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Dating: Help and advice

Help!!! Is my boyfriend lying to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - What do you think? is my boyfriend lying to me? did he sleep with her? My boyfriend said he wanted a break from our relationship to clear his head. I gave him space. He rang me lots, left me voice messages and when he still couldn't reach me he em...

How can I look and feel more sexy for my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 and ive been with my boyfriend for around a year and a half, I'm a size 14 but really hate my body, I know my boyfriend loves me and my body but i see him looking at other girls on facebook and stuff, I feel like i cant satisfy him, we hardly ...

We differ in opinion and he calls it a day nearly every few weeks now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a guy who lives 50 miles away and we only meet at week-ends due to work commitments. We have both had problems adapting as we have both lived alone for years. When we used to argue I would get up and leave and go home. I ...

10 Things Guys really want in a woman...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - I received a message from a friend on my Facebook fan page and she had an idea for a post for my blog. She inquired if I could write about what men want in a woman. I thought that this might be interesting as well, so I responded to her message and ...

Do men treat their girlfriends differently???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Do men treat their girlfriends differently? If so, why? I broke up with my ex just over a year ago. I thought I was getting over him quite well until I saw some photos of him on a social networking site with his new girlfriend. She talks of...

How can I reassure her she has nothing to worry about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - All my best friends are female, and this majorly bothers my girlfriend, who has major trust issues. I was wondering if there was any way for me to effectively ease her worries or is this something she has to deal with herself? ...

16 years and our sex life is rare now! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner now for 16 years we have a son and both have baggage from our past for the last couple of years our sex life has become rare! But a lot of this was down to me medically but the last few months nothing at all, he recently ...

I can't live without him but my emotions are telling me otherwise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hello. Im 17 nearly 18 years of age and i have been with my boyfriend, Gunner for nearing 8 months now, i know that it isnt that long compared to others on here but i still love him. Recently i had quite bad PMS and it made me feel like i didnt love ...

Am I so naive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - I'm non religious but open minded. I loved a girl my age... not sure if I still love her... I am a gentlemean, polite, sincere, caring and loyal. I never insulted...or anything. I would always look out for her and respect her like no other. I bought ...

Just lost the woman I truly love... please help...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - hi, My name is Gerard, first off, me and my girlfriend broke up a few weeks ago, she;s dating this other guy now and we've been through this all before, over the past 6 years of being with her i've had to wait for her while she was with other guys ...

Does he still want to get back together after I moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been broken up for 11 days. we still talk everyday, but the thing i wanna know is. he told me that he wanted to get back together with me a few days ago but at the time i didn't wont to. i told him why and that was because...

How do I tell her we're moving too fast?

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2 February 2011 (M) - I recently got into a new relationship with a wonderful girl. She's very intelligent, caring, gentle, and has been so understanding towards me. My ex broke up with me in November and its been a tough few months getting over her. Overall, she ...

My "boyfriend" finally admitted he was married!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My "boyfriend" finally admitted he was married. I had suspicions and kept at him. He had denied it many many times and called me crazy, even when confronted with evidence. My friends and family were wonderful, supportive and stuck by me. He ...

I wanna stop gettin violent with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I wanna stop gettin violent with my boyfriend, when we get pissed off we tend too break things, an throw stuff, an say hurtful things, how did we get like this? I don't want every argument too have this outcome, an latley its been me doing it. Wats ...

I'm having trouble getting over her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - My ex and I broke up a month ago, and I'm having trouble getting over her. We broke up because we were in a long distance relationship that didn't work out. I visited her, and it was clear her feelings had changed. I still loved her, but she wan...

So frustrated! I want to have sex with him but HE wants to wait!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (?) - i am in this relationship there is a 8 year age gap. we have been together for 5 months and we love each other really much. but the thing is even though he is older he wants to wait for sex but well i want to fuck his brains out he is a personal...

We can't live without each other...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I love a guy.... We have been in a relation from past one and a half year. We both want to get married but my mom is like having caste n religion issues. Also the guy is not that handsome but his nature is worth million dollars. My mom sayin agreed ...

My boyfriend lied!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend lied, an I asked for advise on here an I got very good advise, an Iv been putting it too the test,an I went outside too smoke an I sat in his car, an his phone was in there so I know shouldn't of done it but I picked it up an went threw ...

Is it okay when in a relationship to hang around with the opposite sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - i just wanted to know is it okay to be in a relationship and hang out with the opposite sex?... ive been with my bf for quite awhile and i have guyfriends who want to chill but only as friends but i never can because my bf gets mad even if i ...

