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Dating: Help and advice

I don't want to tell him to get rid of his friends who are girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Hi, Well I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and it’s been going really well and we see each other most weekends and sometimes a couple of days throughout the week ~ but recently I’ve been feeling really insecure. I know he is a loyal(he...

He said he didn't want to hang out anymore because he felt I was playing with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4837 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I met this guy about a year ago wen I was out and about! I gave him my number and we keep I'm touch! We would text talk on the phone but never hung out! I only seen him that 1 time when I gave him my number... So after a yr of phone conversations we ...

I dreamed I'm going off my boyfriend. Does that mean that I really am?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Last week I dreamt that me and my boyfriend was shopping for food and in my dream he started to try and kiss me, i felt sick and tried to pull away as if i was repulsed by the thought...i am worried it's a sign i'm going off my boyfriend but when i ...

How can I let him know that I like him over the phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - There's a guy who i like and i think he likes me too but there's quite a big age difference. Anyway he lives in a different country to me but when i went to visit the country he was in, he talked to me a lot. Most of the time my brother and sister ...

Two girls like him but I'm not the one who is obsessed with him

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3 February 2011 (F) - I've liked this guy for a while, and we've only had band together for the first semester. He's nice, but not majorly outgoing. Like, he already has his group of friends and is content with that. This semester, we have a class together. I think we ...

I've never given a gift to a guy before and I'm confused!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Hi everybody...i been with my boyfriend for a month an things are good an as we all know valentines day is around the corner....an I need all of you alls help...whats a good gift to get for a guy?...HELP ME...ive never gave any guy a gift for for ...

I only have $50 to spend for Valentine's Day!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - So I'm broke for valentines day I just lost my job and I don't know what to do we don't live together so we can't do anything like breakfast in bed or a romantic bath help please! I only have like 50 bucks thanks in advance !...

I like him, only one problem...he has a girlfriend

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3 February 2011 (F) - Okay so I posted a question about stepping out into dating a few months, although I have not dated yet I found a guy I like. We met with a school function, a family member told me they were going to tell him I liked him (I didn't at the time). I saw ...

I cant get over what she has done in the past...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months and her past and what she has done haunts me and maked me want to throw up and call her a whore and leave her. I cant do this though the thought of not being with her hurts me and I know that I ...

I'm feeling neglected and upset as though he doesn't care about me anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, hope you can help me out on a situation. I'm involved (not in a relationship with but 'close') to a man who lives long distance from me. We've never met in person before but he was supposed to be coming to see me last month. We used t...

We love each other but lately we're arguing all the time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Ok so I've been dating this guy for almost 3 years now. About a year ago, we started talking about getting married...but he recently told me he wants to wait until he's done with school and has a job (we are both mid-twenties, I graduate in April, ...

I know in my heart that I deserve better. But I love him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I really don't know where to start. this is a long story so please brace yourself. Im really confused and honestly don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Hes my first bf (Im 18 and were the same age). I want to expla...

So what comes next? I don't want to jump right into sex so do we start using our hands next?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Alright. I'm 24 and I've been dating a guy (26) for a little over a month. I like where things are going with him but am a little uncomfortable with the idea of sleeping with him just yet... it hasn't been proposed but let's face it, it's on his m...

Want to be with her, but not ruin a friendship in the process!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - i really really liked this girl at my college. i have liked her from the first day i saw her in september but i have really really liked her since october. i think im in love with her because i think about her all the time, i can't concentrate on ...

I want him, but I'm his best friend. I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Sooo.. I have this "really good friend", let's call him Josh. Josh and I talk all day everyday, starts with a good morning and ends with sweet dreams. We talk about everything, our beliefs, how our day is going, family problems, pretty much anything ...

I want to move onto the next stage with my boyfriend, how should I let him know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I love him so much and I know he's someone I'll be with for a very long time. He does everything for me and I really would be lost without him. However, lately I feel that I want to go onto the next...

Can somebody please tell me what is going on with this man? I'm so confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - This man that I see everyday flirts with me and touches me in friendly gestures. He said we needed to talk soon about me liking him. He watches me and sometimes walks back and forth to his office when he knows I’m in the hallway and he makes sure he ...

