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I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?

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Question - (21 September 2008) 28 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2010)
A female United States age 22-25, *eign154 writes:

Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's.

So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like friends, but i want 2 tempt him.

What should i look for or do?

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A male reader, lifesnotthatbad United States +, writes (18 August 2010):

In the sense that this may be many girls fantasy it is possible. I am a guy and I seduced my English AP teacher, believe it or not he was a straight man age 34. It was my

jnr. year and we got along well , he really admire my writing skills, in a way i spoke to him through my work. well this is how you do it.

Rule 1. no what you want. be familiar with your target. see what he likes and dislikes. know him. dont ask him unappropriated questions tho. just learn from the time in class.

Rule 2. always look your best. a little better than everyone else. your face is your luck, but cloth matter.

Rule 3. give him what he wants. do your work with excellence make him feel worthy of his job.

Rule 4. Never kiss ass. but give him small little signs of admiration.

Rule 5. Eye contact is vital. look at him in the eye for exactly 4 seconds, no more no less. dont do this every day 24/7 it would just be odd and lame.

Rule 6. Remember is just a game, the target is not aware of your emotion so might as well dispose of them before they get in your way.

let me just sum this up with other vital things. Confidence is good, dont back down and youll get what you want. My teacher dig the fact that i wasn't all over his nuts like the other fools, in a way i kept my cool, mystery can make wonders if you look sexy. Kinda like being a screte teenage superhero. I know its an odd analogy but it was excellence for bate. This is why you should "know your target".

One last thing he will not give in unless you are at least 18, if he does he must be ugly because that is only the case of desperation and stupidity. I got held back the forth grade so now in the end of my jnr year fucking my teacher was not completely illegal, i am 18. ;)

good luck and cheers.

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A female reader, xblsdbx United States +, writes (28 August 2009):

omg! i love you for this question! i'm in the exact same boat! i'm seventeen and a senior too lol like i just knew i wanted my teacher when he showed us a picture of this little boy and i felt RELIEVED when he said it was his nephew and not his son. so i can't really answer this question...i just wanted u to know you're not alone :) my plan is to keep needing to come in before school for help. my teacher is really cool and he totally flirts back with me. we'll hook up one day....

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A female reader, kkinser United States +, writes (2 January 2009):

kkinser agony auntThis is an awesome question!! Soo, well first of all you totally need to figure out what he likes, like music, and then you need to find out what he looks for in a girl... Pretend you are taking a survey on random guys and ask him what he looks for in a girl, or better yet ask a friend to do it, that way he won't suspect anything. Then whenever you are with him alone start a random conversation and say you like the same exact things he does... Continue talking to him like this, eventually when you think you're close enough bring up the question, "What do you think about different age relationships?" See what happens from there.

Hope I helped!

P.S. Don't believe these crackheads! A person should have the choice to have sex with whoever the hell they want to.

No matter what age.

Peace

xoxo

Katilyn Alexaa.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2008):

Trying to seduce your teacher is just plain wrong. First of all, you're underage. It would be illegal if you had sex with your teacher. Second, it is not fair for you to tempt this poor man. For if he give into your seduction, he will lose his job, and most likely be sent to jail. You would ruin his life simply so you could have some fun. You should feel awful for even considering such a thing

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2008):

Thanks Pepper,

Indeed, I think many of us remember Regina and the mistakes she was making over the comments in her year book. It was made very clear to her at the time, that her teacher was just being polite and complimenting her very being a interesting student. Now in response, she wants to seduce a grown up man for "fun". It doesn't seem that she took any of our advice, indeed it appears she's not actually looking for advice, she's looking for permission to do the wrong thing.. Well you won't get it here babes. We provide advice and help, we don't help people to do stupid things and get themselves in trouble..

Your story is confusing. Your lying to yourself, so you lie to us. As pepper has pointed out, why do you want to have sex with someone you think of as a brother. And doesn't your teacher already have a girlfriend?

"yall have 2 understand that just becasue u say its wrong dosent stop anyone from doing what they feel is right despite what u thnik" Regina

Well why did you come here for advice if you know everything already. How can it be RIGHT to try to seduce this grown man who will loose his job, his girlfriend, and his self-respect and reputation for "fun".

I do judge you, not for falling in love. That happens, anyone can fall in love. But I judge you for trying to get advice to make a grown man unhappy, just cause he wrote something nice in your yearbook... If it's so Right for you to do this, don't ask us. Go and ask your mum how to seduce someone, if it's a nice thing to do, I'm sure she'll help you out.

