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writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for almost seven months now and we used to hang out all the time and spend time together, but now lately hes been acting really strange and I dont know what to do, everytime I try to talk to him we just end up getting in a fight, and I've tried just about everything to get it the way it used to be, like when we first met he was so sweet and it's been that way but these last couple weeks hes been acting way different and we haven't hung out in almost three weeks!Every time I try to ask him if he wants to hang out he makes all these excuses saying oh I'm the only one with the key and I have to let my sister in the house and saying he's still grounded but this weekend he was hanging out with his guy friends and on Saturday he stayed the night at his friend's house but when I brought that up to him he said oh yeah for some reason to my parents, my guy friends don't count and some other things he said was his parents told him to go straight home after school, and today he was like oh yeah I probably with everything at home won't be able to see you for like four months besides at school, and I've tried asking everyone about it and I really don't know what to do. Somebody tell me what you think I should do or say to him now?????:[ Reply to this Question
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reader, shaaaaaa  +, writes (13 November 2008):
looks like he's cheating on you.. its sad but its clear he is avoiding u. if u ask him and he still refuses to answer properly then maybe its time to move on and not hurt yourself.. cos thats all that this will do to u if he cares no more
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (13 November 2008):
 It sounds like he is cheating on you. Not the answer you want to hear, I know. That or he has met someone else and wants to see where it is going before dumping you. I have been there unfortunately. Even if this is not the reason, he has clearly lost interest and it should not only be on you to fix this relationship. He doesn't care about it anymore and it's just hurting you more to try so hard. It hurts like hell and it's very sad but you deserve better. Let someone chase you and care about if they lose you or not, cause he doesn't. Good luck and feel free to email me if you need to.
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reader, staceyxxx  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Maybe he has lost intrest or he has done some thing with another girl and he feels he cannot confront you.There lots of reasons why boys avoid girls, you just need to sit him down and say to him look whatever happens i will accept any thing but i need to no why you are avoiding me, ask him if he has cheated or he just dont want to be in a relationship with you. Don't jump straight into it make sure the moment is right or he wont speak up, get him alone and dont asked him infront of his friends cuz he will not tell you.good luck hope my advice helps :)
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