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writes:Well me and my boyfriend have been getting pretty far in our relationship, sexually wise. On our last make-out session, we both took off our shirts. He wanted to take off my bra. I told him no because I'm not altogether comfortable with the way my boobs look. I'm a B cup and my boobs kinda look like they belong on an ape. They're all pointy and not round like normal boobs are(I briefly looked at porn to see what they should look like). I really don't want him to ba all disgusted when he eventually sees them. Any help? From guys, especially?
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reader, spideypoopfart +, writes (14 November 2008):
I wouldn't advise comparing your boobs to porn because the women in porn do not have boobs that normal women have. All boobs look different and they're all beautiful. I used to be self conscious about my boobs too, but I've become comfortable with them. check out this website: http://www.007b.com
It has pictures of what normal women's boobs look like and I think it'll help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): speaking from the guy's perspective I have NEVER been disappointed with any breasts - relax it'll be fine.
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reader, molly4  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 do not look at porn! those boobs are not natural! if hes a good guy he will be lucky to get to see them and is probably really excited! but dont do anything you dont want to do, and dont rush!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): dont worry about that if he really cares for u the size of your boobs shouldnt matter to him just be confident about yourself
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Double M is completly right
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reader, Cowboy +, writes (13 November 2008):
Sorry if this is a repeat answer, my browser messed up.
I see a lot of boobs during the course of my work, and your description sounds like normal young girl boobs.
They often do look a little 'pointy' when you're young, but this is definitely not a bad thing!
I think the reason that your porn research didn't give you anything useful is a combination of a few factors:
Porn stars are generally at least 18, by which time their breasts will be more developed and rounder
Porn stars will often be chosen for having big boobs, which are usually rounder. Don't feel bad about this, I certainly don't feel bad for not having a 9" penis! Not everybody does or should look like a porn star.
Porn stars often have breast implants.
I (and a lot of other men) don't like fake boobs. I'm seeing a girl with implants at the moment and they are not even close to being as nice as the real thing.
I bet you $47,000,000 that he won't be at all disgusted, and will in fact be overjoyed when he finally gets his hands on them!
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reader, MissUnique +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Ok, you've probably heard this a million times but everyone is different. Your boobs are fine, you're only a teenager so you're changing and growing up. Also, porn is never a good source, it's fake and kinda depressing. Don't try and learn and compare yourself to them :) Also, you need to seriously think about what you're doing, you're at an age when exploring is fine, but please don't go to the whole thing :)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 I'm with Double M. I will also add that what looks "ape" to you might look "great" to another person.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (13 November 2008):
 First of all, pornography is not a good source for comparison of anything, in my opinion. And since you are underage and certainly not fully developed, you should chill-out over the next four or five years regarding any serious sexuality. When you attain the age of consent, you are most certain to be beautiful in all feminine ways. Your biggest mistake would be to rush it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): You looked at porn to see what they should look like?! Trust me hun pornstars aren't what you should look like they're fake. Your breasts are normal and you should be happy with them seriously lookin' at porn to see what they should look like is a big no-no.
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