Is she using me to make her ex boyfriend jealous? Or am I over thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - Am I over thinking this, or is their a reason for me feeling like she is using me? This girl and I dated for about 2 years, over 1.5 years ago. She then dated a guy for 8 months, he was really outgoing and she got to experience a lot of things wi...

I love my girlfriend, but she is romantically absent. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - We are both in our early 50's, seeing each other for 3 years now. I love her very much and I don't want to be without her regardless, but I am getting frustrated as I have a normal sex drive and desire her constantly. She does so much for so many, ...

I can't figure out where I stand in this relationship. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Hi all. Well I've been dating a guy on and of for about four months who is the same age as me. We always have lots of fun together and when I'm with him he makes me feel so good. The problem is, I'm getting mixed messages. We dated for a few week...

I was too shy to talk to him and now he thinks I'm not interested. I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - It's a really long story, but I'm going to make it short. So, I have had a crush on a guy for almost a year and half, and we're both in college. Well I started to like him when I realized he liked me, but I'm just too shy to talk to him. He tried ...

Do his family have a problem with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - hi I am in a new relationship with my boyfriend, ive lived in turkey for 8 yrs and ive recently met a turkish partner, we are in love. the first week we met he stayed everynight it was great we are so happy together but is it normal for his ...

I really like him, but I'm helping a friend to date him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I really am in like with this guy at work. He has so much in common with me in so many ways, I feel like we are perfect for each other. And I know he can see it... I can see it when he asks me certain questions, because he's trying to figure me ...

Is he avoiding/ignoring me because I wouldn't have sex with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Just wanted to get a guy's perspective on this: I've been dating a guy for about 2 months, we seemed to get along, joke, talk about sports (yes I like sports), and he's been affectionate with me, however we haven't had sex. He's been dropping hi...

Should I be ok with my girlfriend sleeping in another guy's bed?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend went to a sleepover with her guy friend, since he supposedly dosent have a guest room, she has to sleep on the same bed as him, should I be fine with that?...

Any tips on how to speed up this love process? Or how to cope with not having anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - I have encountered a few questions similar to mine, but there's something about being responded to directly that beats just taking the advice given to someone else with a similar question. At any rate I am in complete distress, and I really would ...

Blind dates: How long to wait after the day of the date to realize nothing is going to happen and to just move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - How do you know if a guy wants to see you again at the end of a blind date? What does he say or do? And how long to wait after the day of the date to realize nothing is going to happen and to just move on?...

Is the oral sex not working for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend tells me that I'm good at oral and we both enjoy it. While we were cuddling after our first time, sharing little quirks and whatnot, he said that he basically only cums during vaginal sex. He's been with four or five other girls and I'm ...

Why does my attraction seem to flicker on and off with my boyfriend?

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3 February 2011 (F) - Why does my attraction seem to flicker on and off with my boyfriend? It has been this way for most of the relationship. By all appearances, there is nothing “wrong” with our relationship. We’ve had few unhappy moments in these past two years. He is ...

Why is he acting so irrationally? I'm the one that should be annoyed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (?) - Why does my boyfriend do this? My boyfriend flew into my state monday but his flight was delayed so instead of getting in at 5pm he got in at 3am. I had class until 9pm, and then he called me asking if I was going to meet him at his apartment at 3am ...

What am I doing wrong here? Everything is telling me to be the opposite of everything I was taught!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I'm hoping someone can make some sense of the world I'm experiencing at the moment. The world that I've been experiencing for quite a while now... I am 22 years old (in two weeks) and have always strived to be a good person. I've always put other...

What's the best way to go about trying to start something more intimate than friendship with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - Hello all, I've been fretting over this for a few days or so, and would like some second opinions. I met this wonderful girl last November. At first glance, I was lovestruck (er, I suppose infatuated is a more accurate term given my age, but I'll ...

When taking it slow...should I try and hold her hand when we hang out or kiss her or anything?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - i met this girl through my cousin, we started talking and stuff, and finally she asked me one fri night to come out and bowl and have a drink with her since my plans fell through. so i did and we had A LOT of fun, we danced, flirted, and at the end ...

