A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I haven't been intimate with anyone for almost 5 years. Since this time I have become a little self conscious about my body. I am afraid when I do have sex that it will hurt and that my partner will be disappointed in the fact that I am not better because of the pain. I am also afraid of bleeding.Along with worries about the actual act I am worried that the next person I sleep with won't find my body attractive. I am thin. I am about 5'3 and weigh about 105, but I have some stretch marks on my backside that I think are unsightly even though they have faded white.Am I worrying too much about all this? I would be interested in any advice from both men and women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): Find someone who truly cares for you and will be understanding and make you feel relaxed. At least you don't put it about with just anyone - a lot of people would appreciate that. Take time to get to know that special person properly.
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