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Archived questions from: 23 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

HOW do I find the right guy???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I need some advice ! :) you see i tend to get used a lot, either that or guys just want no strings attached sex with me. i cant seem to attract guys in the way they want to go out with me or go on a date with me . They just want sex or a thing wi...

What matters?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - So I've been around with confusion, what matters to a girl? I've heard size. I've heard Technique. I've heard Stamina. Which one is the one that actually matters, I heard size doesn't matter too much as long as you're around 6 in, Technique I have ...

Too soon to kiss???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I'm going to the cinema with a girl who I like and who likes me, is it too soon to kiss her or not?...

Do you think he thinks I like him more than as a friend!!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 23 and have been single for a few years now, though I have been on casual dates with a few guys in that time. I have got to know a man whose son I look after at nursery over the last six months. He asked me months ago if he could give me...

Has too much time passed for me to tell her how I really feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I was in a very long relationship that ended last December. She started seeing someone else, but then was on again off again (talk of reconciliation, then not) with me until last May when she became official with this guy(despite saying weeks ...

Help, what is wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - My brother's older mate said I could use his account to ask a question quick just to clarify... I'm 15, gay and out and I find it hard to put myself out there to find a boyfriend since I broke up with my ex. Not sure if this is relevent b...

All I want is to be a husband, I just realistically never see it happening.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Hello. Well I'm 20 and Irish, i study physics and play guitar. I've always been single, have never had any sort of a relationship, date, kiss, whatever. Granted, im by no stretch of the imagination attractive, atleast Ive never known anyone to fancy ...

Is he going to pop the question soon???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - so here latley i met some of my boyfriend's family and ive been staying with him a lot. we are expecting and we are both 18 but here's what im wanting to know. Every time he tells me he loves me i say it back but then he says he loves me more so ...

22 years old and still virgin. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I dont know what to do anymore. I feel like I dont fit anymwhere. I just turned 22, and I've never, I mean never had sex or having a girlfriend, what am I doing wrong? It wasn't so important to me before, when I was in highschool. I was a good stu...

I don't want to ruin what we have already but I really want to be with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - First of all, I am 16 and male. I fell for my best friend(girl). We have been best friends forever but whenever i am with her now, i love it and when im not, I cant stop thinking about her and sometimes just feel like crap cause i am not with her. ...

Will the pain lessen in time, when having sex with my boyfriend???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (?) - A few days I slept with my boyfriend for the first time. We had sex five times throughout the evening and morning. I am not a virgin, but have not had sex in just over a year. (He was a virgin.) My first lover was rather small. But when I lost my ...

Am I in love or just loving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I've been dating a girl for a little over three months now. We get along incredibly. We have similar senses of humor, family background, philosophical connections, appreciation of art and music, and are physically a good fit. When I first met ...

Should I block him on Facebook and move on...????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Hi guys, I really need some advice. I met a guy a couple of months back, we started seeing each other until a couple of weeks ago. He is in the military and based 400 miles away. He did not want to have a long distance relationship as he thought ...

Is "our bond" strong enough to last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Okay, so I guess this is my "love story" and I want opinions. Ive known this guy for many years like 5 or more and hes my brothers best friend or used to be. Him and I recently started talking and we got extremely close in a matter of days. Ive had ...

Fake Profile...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Hello all.. Last week, I had went against better judgement and "tested" my boyfriend with a fake profile. (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-fell-for-the-the-fake-profile.html) Although he did message back and forth a bit, he didn't...

We have a beautiful daughter and a nice house, why would he want to put that in jeopardy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My Fiance and I will be together 8 years in May, we have a beautiful daughter who will be 4 in March, we have a house together that we bought 4 years ago. My Fiance recently found an old girlfriend on Facebook and he has be chatting with her for ...

We're toxic in a relationship because of the stuff going on around us. Is it possible to remain friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I started seeing a man a year and a half ago. He was separated but not yet divorced. It was and still is a messy custody battle, and his ex has been diagnosed with personality disorders. This man's life is not stable at all. We have broken up a...

I am baffled and feel really awful. Anyone have any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Maybe someone out there can help me figure this situation out. I am rather puzzled. Last nite my BF of 2 years and I texted back and forth, the usual hello, etc. Then he sent me a couple of risque pictures of himself. I was super excited about ...

I feel they are divorced so they should act like it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating a man for well over a year, we are both divorced with kids. He still hangs out with his ex to do "family time", they go to dinner, movies all day outings and even sometimes they stay at each others houses. The other day he told me ...

He is sooo important to me. Should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - so I was in a relationship with my best friend for almost 4 months, in which it was beginning to get pretty serious. about 3 weeks ago we got in a fight because I "flipped out" on him but it was a huge whole misunderstanding.. and from then on we ...

