A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I'm 37 yrs and I met a guy who's is 34 on a dating website 4 months ago. We hit it off immediately, I've met his family, we've been together every day since we met. He used to tell me all the time how he is loves me, how attracted he is to me, how he would like to eventually get married, etc. I had a trip to planned to Europe for nine days with family. We were in contact the whole time and things seemed good. When I got back, he seemed different. There seemed to be some issues at his job and is VERY into his work. So I asked him if he was ok, (he had a few beers) and he turns around and says he doesn't know if this is going to work and says things seems different, but he doesn't know why. I am very sensitive and just fall apart, crying etc. He said to go to his house after work the next day and we would talk about it (but I did stay the night but he didn't really come near me). He also said there is no one else. Next day comes and I act totally upbeat and attentive to him when he comes home. I hear him on the phone talking about the issues at work etc. But the rest of the night was fine with us. He never mentioned about his feelings from the night before. The weekend went great, telling me he loves me and had fun together. He still is not acting the way he was from the beginning of the relationship but still showing love and I am there every day still like before. Is he getting scared or something, has the relationship just plataued?? I love him so much and he and I got along so well and he treats me great. I would be devastated if it ended. Any input or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!
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reader, babybiy  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 ask he what's the matter and say that if he doesnt tell u then how are you suppose to get married when ur not telling serious stuff.(I think he cheated on you)
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