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*ustm92
writes:back in the beginning of the school year, i liked this girl. she was really sweet and seemed innocent and she's really hot - she could be a model. honestly one of the most gorgeous girls ive ever met. but she wasnt interested in me then. but a couple months later, she finally started to like me and then i started to like her again. i asked her to be my girlfriend, but she said to give us some time because she wanted us to get to know each other a little more before we got serious. but we were still hanging out a lot and we were even fooling around - she'd come over to my place around. she's still a virgin (i respect that about her) so we didnt have sex, but she said that she wants her first time to be with me. a few weeks later, i thought she was getting a little too attached to me, so i said that we should take a break. i could tell that she was pretty upset about it. but then towards the end of the month, we got back together and continued what we were doing. she said that she never felt this way about a guy before. she also said that she really liked me and she's the kinda girl that doesn't fall for guys that easily. (i mean it took her long enough to like me back lol) but for some reason, idk why, it just wasnt working out for me. it wasnt anything about her, she was nice and everything, it just didnt work for me. so a couple weeks later, i told her that i wanted to stop whatever was going on btwn us. and i think she was really upset about that too. but i havent talk to her that much after, we just say hey to each other when we see each other. then a couple weeks later, i meet this girl in one my classes this semester, and she seems pretty cool, shes kinda cute, not as hot as the other girl, but we share a lot in common, and i wanted to get to know her. but she keeps blowing me off and never wants to hang out and i guess shes not interested. which is fine cuz i dont really like her that much, i was just interested. but ever since i let go of the first girl, i think that ive been really unhappy. i keep trying to meet new girls, but they all seem really dumb. i know when i was with that girl i had a good time, she was really cute and sweet, and i know she really liked me a lot. so maybe she will keep me happy. so should i try and pursue her again? do you think she would take me back if i asked? and what do you think i should do to get her back?
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