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I am dating a guy who has a girlfriend and I feel used, how do I cut him off completely?

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Question - (3 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

This guy that i've been seeing has a girlfriend, and she works 3rd shift and work 1st. he's with me every night sometimes even when she doesn't have to work. I know where they live, and where he's mom lives, as well as where he hangs out. for some reason last night he told me he couldn't see me because she didn't have to work. I was so angry, I hung up on him. He had been calling me all day planning to see me yesterday night and then stood me up at the last minute. I'm so disgusted I don't even want to talk to him.Please help me cut him off, I really need help because I feel so stupid and used

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008):

If you are so disgusted and don't even want to talk to him, you don't need assistance from us to get rid of him.

Just don't call, or email, text message, or visit him!

What in the name of heck made you get involved with a man who already has a girlfriend anyway?

Forget him, don't date for a while - until you've have had time to think back on this experience and be "over" it - then you can see if you eventually meet a single man.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008):

Stupid? Yes. Used? I don't think so. You knew what you were letting yourself in for by seeing a guy who was already attached.

Find yourself a man who is single, it's a much better long-term prospect.

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