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writes:I love my boyfriend, but he is a little more aggressive than the guys I've dated previously. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, I just find it hard to say no to him. I have not felt like saying no to anything so far, but I'm only 15 and don't really want sex. I love him more than anything. How can I say no to him when it goes to far without hurting his feelings? Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (13 November 2008):
 NO.
Just like that.
He needs to respect your wishes. Your body, your rules. If he DOESN'T, then HE IS WRONG! Forcing someone else to do more than you want isn't Love, Dear, and you should NEVER submit to being in a position where you have to Prove your love to a boy by going farther than you wish to, EVER!!!! If he cared for you, he would respect your feelings.
I'm a bit worried for you, dear. Please don't put yourself in a position where you are alone, without someone in earshot. And make sure that someone always knows your whereabouts. Take good care of yourself with the decisions that you make for yourself. Your Mom can't always be with you and she worries about you. XXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): Tell him before he asks that you aren't ready for sex. He has no right to pressurise you, so if you want to say no, then say no!
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