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She wants him to give her money, if he doesn't - he doesn't get any sex either.

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Question - (21 September 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2008)
A female United States age , *amma writes:

I met a 40yr old man that had been living with a 19 yr old and he was gaga over her. she decided to call it quits. Though it boosted his ego 'cause of her age, said he probably would not ever get it again {the age thing}.

He has been married to an average age of 45 yr old women {4 times}. i am 50 years old and started talking to him, and him calling me and seeing each other, he would tell me 'don't let a good thing pass you by', and always would say he's a diffrent type of guy, doesn't like to be alone.

Well the young girl calls him crying and all that type of stuff, she comes back for the weekend and he leaves with her and tells me that he moved to fast with me and needs time. she wants him to give her money and when he doesn't - he doesn't get any sex. Now that he went back to her he gives her money and he doesn't get sex, this is a doomed relationship. Does this sound like infatuation on his part towards her or what?

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A female reader, gamma United States +, writes (1 October 2008):

gamma is verified as being by the original poster of the question

this is an update. now the guy is calling me and saying he let the best thing go and i told him there is many more in the sea and he said he doesn't think so. so he referring to me. and you know what he won't find anyone like me. i do know how to have a relationship and how to treat a man. too bad for this guy. because i woke up this morning feeling great just because he knows that he was just infatuated with his 19 year old and with his ego.see he never really knew me because all he could think of was his ego

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (23 September 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntThis is ridiculous, move on.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2008):

hlskitten agony auntso he's a pikey basically. Even more reason to be glad you haven't got him. Anyone that goes out their way to avoid paying for their children is a low life anyway. And its a classic the older guys that go for younger girls because they cant maintain relationships with women their own age, because they wouldn't put up with them.

c xxxxx

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A female reader, gamma United States +, writes (22 September 2008):

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all of the answers are excellant. the girl spends all night on the internet and you know she isn't on sites that tells her to get a job and rely on herself a little bit my bet is that she'll find some older man that has steady substansial income because this one just recently got a job underneath the table due to owing child support and lost his license because of it so long for him and his fantasy

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2008):

hlskitten agony auntHe sounds like a bozo. Wreckless and no ability to plan ahead. Had a lucky escape didn't you!

Blokes that allow themselves to be used are not emotionally stable and would make a bad relationship prospect.

c xxxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008):

sounds like a stupid old guy to me who obviously thinks with his balls, get rid!!

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