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He seemed interested at first but recently he's gone very quiet, I don't understand!

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Question - (21 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:


For the last few weeks i have been getting to know a guy, who i have been liking more and more. I'm a little confused as he seemed very interested about a week ago now hes gone very quiet, do you think hes losing interest?

A couple of my friends know him and say to not bother with him and that i can do so much better but i cant help liking him. I havent done anything wrong so i dont know why hes being so distant. I would ask but i dont want him thinking im really paranoid and push him away even more.

What do you think i should do?

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A female reader, mcbirdie United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2008):

mcbirdie agony auntI know it's a hard thing to do, but when he is pulling away, let him. If he is quiet, match his quiet and fill your time with other things.

I'm sure he's really great, but if you get yourself crazy you'll only make yourself miserable and make him run away faster. If you give him some distance, he may realize what he is missing out on and come running. If he doesn't, then you will have spent your time on better things.

The important thing to remember is that no matter how much we like someone, if they're a match for us, they'll like us just as much. And if they do like us as much as we like them, then they'll find a way to show it. If they don't, then it's best to not get terribly invested.

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A female reader, 08kizi89 United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2008):

To be honest i think, by the way he is acting, he already has a gilfriend somewere! I think e was after a bit of no strings fun!

Sorry if this hurts you but believe your friends and ignore im bk hun, there are plenty more fish in the sea!


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