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writes:I know this is going to sound stupid but I have only ever slept with one guy and thats my boyfriend and he was always on top now he's asked me to go on top but I dont know what you do...I know this sounds stupid but could somebody please tell me what I do.Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, ms.lady +, writes (20 December 2008):
Don't feel stupid! I remember the first time I was "on top"- it was awkward at best, but I persisted & grew to LOVE it.
First of all, ENJOY yourself- there's no wrong way about it. I have tired just about everything I can get my body to do- facing my partner, facing away, laying on him with my legs on or next to his, squatting so that my legs support all my weight and the only part of me that is touching him is what's wrapped around his member... I buck, I rock, I grind, I bounce, I play with my clit & my pussy lips, I rub his cock with my fingertips... pretty much anything that I think will feel good at that particular moment. You might very well feel shy at first, but if it's something you want to try, you'll find a way to work up the nerve to give it a go. Good luck! Have fun & be safe!
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reader, daletom +, writes (17 December 2008):
Take a look at the old threads "What does a girl do when she's on top?" at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-does-a-girl-do-when-shes-on.html and "What do men like their woman to do while on top??" at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-do-men-like-their-woman-to-do.html .
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reader, His girl  +, writes (17 December 2008):
There are so many way to have sex that the possibilities are endless, but there are four basic postitions to work with. Him on top, her on top, from behind, and sitting face to face. Him on top (missionary) is the easiest and the most intimate. Her on top (cowgirl) is more fun as the man has full access to her body. He can play with her breasts or run his hands down and play with her clit. Get your boyfriend to lie flat on his back and slowly lower yourself on to him. If you lean forwards slightly, you'll find it easier. After you can play around with the rhythm, the speed and how deep he goes. If you kneel with your legs on either side of his hips, you get to control eveything. You can move side to side, backwards and forwards, and up and down. You can play around with that conbination of movements til you find the one that suits you both best. From behind (doggie style)is good too, as it puts a new sort of pressure on your g-spot. (That is an area of very sensative tissue about 2 and 1/2 inches inside you that can case very powerful orgasms) You can knee with you back straight, with your head down, you can stand holding on to something, the edge of the bed or the wall. Sitting face to face is a very intimate thing too as you can kiss and look into each others eyes. it give the best stimulation as it puts pressure on your g-spot and on your clit, that combination makes for some big powerful orgasms.
i hope this has helped a bit. There are some very good websites around that can give you more ideas, like sexuality.org, look at 'A new look at sex' as that has all the info you could ever want and more. And remember, sex is supposed to be fun.
His girl
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reader, angie_luvs_92 +, writes (17 December 2008):
 lol no its not stupid, i have been in that position too, and im 15 as well...
this might sound weird rather than stupid, but all you do is get on top and ride..
by ride i mean jus rock your body forward and backwards..and up and down if your able to...
and if thats not comfortable, then just slowly go up and down on him, (they like that alot)
but dont worry, its a lil weird at first, but youll like it alot better than being on bottom
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