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Archived questions from: 18 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Ideas please on everything I need to know on asking a girl out please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - There is a girl I like. I need ideas on how I should ask her out? I don't know whether to get her alone or what? I need some ideas. Answers from girls are much appreciated especially if you are my age. I need I ideas on how, where and what to say, ...

I'm the "other woman" and I want to get inside this guy's head - does he really love his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - It's a long story but here goes... I'm studying abroad in the Caribbean for 7 weeks. I made some friends before coming because I wanted to know a few people, and one of them and I agreed to meet. I agreed to come to his place just over a week ago....

Should I hold on to someone I love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - me and my girlfriend broke up recently because we are only 20, our priorites didnt match right now. and we obviously still have great chemistry (we spent three years builfding it before we dated). problem is she met someone new and while they are ...

Overlook with hope or ditch and disappear?

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18 February 2011 (M) - Hey peeps say you got fixed up with a gal or lad who you've taken a great liking to and that gal or lad feels the same liking about you but then a couple months or so in you got hold of evidence that the gal or lad had a long track record for ...

I've been thinking of telling him that I either want to take things a little slower or ending it entirely.

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18 February 2011 (F) - Should I stay or should I go? I've been dating a guy I work with for the last couple of months (but he's only really stepped up and done gentleman-like things a couple weeks ago). He took me out to dinner on valentine's day and bought me flowers. He ...

There's now an unspoken tension between us. How can we move forward from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for nearly a year and a half. We live together. We haven't had sex in over 8 months. The sexual relationship never seemed quite right to me, her body language always made it seem like it wasn't something she wanted to ...

Hotel sex capers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - I'm going to a hotel with my bf and i want to know of some positions and stuff we could do together. (I'm quite new at the whole sex thing, only really done missionary) We've already mentioned doing it in the shower and doggy... Any other ...

I'm losing him because of my anger issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 6 months and I think the absolute world of him. Earlier today though, I lost all control and smacked him twice. He stormed out of my house after. I've had troubles with my temper since I was a little ...

I've been feeling a bit lost and could use some advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I`ve been feeling a bit lost and could use some advice. I've never been in a serious relationship for, which is rare at my age. Even though I'm not ready to settle down now (I love to travel and I really want badly to see the world), ...

Considering all peoples' feelings makes it difficult to determine the right thing here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - So six months ago, me and my girlfriend of nearly 2 years split up for good. She’s written me out of her life, found a new group of friends so we wouldn’t ever cross paths, and in most aspects, will not acknowledge my existence. I can’t blame her, ...

Is it right to be this happy with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - ok so im so excited about being with J again, and he seems to be showing the same enthusiasm, but at the same time, i feel like i'm being tied down... i'm not used to being in a relationship tht i'm actually this excited about is the thing. usually ...

He's into really geeky stuff and I hate it! How do I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - so, i love my bf, right? but hes just a little too much like my step-dad. hes into swords, and anime and stuff like that. i hate all of that crap, but i dont know how to tell him that it makes him a geek... help me? please? ...

Do I have a right to feel wierd about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - My bf and I had just gotten to our 5 months when he had an emotional affair with a new female friend. Now all I ask is if he could tell me when he goes out with friends and I would do the same. Well during that whole period I found out he went with ...

I reckon she digs another guy... what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - It was going fine and everything, we would sit together hugging and kissing away most of our lunch times and then it must have been wednesday she just went a bit wierd, she wasnt at school and mentioned something about things happening and things ...

Ideas please! What can I do to get my relationship back with him. I do really miss him.

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18 February 2011 (?) - I have been living with my boyfriend for over a year and we both are much in love and can't live without each other. I am a uni student and it is my last year and he works full time which is very hard to have time to spend together. I know w...

How can I overcome these jitters?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - ive got a new boyfriend and its going well, on monday im going out with him and my two mates that like eachother, so in a way its a double date. but this is the first date ive ever gone on and im freaking out, i dont know what to wear, what to say ...

