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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. The first month was amazing. He was super cute, and sweet but lately (after we started having sex) he's been putting his friends and his video games before us and our relationship. I don't know what to do because I don't want to make him choose between me and his friends... how do I talk to him about this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for ur help.
I'm definitely going to talk to him about this. I want to let him know that I need just as much(if not more) attention as his friends and games, but without being to bitchy or naggy. thanks a bunch for ur advice
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 just sit down with a bar of chocolate. pig out on it and talk to him just say something like "is it alright if we spend more time together" even suggest u join in the video games if that works (i did, it worked for me), if not then i will think of some other bits for you lol :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): hunn i am pretty much in the same situation. you don't want him to feel like he has to choose because that just isn't right but you should really try to talk to him about this because communication is the best way to get something out in the open. you really got to make him realize how it makes you feel and that you want to spend time with him and you want it to be special because you really like him or love him or whatever.a guy should never put you as his second priority and if he really does care for his friends that much then he needs to put both you and his friends as his equal priorities and make the same amount of time for the both of you.
i hope this helps!!!!!!! :)
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