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writes:why would a guy say one minute he wants to be "a friend" but say he used to have feelings for you more than any other girl?next minute he avoids you.. then talks to you .. then tries to hold your hand/be touchy feely..and always hugging you for a long time..at one point he got close to me and put his forehead on mine (but looked really confused)I need a guys advice here coz this has been going on for months ..does this guy like me "as a friend"..then whats with the mixed signals? most of my friends thinks he likes me but his hot/cold behaviour is really upsetting me for months now.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): He seems quite confused himself! He did say he liked you as a friend and USED to care about you as more than that, so until he makes it clear that he feels otherwise, just take it as friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno he def does not have a g.f..hes been single for ages
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reader, Ed1337  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Has he actually asked you out at all? I would understand if you rejected him and he started to act funny towards you, but if he hasn't even made a move then i'm not sure whats wrong with him.
Perhaps he has a gf, but isn't happy with her, or maybe he just thinks your not interested in him and hes too scarred to actually ask you.
It sounds like you need to have a chat with him, don't let him play with your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): He's blowing hot and cold probably because he's unsure of he's own feelings. Isn't it easier for you to just ask him whether he really likes you than figuring out what he's up to? After all, we can't read people's mind.
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