This man doesn't fancy you, he's just doing his job. He doesn't think about you at all when he leaves work. Your just some kid he has to work with. He has a family, a life, interests, dreams and desires you know nothing about. Your just a kid to him, and if you make a nuisance of yourself, with your thoughts of romance, you will become a dangerous kid and you will get in trouble with the school, your parents and will make him feel uncomfortable.

Here are some more links for you to ignore. You think your the only one who knows better than us. Read this story about a girl who ignored our advice about her teacher, and see how much trouble she caused for herself.

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-apologise-to-my-teacher-for.html

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2008):

BigSis agony auntIf that's the case Pepper, and I think you're right, I wanna be one of the first to say that our poster will not be getting any green lights from me!

x

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2008):

pepper27 agony auntyou want to seduce your bro? And this question you asked on a previous date ?????

Ok. Im want only male teachers or males who work around highschool females. I want to know is there ever one time when you think of your female students. like im not saing chasing them down but like getting a crush on them but not acting on it. I want to know the males response to this becasue i have read so many female students stories of falling for their teachrs but i want to know how you turlly feel about the situation you are thrown into everyday.

Is all this a game for you, Im not judging you but it all looks like you just want someone to say yea go ahead ruin someones life the last post if I remember correctly the italian teacher that wrote in your book had a g/f is this the same bro you want to seduce? You just want the go ahead hunny the green light to say yea this is ok so xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

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A female reader, reign154 United States +, writes (28 September 2008):

reign154 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I just want 2 say thnks 2 everyone for their advice. yea some were kind of hurtful and extremely ignorant. but tats just how some people and those B**ches dont hurt me @ all. I understand where u r coming from but yall have 2 understand that just becasue u say its wrong dosent stop anyone from doing what they feel is right despite what u thnik. So guys just try 2 be easier casue some people really do open their hearts and ur just crushing them by judging them. u wuldnt want anyone 2 do the same thing or similar if u had a prob that u wanted 2 open up about. so just lay off. anyway i love my prof. as a bro and thats y its soo easy 2 talk 2 him. he's the bro i never had and fam. & friend that i care about and want the best 4. i would never want antyhing 2 happen to him badly. so thats how i feels so xoxoxoxoxox

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008):

do you have any life at all??

honestly trying to seduce your teacher thats just wrong

people who have lives go out with their friends and have fun and meet boys their own age not try and seduce their teacher!!

you could get him arrested just because you want to have your fun

you're going to mess up this guys life because you dont have one!!

GROW UP AND STOP BEING SO SELFISH!

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A female reader, babewithbrains United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2008):

babewithbrains agony auntThis did make me laugh, the sheer irony...

Do you think you won't be hurt when he pushes you away in disgust? Do you think you won't be embarresed when he do an "I understand" speech to you inclass about your feelings?

Grow up a bit, pretty shoes.

I hope you see sense,

Follow your nose,

Jelly

xxx

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2008):

pepper27 agony auntMy teacher wrote in my year book that I am a very inquisitive and stylish young lady. Does this mean he likes me?

Plus hunny did you not get enough answers from your last post

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2008):

pepper27 agony auntHunny this is plain cruel, What should i look for or do? You should look to your parents for help and advise, And you should do nothing but let this teacher do his job! TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXX

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008):

Ok here's what I think... You're just saying you want to do it "just for fun" because you really do have feelings for him, but don't want to be hurt if it does't work.

But seriously... it's not worth it

Sorry

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008):

you shouldnt. he could lose his job if it went any further. i fancy my teacher like mad and we too get on very well and infact are pretty close - but i would never cross that line because she could lose her job. you shouldnt cross that line either.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008):

You are a very cruel and unkind young lady. Your poor teacher is trying his very best to give you an education so you can get a good job. What do you do to repay him, you come here asking us for advice on how you can f*ck up his life and help him loose his job.... I feel very sad for your parents if this is the best they did to bring you up. I would be so ashamed if I had a daughter like you. Here, read this, it might just show you why we all think you are a nasty evil minded bitch...

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/a-student-is-in-love-with-me-how.html

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2008):

BigSis agony auntAs soon as I saw this question come up the second you posted it, I knew you were going to be eaten alive, did you honestly believe there would've be anyone here that could egg you on to do such a thing?

You finally quoted: "What should i look for or do?"

Well, first of all, I'll tell you what you should 'look' for......another teacher, yeah?