Is this a good way to find out whether your male friend is sexually attracted to you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I used to be very naive when it comes to guys... I used to think that all of my guy friends genuinely want to be my friend (just friends/platonic one) when they told me,"hey,we are friends"...but once,when a guy friend of mine got drunk(a little bit ...

How to get along with boyfriend's little sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Me and my bf we've been together for almost 9 months now. We're both 18 this year. I have met his 22 year-old older sister (lesbian), 10 year-old little sister and his mother. How do I get along with his little sister? One thing for sure is he's ...

I'm so confused as to whether he likes me or not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Me and a few mates went into town a few weeks ago and we met up with someone we knew, but he had a friend that i got on with. We exchanged numbers and we started texting. After a few weeks he asked me if i wanted to meet up, which i did. It went ...

Am I being too jealous or should I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a photographer. I was looking at his messgaes and one of his collegues messaged him, i looked and it turned out he was flirting with her and offered her sex. I looked through his other messages and he told another girl that he loved ...

I'm at a loss and stuck between my boyfriend and my future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I am 25 have been with my 28 year old boyfriend for a total of 6 years, (we dated for 3 years, broke up for a year, and have now been back together for almost 3 years). Most of the relationship has been long distance, as I was going to school in a ...

I'm severely depressed about my weight gain and not feeling attractive to my man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Ok i have a few things to get off my chest and need solid help!!I've been with my man for about 9 months now we are very much in love but recently i have put on a few pounds and I'm starting to feel as if he is less attracted to me we have went from ...

Boyfriend at uni 200 miles away and I rarely see him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend moved to uni, 200 miles from me.. ever since his been down ther ive always asked him to come down or ill go down to him.. its been 5months since he left and in that time ive only seen him twice... ive spoken to him about this and h...

My boyfriend's signed up to dating sites - please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. A year in, I found he was signed up to a dating-type website, confronted him and he said it was to look at pictures while masturbating. He understood why it upset me and he stopped doing it. A few times si...

Am I over thinking this or is he not that serious about us and doesn't see any real future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I am in my mid thirties. I am seeing a guy with the past year. He is very reluctant to meet my family(my sister lives up the road) I did meet his family at xmas after alot of fighting on my behalf. On one occassion he was dropping me off at my ...

He says he feels like him and his current gf, are 'just friends'..what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - okay, so my friend is not feeling his relationship and he came to me for help . he says that he isn't feeling his relationship because it feels like him and his girlfriend are just friends, what does that mean ?...

My fiance jokes all the time. He's never serious anymore. How should I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My fiance always jokes. I am a humorous person and I like to joke, but not as much as he does, which is all the time. For example, when I call to say good morning he answers, “and what do you want now?”, and laughs. I know he loves me so much, ...

My boyfriend's brother plays footsie with me under the table. Is he flirting with me and how serious is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - How serious is footsie as a flirtation tool? My boyfriend's older brother keeps trying to play it with me under the table during dinner (and I'm usually sitting next to my boyfriend). Whilst I admit I have feelings for him (albeit, physical ones) ...

Will she realize and understand how much I cared for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - She’s in a relationship with her bf for almost 5 years. Her bf is possessive and controlling. He has slapped her once before, hurt her emotionally, and she has cried many times. She broke up and patched back many times. She started having feelings ...

Pregant and scared of my dad's reaction...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - i am 10 weeks pregnant and it has just started to sink in after finding out a few weeks ago. My partner in over joyed and i told my mum the other day who is also pleased at becoming a grandmother. However she did say that my dad will be sad and ...

At one point he told me he loved me but now he won't even speak to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - just recently reconnected with a ex that I was deeply in love with. He was in love with me as well but things did not work out and we went out seperate ways. We were Emailing and then he gave me his phone # and this then lead into texting. In the ...

I'm a mature student and I am attracted to my college tutor. He seems interested, but I am confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Help needed please! I am a bit confused by the signals that this man is sending out to me...I have been extremely attracted to someone for about four years, but never told him or really showed it in any way. He is four years older than me and my ...

Would I look like a loser, if I gave her a bunch of presents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Ok I m in a sort of dilemma. Please help me out. I really like this girl and I proposed to her like 2 times in a period of 1 year. And both times she rejected me saying she had no feelings for me. And yet she still remained friends. Her bday is in...

He's 23, I'm 40, we had a fleeting relationship, but now he's suddenly decided he wants space and has taken off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Ok in october 2010 I moved into a new neighborhood, directly across the street was a gorgeous younger man. I have been living with someone for 2 1/2 yrs in a "relationship" but he treated me crappy but was helping me pay for college, so I exsist...

