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Boyfriend - bestfriend troubles...break up,or stay and lie ?

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Question - (17 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Please Help !

I don't know what to do, I've been coping on my own for so long, I have a boyfriend, I've been with him 2 months on xmas eve... we have been together before, quite a few times but I have always broke up with him mainly because I realise I don't love him, or even hardly like him...

I've got to that stage again and I know I should end it and end it for good but I don't want to be alone because when I am, I get with his friend (who is also a very good friend of mine) but not for love, for stupid things... but I find that fun !

My boyfriend doesn't excite me like his friend does and I can't be with his friend...

Should I break up with him... and if so ...how?

please be kind!

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A female reader, sianybarney United Kingdom +, writes (17 December 2008):

sianybarney agony auntIf your boyfriend does not excite you anymore, then you should definately break-up with him.

The longer you leave it, the more heart broken he will be and the more frustrated you will be.

And whatever you do, dont decide in a few months or whatever that you want him back again. This is just cruel and basically this would be playing games with him.

Good luck x

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A female reader, mzdiamond United States +, writes (17 December 2008):

mzdiamond agony auntwell, you should just break up with him and get with his friend...so you wouldnt be hurting anyone...maybe his friend treats you better of givesyou that thrill your boyfriend can..the worst thing youcan do is lie though...you need to sit down and think about everything and make a clean cut desicion. n respect ur body!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008):

Break up with your boyfriend. It's not fair on him for you to be with him, and go no where near his friend!

You should be alone, and wait until you find someone that actually does it for you.

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