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I'm shy and not very good looking - how can I make her my girlfriend?

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Question - (11 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2009)
A male Pakistan age 26-29, *li Khan writes:

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hi there, ok so i am in love with a girl. I am little overweighed and very much shy so when ever she passes near to me, i get very nervous but i really love her and cant live without her, i go to school and always see her but anyday when i doesn't see her, that day i am not very happy. How could i impress after being shy and overweighed? How could i talk to her? How could i make her my girlfriend? How could i make her love me?I think that she may not love me because i am not good looking. I dont talk too much which might make her think that i am not a good guy. Plz plz help me, I would be very thankful to everybody who answers.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009):

Quit using the word love so lightly...you have a crush on her and you want to know how to get her to LIKE you back.

You need to talk to her every now and then. Try to get to the point where you can have a normal conversation with her without thinking about. Become her friend, but NOT just a friend. Once you can have normal conversations with her you should tell her how you feel. If she doesn't like you back then she just doesn't like you back. There's no way you can "make" someone love/like you.

And have some confidence, girl like that, if you think you're unattractive, how do you expect someone else to think you are attractive?

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