Is his heart open for me or is his ex still in it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - New relationship - 2 1/2 mos. - background he was in a 17 yr relationship, she broke up with him due to different interest/finding herself. Its been 2 yrs and he still has photos of her on his phone and computer. Seems to me that would remind him ...

What should I do.... I am so in to her???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - How do i cope with a girl im so much interested on and the girl is jsut hanging out with me but keep on telling me one thing that she just broke up with his boyfriend and need time to get over her past relationship since January. ...

She tells me she loves me, but she hasn't stopped hanging out with this other man! Should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, After three years of being with my girlfriend, things have somewhat fallen apart. Throughout our relationship we have faced challenges, most of them from her children going through that 'rebellious' stage and causing us both a lot of...

How do I meet someone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

23 February 2011 (?) - Dear Cupid..... hi, i'm 16, i'm lesbian and i need a girlfriend! How do i meet someone??? i've crushed over loads of girls now, older and younger and i'm feeling really really horny a lot of the time. I touch myself a lot, but i want more now, do ...

My friend and my boyfriend are messaging each other, should I break up with him or ignore it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My BF and I are totally in love he even asked me to marry him. I told him I would in a few years and we have planned everything out..............Now his parents are a little iffy about him and me dating. Not only b/c of that but b/c he is two years ...

The girl I want is not interested, but the girl who I don't love is begging me to be in a relationship with her! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - pls advise me the girl i wanna date is not showing she loves me but the one i dont love is begging me to go into relationship with her! pls am afraid sumbody help...

How do I tell my younger friend I am not interested in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I've been friends with a junior for a month or so and he's a year younger than me. Recently he told my classmate he likes me and if I ever accepted him I'd be his first girlfriend. But the thing that bugs me is the age gap. While one year might not ...

What can I do to solve my emotional problems, and why do girls seem to dislike me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I am a 20 going on 21 male living Indiana. I have a problem, ive never had a relationship really. I have had 2 girlfriends but they were just toying with me, and all it did was make me feel bad. Im attending a commumity college, and have been for ...

Almost 20 and still having trouble with relationships, is this abnormal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I'm almost 20 years old and I still have trouble with relationships. All through highschool I wanted to date but for some reason it never worked out! I drive myself nuts over this because the older I get I feel like I should be out more and having ...

How do you meet people when you're new in a city?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - A few months ago, my ex and I broke up. I'm in the process of moving to a new city, and I'm ready to get back into dating. My question is, how do you meet people when you're new in a city? I used to be shy, but I think I've become really confident ...

My ex girlfriend's ex husband wants to date me, and I like him too. How should we go about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Ok so right to it. My ex gf's ex husband is interested in dating me and I want to date him. Him and her have 3 children and he's a good father. He sees his children almost everyday and her also because the children live with her. How should we go ...

Should I ask her to take me back?

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23 February 2011 (M) - back in the beginning of the school year, i liked this girl. she was really sweet and seemed innocent and she's really hot - she could be a model. honestly one of the most gorgeous girls ive ever met. but she wasnt interested in me then. but a ...

Was I wrong to tell him we should continue hanging out as friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I met a guy through some mutual friends at a house party 4 months ago, and he had just gotten out of a 2 year relationship a few weeks prior. The breakup was "straight forward" so to speak - no unresolved feelings and he did not want her back. ...

Should I remind her how I feel for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Hey I'm sorry if there won't be as much detail as you may need but I'm gonna say as much as I can, I'm 17 year old guy, I've never been in a relationship before even though I hang out with alot of girls at the college I go to, and at the moment ...

Which one, which one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - There is this guy who just recently started to talk to me. I know him and used to go to school with him. He sent a Facebook message saying he missed me. I really like him but i have a boyfriend (who i never see) i love them both. Who should i pick?...

Does she like me or not? Is she just playing hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4815 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Hey, So theres this girl i like, and i can't keep her out of my mind, shes basically in my eyes perfect for what i like in a girl. i've had a long 2 and a half year relationship which totally broke my heart and any girl i've met since has been a...

If he doesn't want a relationship then why is he going on dates?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Hi there, I met this guy about 6 months ago, we are really close friends, he has helped me through so much and I've been there for him whenever he needs help. But lately I've really fallin for him. I've told him my feelings and he's said to me ...

If I backhanded a guy is it obvious that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - If I slap a guy I like is it obvious if I like him(Joe)? I back handed Joe across the face for breaking my heart by asking me out and not doing anything about it Now his friend (Rick) which is one of my bgf's likes me but I don't have any feelings ...