342  +, writes (11 December 2009):
 You are not going to like my advice, but I know what I'm talking about. You have more than two problems, the most important one is your age, it's not just about numbers its about maturity. She may be 3 or so years older than you physically, but as far as maturity she is about 6 to 7 years ahead of you. Girls mature, and I don't mean physically, I mean emotionally, mentally and experience, that is why girls usually like guys older than themselves. The next big problem is legally, if you had sex, she could be charged with statuatory rape, she's considered an adult and your not. Look for someone your own age, what has attracted you to her is her maturity, probablly physical as well as mental. This relationship will eventually end badly for you. Focus your attention elsewhere. If you want to enjoy her as a friend, go for it, but be careful. Good Luck
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