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writes:I'm almost 20 years old and I still have trouble with relationships. All through highschool I wanted to date but for some reason it never worked out! I drive myself nuts over this because the older I get I feel like I should be out more and having fun. It's tuff, who out there thinks this is "Not" normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 Answer me one question, what exactly is normal? Everybody is different and everyone lives there life in different ways there is no normal way to live your life. You are in control of your own life and therefore you can do whatever it is you want to do. If you want to go out and have more fun then call your friends and arrange nights out. If you want to date someone well then ask them out. If you want to meet new people then get out and about and do it. Remember you are in control. If you want something to happen you need to work on it for it to happen.
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reader, MissVee  +, writes (23 February 2011):
No matter what anyone says, most of us have at least two jobs, at least at one point in our lives: a day job, and a romance. Both can be tricky. The major difference is that one pays you, the other one costs you, financially and emotionally ;) Both benefit you, though, if you conduct yourself correctly.Relationships are never cut-and-dried. They'll always have ups and downs, good days and days where you want to accidentally on purpose sell your other half to Asian gangsters as spare parts. You're only twenty years old, and at twenty you don't have that many emotionally mature men to pick from who are in your age bracket. Like fruit, men take time to ripen up. Also like fruit, there are the prized peaches at the top of the tree, and the low-hanging fruit that isn't nearly as sweet... Hang in there, chicky - things won't seem nearly as difficult when you have a great guy to have fun with. It's just a matter of patience =)
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