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I'm trying to work out if I should be worried or if my insecurities are shining through.

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Question - (17 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm trying to work out if I should be worried or if my insecurities are shining through.

My new girl that I have known for 5 months and been going out with for 6 weeks met my friends today and we all had a nice time. Problem is, she spent the whole time talking, agreeing with and laughing at crap jokes with a guy I know but is more a friend of a friend. He's a pretty intelligent good looking guy too.... Now I'm worried. Is this inevitable when meeting a group of mates and am I just being jealous or should I be concerned?

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A female reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (18 December 2008):

SoftlyCaress agony auntJust give her the benefit of the doubt dont be so quick as to think she might step out on you .Us girls can sometimes lol at silly crap jokes just to be friendly not to flirt or anything .So just relax and give the girl a chance ..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008):

This can always happen, anon, when groups get together. She may have just been trying to "fit in" with your friends to please you. She may have thought the guy was a closer friend than he is. I would not be overly concerned. You are very early yet in your relationship. Give it more time. This is a time to learn the other person's real interests and personality.

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