Why does everyone I talk to judge me about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - Okay.. I don't even know where to begin . Well im 17 years old almost 18 and when i met this boy when i had just turned 16 in 2009. I liked him and he said he liked me so we started dating, but i found out his ex was having his baby, but i tried to ...

Having trouble with going limp just before sex or during.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - I think I know why its happening but I just want to know how to get it right again. Can anyone PLEASE HELP??? The first time it happened was a few months ago where I was very hard and before I could get in I went limp. I'm very attracted to her s...

Girlfriend moved out but wants to try therapy!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - We met 1.5 years ago and only after 4 hours had an instant connection. She 29 me 39. We were both in relationships that were going nowhere. We both broke off our relationships, waited about a month and started dating. We didn't kiss or anything ...

The Ex blues...

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18 February 2011 (F) - I split with my boyfriend around 7 months ago, and i previously asked for help on trying to get over him. I took the advice on board and tried to get over him, but theres a problem. It seems to work, but then small things remind me of him and i ...

His porn watching is upsetting me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - Im 19 years old and away at university, my boyfriend is 25 and is at home working, we have constantly disagreed on subjects but this one has effected me the most, he likes to use porn as a masturbation aid, downloading around 50 porn video's I have ...

A fickle tale of love...

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18 February 2011 (M) - In 8th grade, I met this Girl. I thought she was extremely pretty and interesting. of course, I had no hopes of ever becoming involved with her, simply because I felt that I wasn't up to the standards of any girl in general. Little did I kno...

Why do this if she had a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - My best girl friend and I walk home from school almost every day and about 3 weeks ago we started holding hand and arms round waist when walking. Then she told me she had a bf so what was the point of all of the holding hands and being close?...

I don't understand why he would agree to see me and then act this way. Any thoughts?

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18 February 2011 (F) - I dated a man for 2 years and he decided to move on. I met someone new and have been with him for 13 years. 15 years later my ex came into my mind and I could not get him out. I started searching for him and found him, he moved out of town, we ...

How can I begin speaking to him again in a friendly way?

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18 February 2011 (F) - I went out with this guy for a short while in the summer but then we broke up and said that we'll still be friends and stuff but now we're not even on speaking terms which pains me greatly, seeing as we got really close. i would just like some ...

She likes me. How do I show her I like her too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - I have never been in a real relationship before and I know of a girl who likes me. This could be quite a real one but if I do get involved how do I show her that I still like her and that I dont push her away?...

What do you think of the poem and should I send it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - Im in a relationship for about 4 months. We have never fought, we just had miscommunicate sometimes. My Girlfriend got really upset about a text message which I sent to her. It was 8pm and I was very drunk and mad, because we had plans for ...

Which girl is better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - Girl 1. She is attractive quite popular and seems to be nice enough and I really like her. I have never spoken to her though:( Girl 2. Likes me in that way and is a nice person kind and funny. I don't like her in that way and she is not as p...

His timing has chanced where sex is concerned... Help!

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18 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together and having sex for about a year, and the sex is nothing less than amazing. He is a very generous lover, and he is always worried about bringing me to orgasm (several times) before he has his. On average, we ...

I need help getting over him!

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18 February 2011 (F) - Hello again and welcome back to all those who have read my previous posts. Background: (i'll do my best to keep it short) Was with a guy on and off for 3 and a half years. We went through a lot together, family deaths, separation, depression, illn...

Do you think it's ok for a boyfriend to flirt with other women on Facebook???

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18 February 2011 (F) - Do you think it's ok for a boyfriend to flirt with other women on facebook? My boyfriend used to flirt with other women during the time that we were broken up. We are together now, but he thinks it would still be ok to do that, as he said they would ...

Is it true that in a relationship the person who cares (loves) the least has the most power?

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18 February 2011 (M) - Is it true that in a relationship the person who cares (loves) the least has the most power? This to me seeems unfair. By this I mean that 'love does not conquer all'. It does not matter how strongly one feels love for the other, the one who cares ...

How can a man with small penis satisfy his girlfriend sexually?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - How can a man with small penis satisfy his girlfriend sexually? Any suggestions?...