One who is qualified in teaching young ladies like you the morals of self~respect and the respect of your mentors.

Second, what you should 'do'... I dare you to show the question you posted here to us...to your parents or guardians. How about that? Hey?

Bet you wouldn't have the guts, and if you were so gutsy ~ would I love to be a fly on the wall?

Boy oh boy...........you bet I would!!

: )

Good luck!

BigSis

x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008):

Grow up. Silly little girl.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008):

I hope this question is a joke. Why would you even consider ruining someone's career for the fun of it?

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A female reader, lilgirly Lebanon +, writes (21 September 2008):

lilgirly agony auntdon't you have anything better to do in your empty life then getting your teacher seduced and if he falls for it he might go to prison..and ruin his life just because you want to have 'fun'!???

one word hun.. grow up:):):) and save your time for someone your age ...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008):

Don't judge? Are you kidding me? She came here for advice and it's what she got:

If you do A this is what will happen...

If you do B this is what will happen...

If she didn't know the consequences of her actions and only thought "fun" would come out of it then she got some really good advice out of this.

She's a little attention seeking girl who suddenly has a grip on an authority figure that can satisfy her need and wants to exploit this to the poor guys detriment because is she is was to immature to understand the consequences of her actions.

When the guy gets nervous "the fun part", then stressed "the what the f**k is going on part", then cold "the this wasn't supposed to happen part", then tells her to go away either implicitly or explicitly she will be very surprised that things turned out like this.

Yes reign154, you do have your options and that includes a lot of smarter choices than your teacher.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008):

heeeello?!

she's not asking if this is a right thing to do!So u are not able to judge anyone.She has her options! I know how you feel;)

I like my prof too.[he is not teacher at my school] and we are kinda close .

try to understand what he wants.

kissz

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (21 September 2008):

sappygirl agony auntyou really love a challange, and because he's your teacher you are getting a high from thinking you can get him to fall for you. It's your own ego. You are underage, and he is your teacher. That means he is off limits to you. Please don't ruin his career or life to fullfill your own selfish needs. Do everyone a favor and seduce a boy that is your age and someone you might actually have a relationship with. What is wrong with the kids of today?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008):

hahahahaha at flynns comment! spot on there mate ;)

seriously little junior - you have been watching too much "cruel intentions." Your mind is mysterious - literally!

and why on earth would you think posting a question like that up, people would actually try and help you? Poor poor child.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008):

Grow up and focus on what he is trying to teach you in class. You should have more important things to do with your time than trying to play sex kitten. You should also have more respect for yourself than to try to play vamp. If this is your idea of "fun" you are headed for a long, lonely road of empty relationships.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008):

You, madam, are the sole reason men check for ice-picks under the bed every-time we bed a woman.

Seriously, you would jeapordize his career on a whim? What the hell kind of person are you? Keep thinking like you are you will one day get the wrong person into trouble and you will regret every single second you spent being such a bitch. This is because you will either be raped or worse, killed.

You might wanna pick a better role-model then Sharon Stone or Poison Ivy (young Drew Barrymore if the reference went over your dim little head).

Grow up.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, nicole5178 United States +, writes (21 September 2008):

nicole5178 agony auntBad idea.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008):

What do you mean that you want to seduce him "for fun." Do you mean you want to do it just for the fun of it, or do you actually want to have sex with him?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008):

This is an absolutely HORRIBLE idea. You're motivated by how much "fun" it would be". In reality, you're motivated by how good you would feel: empowered and flatter. Please realise how selfish this is how UN-FUN this would be for him.

You guys get along like friends but he WILL NOT find this fun. You will find it fun because in high school and sometimes junior high, people really discover the effect their sexuality has on others. He absolutely will not find it fun in the least even if you are friends. Only you will gain from this to his depriment which is such a horrible mean thing to do to someone your friends with.

You're going to give him a lot of stress.

He's going to worry about his job. You commit to becoming a teacher and that's your career after you've passed all the trials to become one. An episode of student seduction really, really messes things up. Not only would it affect his current job but it would taint future opportunities very easily and make life hard on him. Please understand how easily a little thing like you teasing and tempting him can create such a HUGE problem for him.

He's going to start acting cold towards you and your relationship will be ruined. He cares about his career a lot more than he cares about a student friendship. A lot depends on it. Expect him to change very very quickly after you start your game. Definately not something you would expect from just having "fun" but that's what's going to happen so don't be surprised.

Don't be so selfish, there are so many men to tease and tempt - why mess up this guys life with your fun?

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