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At one point he told me he loved me but now he won't even speak to me

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Question - (23 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

just recently reconnected with a ex that I was deeply in love with. He was in love with me as well but things did not work out and we went out seperate ways. We were Emailing and then he gave me his phone # and this then lead into texting. In the beginning he was all about this. I am involved and it hasn't been going all that great, and should have known better but something has drawn me to him again and I can not pin point it. We talked for a couple months about all the good times and of course bad, and as time went by some of the texting got a little rude at times, and I was ignored at times. We agreed to meet and then not and then again. So when we did meet up, he treated me so disrespecful and horrible. I don't get why. I ask if he had a girl friend a head of time, he said no. I ask if he was attracted to me he said yes. Please some one tell me what the change of heart is. Now he will not even speak to me at all. At one point he told me that he loved me. I am confused by this.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011):

I have met men that I have felt a connection with and one in particular dated off and on for years. I finally told him how I felt and he acted shocked. I was honest and told him to only contact me if he was serious about a long term relationship. We will always be friends but it was obvious to me it was only a physical connection. For your own good stay away from this guy. Also, he sees you are happy in another relationship and to some guys it's a game to see if they can get your interest back.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011):

He does not know what he wants - steer clear from him. If he really wanted to be with you he would make it clear, and you would have no doubt.

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