I need a mans point of view: Does he love me and just doesn't realize he's being mean? Or is he doing it or purpose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Ok, heres the problem. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and it was ok for the first few months then as time went on we moved in together. When this happened i found little things that bothered me and made me feel insecure about our ...

Should I continue pursuing this girl or pull the plug?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - I'm in a quasi-relationship and I'm unsure if i should continue pursuing this girl or pull the plug altogether. I've been seeing this girl, but it got off to a rocky start. We had 2 dates, and then on the 3rd she said that she wasn't ready for...

How do I interpret these mixed signals from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - This guy I love moved away about 7 months ago and he comes home for winter break, spring break, and a month of summer break. He lives 600 miles Away and I'm still in high school so I cant visit. Well, last week when he was drunk he told me he loved ...

I doubted my boyfriend and now we're on a break...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - What can I say to my boyfriend?? I broke his heart:(? So my boyfriend told me something that happened with him and some girl that likes him.. Anyways I got it all wrong and thought he cheated on me with her..but it turns not to be true. I got re...

Every time I ask her out she says she's too busy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - There is a girl that lives a considerable distance away from me and we text back and forth every so often. I've hung out with her a couple times and I want to ask her out, but every time I ask her to do something she is too busy. I know that she is ...

My boyfriend cheated on me, now I don't trust him! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me we've been together for two years and i found out he slept with the girl he said that he realize he wants me but the trust is gone i thought he was a good guy what do I do?...

Best friend or professor?? Whom do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. He is one of the most amazing men I have ever met. I have never been with someone so loving, caring, considerate, and funny. I would say he is my best and closest friend I have ever had. We do ...

My boyfriend flirts with other women right in front of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a huge flirt.. he tends to flirt even in my face.. I have told him but he keeps on.. help!...

My boyfriend is gay but our relationship is a secret, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - Hi I'm 14 and i have just got my first boyfriend. He is bi and I am gay. I have already come out to all my friends but he hasn't. I don't want our relationship to be a secret but at the same time I think that we will get a lot of shit when we go ...

He hit me across the face, causing me to spill a hot drink over myself and my laptop!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Dear cupids, am I in the wrong here? I have a big presentation tomorrow and I had asked my boyfriend to be my practice audience when I'd done. Well he knows Iv been feeling pretty crappy at the moment due to the fact Iv been paying off his loan ...

What is the Push/Pull theory?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. Can anyone tell me what the Push/Pull theory of dating is? Does a man use this when he is trying to sleep with a woman only? Or is it when he is attracted to her and wants to date her? Do single men do it or do married men do it? What ...

Is 'no contact' the right way to get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - basically,my and ex and i broke up around 4 and a half months ago.it came out of nowhere,we were very much in love we talked in dept about our future,she told me she never met anyne like me and etc.the break up was down to silly arguments because of ...

Girls have you ever experienced something like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - Just a short question about some behavior changes I've noticed with my girlfriend. We have a 3 month old son, been together for just over two years, I love her very much and she seems like she feels the same, I'm completely happy with life. Towar...

My mom is getting too close to my boyfriend for my liking!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Ok I met this guy new years and have been seeing him since, well I live with my mom cause I can't afford my own place as a full time student. well every since I have started seeing him, my mom invites him over most of the time, she asks him to go ...

I feel so much guilt for doing this!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - I have a gf but we haven't had sex in a while she is out of town ... I miss it and sometimes i watch porn and porn videos of gays come out .... so today there is someone that i didnt know and we were talking on the internet and he asked me if i wa...

Why is he too casual? Is he just not into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating someone for 7 weeks, we are both 27 and have been sleeping together for 4 weeks. (it was a bit soon i know!) We both work 10 hour days, 5 days per week. My question is, he seems too casual and i wonder if its a case of "he's just ...

I want to move in with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have bin together for a year and a half. We are both 24 (ill be 25 this month) living at home. I work two jobs one full time and one part time he works nights and goes to school full time. I just applied to grad school ...