I don't feel good enough for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost 4 months. I love her completely, she is the one i want to be with for the rest of my life but i'm facing a huge battle vs my insecurities and I'm trying to conquer them alone and it is destroying ...

Long distance love??

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18 February 2011 (M) - Well here is my story...its a little long but please!! read! :) I met a girl back when i was 16, she was 15...We were instantly attracted to each other..for a whole month we would spend so much time together, whenever i was with her it felt surr...

He's moved to Europe and I don't know whether I like him any more...

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18 February 2011 (F) - Right im really confused my boyfriend and i live in different countries and i well were in the same time zone for now but i really dont know what to do because he is moving to europe which is really far away. I'm confused because i dont know whether ...

I'm independent and I want to court him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - I really like a guy. We dont talk because we feel akward around each other. I live in a conservative family but im thinking of courting him even though im a girl.Is it ok? Or should I wait?...

We're on a break, should I leave him to it or get in contact?

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18 February 2011 (F) - Seriously need help!! I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now but we've been having some problems. As soon as he went back to university its like he forgot about me. He never text or rang and when i did attempt to make the effort its like he ...

My boyfriend so much wants to prove he can succeed and be successful to my parents. Any advice?

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18 February 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, I am 22 years old. I have 3 siblings and I am the only daughter in the family. I'm in a big dilemma now. I really love my boyfriend so much.. However, my parents don't approve of this boy. they consider him as not being of the same ...

Sex is sooooo boring now, how can we spice it up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I have been in a relationship with my partner for over a year now I am 18 and he is 20. We have been sleeping together for eight months of that time. He was my first and when we started having sex i wanted to do it all the time but as t...

He's so stubborn, I cannot get through to him!

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18 February 2011 (F) - dear aunt agony i was in a relationship with a guy for the past 3 years 7 months. at 1st we used to live in the same area and then he moved 2 joburg for work purposes.. we spoke about distance and tried to make it work, he came down for xmas and...

Is my boyfriend ready to make-out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - I am 13 years old and i don't know how to tell if my boyfriend is ready for me to snog him. I don't want to ask but when he kisses me i feel his lips press harder against mine and he opens his mouth slightly, but then he pulls away before I can ...

Does he love me or simply see me as his kid-sister?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - I know this guy since childhood. Family friends and he is 5yrs elder to me. We went to the same school but after he finished his schooling we haven't met much; hardly once or twice. I have always liked him and he is like my favorite since I was kid. ...

How should I go about saving this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - I have been together with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. We were very loving and have alot of happy moments together(we do quarrel at times). Last month, we had an arguement. He suddenly feels that he is tight down by me and he want his own space ...

I really love her. Do you think she could learn to want me to be the one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - Hey guys, so I love my ex girl friend. I would do anything for her. We broke up because she was confused about whether she loved me or not. We broke up twice with the same issue. She was confused, not knowing whether to pick me, or her best...

I have a crush on my bestfriends worst enemy.... What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - I happen to have a crush on my best girl friends worst enemy I dont know if I should tell her that I like this girl. Will this ruin our friendship or should I just not tell her?...

Amazing relationship until we learned his previous g/f was pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - I am looking to get advice strictly from those in a similar position. I have sought advice from friends, but as they can't relate, I feel like I am not getting sound advice. I am in a relationship of 6 months. We met online, and if not for this pro...

Do we try again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - So long story short, my last girl and i broke up and i suspected her of having feelings for her ex thus causing our break up. but she said she would never date him or feel that way about him again. and too my suprise...they started dating a month ...

How can I reassure her that she's not fat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (?) - how can i tell my girlfriend she is NOT fat or ugly? every time i tell her she's beautiful she gets mad at me because she thinks she is ugly. how can i show her she's beautiful how can i make her not think so negatively about her body?...

How do I overcome my lack of self-esteem and let him know I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (?) - I've liked this person( in this case,X) for about 2 years but never had the courage to go up to him and tell him. We're close friends now and even though I feel like I can communicate with him now, the horrors of him reacting negatively just stop me ...

