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Was I too hard on her after our argument?

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Question - (17 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend's mom didn't want her when she was 1 years old. She had foster parents after foster parents. She's a bit sensitive about it.

Well one day we had this huge fight about me working too and not spending enough time with her. Then (it somehow to our family lives) she called my mom a cow, after that I'm like "well at least I have a mom instead of her not wanting me". She stormed out of the house (we're living together) ended up sleeping at a friend's house. Is she overreacting about this?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008):

i agree wiv Fade878 u think she is overreacting wen NO

u hurt her more than urself maybe u should think about how hard it was and is for her because her mother didnt want her maybe u should go to a foster home for a whlie and see how hard it is to fit in wiv another family

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A female reader, loub United Kingdom +, writes (18 December 2008):

Yeh u were too harsh, u could have just asked her y ur mum was a cow or told her she wasnt. thats a childish insult, u should probably think before you speak lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008):

"well at least I have a mom instead of her not wanting me"

Don't play stupid babes, you know this comment was nasty, hurtful and below the belt. Now your girlfriend feels unwanted, like the worse piece of crap in the world. If you wanted to hurt her badly, well guess what.. you are the winner and deserve a prize..

Aren't you nice boasting about the fact that you have parents, you have people too much too give you away. Real nice guy ain't you, ain't you lucky, you get to look down on people that have less than you..

Don't be an idiot.. go and apologise and tell her your an idiot.. You have more than her, what makes you think it's nice to rub her face in the mud. If you must fight, please fight fear. Your the winner, you hurt the most, but as a nice human being, you stand to come in last. Apologize to that girl and tell her your sorry. Isn't that what your mother would expect you to do?

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