I get urges to call him after the breakup...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My boyfirend of 2 years just broke up with me 3 days ago and I feel horrible for many reasons. First, the break up was one of the most dramatic events of my life. It happenned in his place after we had a big argument over something stupid and he ...

My partner is jealous of me learning to dance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My partner of three years doesn't want me to go to dancing lessons because they change partners every few minutes. It is quite a common way for dancing classes to be, by changing partners. I have just started lessons but my partner can't go ...

My boyfriend wants to study overseas for 7 years. Should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I met in a tertiary instituition. We've been together for a year plus, and currently in our final year awaiting graduation. Naturally, we have our own plans after graduation. I plan to work locally. However, my boyfriend gave me a ...

Ex-boyfriend's friend wants me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I've got a situation where my ex-boyfriend's friend is asking me to date him. At first this friend did not about my relationship with my ex bf but since he's coming pretty strong on me.. i told him about it to avoid any kind of awkwardness. He said ...

I want him back after ditching him. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - well, i recently broke up with this guy lets call him 'JJ' and i broke up with him because my friends were putting lots of pressure on us and i didn't feel comfortable with it at all. the thing is, i know it ws a stupid reason to break up wit him...

Should I try to connect with this girl? Or should I try fight back my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - So i have an issue here. There is this girl i met here at college that I find to be more than just physically attractive. She is a very happy person, positive, smart, loves to smile and laugh, is patient and understanding, and many other things. She ...

How do I tell my mother that my 20 year old boyfriend, who she doesn't know about yet, has a 19 month old?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - hello, im 16 and a junior in high school, ill be 17 in 2 months. the guy im seeing is 20 and will be 21 in may. i really really like him a lot. he was friends with my ex boyfriend and thats how i met him. eventually me and my ex broke up and me and ...

I liked him less when he admitted having dated someone my mother's age

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - This guy that I'm dating has dated a much older woman in the past. I don't usually bring up past relationships for this very reason but it somehow came out and never did I think he would have dated 25 years older than him.(he's 25). I tried ...

He hasn't replied to my second text of the morning

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hi all, i need advice really, about something thats worryin me a little....... On new years eve I met a guy and had a one night stand with him. He was amazing. I really fell for him but was too shy to ask for his number, the next day he left, and I ...

Is there any way to tell if he has a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - are they any signs that you could tell if a man i am intrested in has a girlfriend . i know he not married he is a widowder has been for 10 years now . ...

He wants me back, but I've now slept with his best friend. I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I broke up with the guy I loved 2 yrs ago, due to circumstances beyond my control. I have never really gotten over him. Sometime last year I started hanging out with a friend of his and we ended up having sex. Now my ex bf is back, and wants us ...

I become depressed around my girlfriend and I'm not sure what to do about it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - i have noticed that every time I become depressed and insecure with my girlfriend. She rarely does anything wrong she just fools arround with me . I get really sensitive and serious around her alot. I noticed the more I loved her, the more depressed ...

She wanted space, broke up, and already she's in a new relationship. Why will she not answer my questions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - My ex of 25 months and I broke up but a week after we broke up she got into a relationship. She say with a dude she said was her friend. When I ask is she moving on, she won't answer my ? She wants our 8 by 10 photo we took, the promise ring, and ...

We've been talking online, but she hasn't called me. Where do I go from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - Hey there people... I have completely fallen for a girl that I met at a restaurant. I managed to get her name although I didn't ask for her phone number. I then found her on facebook and sent her an invite and she accepted right away. About a...

I want to be married soon, but we're in 2 different life stages. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - iam 24 and have a diploma and studying further. my girlfriend is 17 and still doing secondary education.iam planning to have a wife in early 2013. so do these differnces matter in a marriage life?what if she is selected for university studies,should ...

My boyfriend is having a hard time with the fact that I've been with another man before him. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have recently talked about having sex for the first time, he would normally wait until marriage but because we love each other and are both willing, he said we wouldn't have to wait(plus we are planning to get married in the next ...

I'm worried that he likes her and is over me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - So i've been really down these past couple of days and can't get this thing out of my head. Me and my boyfriend who i've been dating for 2 and a half years got a in a fight the other night. The next day i had his phone and he didn't know (i had to ...

He wants me to 'wait' for him. Yet we never talk. should I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I'm 19 and the guy that i'm taking to is "J" and he's 18. Well, me and J met in the city bus and the whole ride, he and I were staring at each other. To me it seemed to be for hours. At soon as we both got off at the bus station, i looked at him and ...

I want to take my time, get to know her, respect her before I can feel any love for her. Is that me being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - Some people fall in love quickly, but other people take a bit more time before they develop those kind of feelings for someone. If I met a nice lady and I didn't love her for a few months, but I respected and valued her, is that a sign of ...