Why DOESN’T my boyfriend take issue with anything I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - *Dave is great. We’ve been together for two years, and we’ve had a pretty smooth ride so far. He’s my first guy, and I’m thankful for the relationship I have with him. I love him dearly, and definitely see more years by his side. What stumps me, ...

He wants to be friends with his crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - hey i have a huge problem right now so my bf of ten and a half months we broke up the day after v-day, i broke up with him cuz i was mad he lied to me about gettin a ride home with someone and i found out the instead of him getting a ride home fro...

Is there any way that I can save this relationship? I've really messed up...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

18 February 2011 (?) - I really messed up and I need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend a little over a year. We have a 2 month old son and are very much in love. I have never cheated on him or even thought about cheating on him since the day I met him. We had ...

I feel SO strongly about him, but he has a girlfriend! I don't want to be hurt. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - There's this guy that I've been knowing for about 3 yrs now and I'm truly truly truly n love with him but he has a gf. Now let me tell how it all started. We met almost 3 yrs ago online and we were pretty much inseparable from that day. I reme...

I don't want to hurt the person who was so amazing to me for so many years. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - hello i have this male friend for 5 years..... during those 5 years i lost both my best friend and my father for cancer.... he stood by me all the time and helped me a lot ....he pulled my hair back when i cried, slept over to stay with me to make ...

How do I interpret his actions during gym class?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - Alright so I am in grade 10 this year. i was in my gym class and we were playing doctor dodgeball. i was one of the doctors, you know the ones that help people when they get tagged. well there was this one guy, we have only known each other for less ...

Now that I'm older, I have no idea what he saw in me at that age. How can I process this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - When I was 18, I began dating a man who was 25. At first my friends and family were wary of the age gap, but we clicked and he turned out to be the love of my life. I'm 23 now, he's 30, and we're still together. Throughout our relationship, I ...

He flirts with me ALL the time, but then other days doesn't want to talk to me. What does everyone think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - Alright, about a month ago I posted a ? on here about a guy that I am totally into. (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-acts-like-he-likes-me-but-always.html). Please read the first question because without knowing the whole story this new ...

I'm finding myself attracted to one of his friends! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - Okay so ive been dating this guy who is 5 years older than me for about 2 months. We're not in a serious relationship, but he told me that he is starting to fall for me. Anyways, so before we got involved with each other I hooked up with some of his ...

I'm going to school in another country and I haven't had a girlfriend! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - I have posted a few questions on here usually when I feel really bad. I have felt really bad for a long time. I figured things couldn't get any worse, but today I logged on to facebook to see a nice girl I really liked was in a relationship with ...

He's with someone else now and I told him lies. How can I get him to just talk to me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - Honest truth about me. My ex and i were together and of course we loved each other a lot. We were fighting the last week of a relationship (we were living together) and we broke up. He begged me not to leave him and than i told him ok we will talk...

I texted her when I was drunk and now our relationship is in trouble. How can I fix things with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - Im in a relationship for about 4 months. We have never fought, just miscommunications. My Girlfriend got really upset about a text message which I sent to her. It was 8pm and I was very drunk and mad, because we had plans for valentines day go to a ...

I don't want him to lose interest in me but how do I handle it when he gets dismissive of me?

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18 February 2011 (F) - I've been with him before, but when I was 12 and we were together for 6 months. Later on in life when were we teenagers he was my first. And that night he didn't talk to me again. Now he's back in my life. I really like him but I know he's been a p...

This guy is a jerk and I am scared. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - I've been dating a 11th grader since yesterday, and now he's been telling people he's going to have sex with me, like I'm a sex trophy to him. I never even had my first kiss and I'm a virgin the most i've ever done with a guy was hug, until he came...

I want to stay around him until he is interested. Is this a good strategy while we remain FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - Ok...I need some advice. I have worked with this guy for about 3 years but we didn't really talk outside of work, because we were both been in a relationship at the time (him for 3 years and me for 4) until November. In November I gave him ...

Does my girlfriend have a problem? and is it fixable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - my girlfriend comes home from work and changes her panties which are soaking wet in crotch area and leaves them on the floor. i've accidently walked on them and they were very wet. she seems to come home with her panties soaked a couple times a week...