A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I will keep this brief. I met a man who, over time, I fell deeply in love with. He then went through a stint of depression that was very taxing on the relationship. As he comes out of this difficult time in his Life, he is needier and more insecure than I have ever experienced with anyone in my Life. On a daily basis he asks me if I would cheat on him. On an hourly basis he actually accuses me of being unfaithful. I have been cheated on before and I have explained to him that the feeling that he creates inside of me when he constantly falsely accuses me of infidelity hurts more than actually being cheated on. If I do not have my phone on me at all times, he thinks that I am doing something to hurt him. While he was depressed he was extremely verbally abusive and I know that as I unfold the feelings that he created inside of me that I will have some major issues to deal with myself. I have explained to him that I would never do anything to hurt him. I have showed him through my pure love that I would never do anything to hurt him. How much is too much and am I being unreasonable for having a shorter fuse for his damaging behaviors?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008): End the relationship it is making him ill and now affecting you.
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