Is it a bad idea to ask out a girl thats younger than me who has never dated before?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - I'm a 13 boy who goes to a really small school in mass. iv'e had 2 girlfriends in the past 2 years and they both ended in heartbreak. My relationships i had before were always so dramatic and romantic at the same time. I'm one of those helpless...

I dumped her, yet I'm turning into a wuss over her. What's a good action plan to get me coping again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - What is wrong with me? I broke up with a woman 16 months back but I'm obsessed with keeping tabs on what she doing. My obsession is taking over my life. I hardly eat, my condo's filthy, I don't go out. I feel like I'm married to my laptop and b...

Do we need some sort of help? my fiance and I have fought everyday since we started living together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My fiance and I decided to move in together, before we got married. We have only been living together a little over a week and already argued everyday. The arguments are usually really stupid but I feel like we just get on each others nerves. I k...

What things do guys say that they don't actually mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - dear readers this is a question sort of...for men to answer. (or possibly highly opiniated women) im kind of asking this for all the female population that randomly stmble upon this article. what things DO YOU guys say that you dont actually ...

That kiss meant so much to me, what did it mean to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4840 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hello all, I have been obsessing about this for days now and I would really love some advice. Ok so here is the whole story. I met this guy about 3 or 4 years ago and we were only friends through my boyfriend at the time. Well about a year and a ...

A lot on his plate or am I losing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I recently started seeing this guy. We met during our office Christmas party, we made out a few times that night! We've been out together a few times since then, he's usually send me texts every once and a while and would initiate the dat...

My boy friend has started being aggressive to me. Is dumping him the best idea?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend was great when we were friends but when we started going out he. Since then he's changed. He's started acting more aggresive, controlling, rude, ect. and when I wanted to talk to him about it, he broke up with me on Facebook and then ...

My mother hates him and I'm sick of sneaking around so I can see him. I need your advice please on what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I'm 14 years old. I currently just turned 14 in January, I may sound like a young and ignorant teenager, thinking I'm madly in love. I probably am just another one of those girls but, all I need is for you to rationalize with me. I'm 14, and I fell ...

Was he flirting with me, or was it something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Today i hung out with my friends and one of my friends invited my crush. So he was hanging out with us and we were hungry so we went to get some food. Then we all went back to the parking lot and he unlocked everyone else's door, except for mine...

I don't want our relationship to end on this sour note. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - I was in an odd relationship, I dated a wonderful girl for 1.5 years. We lived together, we had great and bad times, but we loved each other. She moved to Georgia after college to be with her family. I stayed in Wisconsin for I had a job and house. ...

My cold hand in his warm hand generates sweat! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - my new bf asked me if i like holding hands HOW DO I TELL HIM THAT when something cold (my hand) gets warm (his hand) it generates water (in my case water = sweat) and i cant help it what do I do!?...

Whenever I think about telling him I love him, I cant help thinking about this girl he might have cheated with!

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2 February 2011 (F) - k this guy ive been dating him for about 3 and a half months now and we have NEVER been in a fight. everything is just perfect. but theres been so much drama!! first this chick, his ex gf, this fat ugly whore that wouldnt leave me alone! she ...

I said I'd propose, but I'm not ready!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now in a long distance relationship. There's about a 700km distance between us but we still manage to see each other nearly every month. Ever since we started going out, she's brought up engagement an...

How to tell my boyfriend that I want to keep my baby?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I am not really seeking advice, just wanted to get things off my chest. Any comments however will be taken into consideration and welcomed. I am very much in love with a man, well at this point I am not sure what it is anymore. I wish I could jus...

What should we do for our anniversary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, i have a bf who i've been with for 4 months and its about to be 5 on a special day...VALENTINES DAY:) I have no idea what to do to celebrate Valentines Day and especially our 5 month anniversary. What should we do? Any ideas will help ...

I've had boyfriends, but how do I find my first girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4840 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I have had several boyfriends and I have kissed and messed around with girls. But I want a relationship with a girl, I want a new experience and a different kind of love. The problem is that I live in a small town and I haven't met any lesbians or ...

I don't know if I should end it now to avoid being upset in the future...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I am in yr11 at school and I am going out with this guy (John) who is in yr12 (lower 6th form) and we have been going out for just over 2 months now. About 2 weeks ago, John took me to one side and told me that he couldnt be with me anymore because ...

Confused about my boyfriend kissing another girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, my boyfriend of four years kissed another girl who was working at a restaurant about 1 year ago. He goes to this restaurant once in a blue moon because this older guy who helped him get a job treats him out to dinner when they...