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Dating: Help and advice

I still love a boy I dated 3 years ago... but he is my ex's best friend!

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13 February 2011 (F) - Okay, 3 years ago I had my first boyfriend he broke up with me after 3 months and I still feel like I am not over him. Its crazy! In the 3 years since we broke up I have had 2 serious relationships one of which was with his close friend, we were ...

How do you treat someone who is suffering with depression?

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13 February 2011 (F) - How do you treat someone who is suffering with depression? My lover wont see a doctor... but it has affected our relationship. I hardly see him now... he says he cant face anyone and that he's no company... this has been going on for months. What ...

Don't know whether to stay with him or not... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Since I was 15 i've been with the same guy on and off and I love him. But the last three years we've had trouble. He moved to America to do his degree which caused a lot of issues between us. Some on my part because I had trust issues and hated him ...

My feelings seem illogical...

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13 February 2011 (F) - My ex-boyfriend broke up with me months ago. We don't speak to each other anymore [he kind of just cut me out]. I feel like I'm moving on, but... I know I wouldn't want to be with him anymore, but it bothers me thinking of him with another gir...

Where can I get her some flowers at such short notice???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - I went to Tesco to buy my girlfriend some roses for tomorrow, but they were all dried up and didn't look very nice. Obviously all the good ones were sold out. They had some others that cost £20 that looked nice but I couldn't afford that. This i...

Should it bother me with how many different guys she has slept or had sex with in the past or am I just being greedy and selfish?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - I have a girlfriend of about 17 months now and I love her very much. She is about 2 years younger than me and grew up in the city while I grew up in a small town, two completely different settings. She was the pretty girl in high school that ...

Boyfriend set up business against me... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I have a bit of a stange problem... and I really want advice as my friends and family have made their points very clear. My boyfriend and I split up approx 5 months ago and when we did.. he set up an entertainments business. The problem is I run on...

He cheated once... now we're back together, will he hurt me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - ok. so me and my current boyfriend have dated before. we were together almost 9 months and he cheated on me. now him n this girl are over and me and him are back together. we are almost back to dating for 2 months... but now i have serious trust ...

She's like an addiction!!!

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13 February 2011 (F) - Hello cupids. For the past five years I have been in an on again off again relationship that isnt very healthy, theres been a lot of lies, fights physical and verbal and cheating. I have never cheated, I know that this is a bad relationship and...

I'm thinking of going with a male prostitute and have started to save up.

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13 February 2011 (F) - Hello I am 25 and I have had two long term relationships lasting three years each. Neither of the men wanted to have sex with me. I recently started seeing a new man and he isn't putting the moves on my but like the last two is talking about ...

I love her something terrible and I'm not going to be a wimp!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - So right to it. there's this girl who I took for big big granted. I've always bee pretty much a player so I didn't have to worry about losing girls unless I decided I didn't want them around. This one girl got sick of my crap and doesn't give a crap ...

We're married now but I still get so angry even when I hear her ex's name!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - I think I need some professional help. But I'm embarrassed to admit it. Or is what I'm going through normal? To summerize, in 2009 I had been dating my girlfriend for 6 months. She graduated college and took a 2 week vacation to visit her parent...

Where to meet the right woman to date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - Hi friends, I'm a black guy within the age group of 24, I'm for the first time in my life seeking for relationship. I'm about to graduate from the Univ, and I have never been in a relationship. I see a lot of beautiful girls that meet my match, but ...

Gift ideas for our anniversary...

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13 February 2011 (F) - So this isn't a major thing but if I could get answers soon I would majorly appreciate it! So the 24th is mine and my boyfriends one year anniversary. We will celebrate the 26th, seeing as the 24th is a school day haha Anyways I'm having troubl...

What kind of things do high school boys look for in a girl?

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13 February 2011 (F) - What kind of things do high school boys like in a girl for them to like that girl? Do they need to look, act, and dress in a certain way for that guy to like them? Is it better to try and be their friend first? But more importantly, what kind of ...

Apart from me, her boyfriend is the most perfect person she knows. What does she mean by this?

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13 February 2011 (M) - My ex and I broke up 3 years ago and we live about 80 miles from each other now. Recently she told me, "Apart from you, he [her boyfriend] is the most perfect person I know." What should I make of her comment? ...

For those over 35: What would you have done differently in your relationships when you were younger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - Hi, OK, I read a lot of questions on Dear Cupid by people in their early to late 20s who are stumbling about in their relationships over issues of trust, commitment, priorities, responsibility, etc. So I was wondering if the older DC folks could p...

Text fling!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years ish now and no matter how much I moan about him or our little arguments I love him to bits and the thought of having to be without him kills me. He has a group of friends we all go out every other week...

Why is this guy having such an effect on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I really need some advice. I met this guy 6 weeks ago and he absolutely blew me away. It was like love at first sight. We exchanged numbers and went on dates and it was amazing. He was amazing. He was like the perfect guy for me. Until he told me he ...

Just sent her a surprise for valentines day and I've found out she's cheating! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Me and my girl were supposed to be taking a break from each other but still datin.. i was only gone 2 days and on the third i decided to pop up and see what she's doing but wen i arrived, she had another dude over and he was like... they had been ...

I just want to be 100% happy, not 75% and have to find the other 25% elsewhere.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. We have known each other for 8 years on and off. I had a crush on him when I was 12. We never went out or did anything until I was 19 with the exception of a drunk mini makeout session when I was ...

Pregnant and I don't know which ones the father! What do I tell them!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Hey, I just found out the other day that I am pregnant but I had sex with 2 guys around the time my doctor said I got pregnant. I was having sex with my boyfriend at the time but I was with another friend and we just got carried away. I don't live ...

I'm confused by his actions. Is he really my boyfriend or does he have reservations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Hey everyone. I'm really confused on what to do with my boyfriend. We've been dating for about 7 months. We were casually seeing each other at first, but then he asked my to be his girlfriend and I agreed. When we're alone he's amazing. He tells me ...

I have a crush on my friend's ex. would it be OK to drop hints to him that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I like this guy at school who sits behind me in homeroom. I really want to go out with him but he's one of my friend's ex. I like him and he flirts with me and i've been there when he went through rough breakups. We talk to each other and share jo...

My piercing is ruining my sex life. Does anyone else have tips on how to fix these problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Hey, back in November i got a VCH piercing. I spent years researching it and was 110% sure i wanted one. Fast forward to now and it is still tender and ruining my sex life. Especially when i have to ask my boyfriend to stop doing what he's doin...

What do I need to do to be accepted as a friend by this girl? She seems super resistant to me

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13 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend's circle of friends includes 3 other guys, and just 1 girl. I get along fantastically with all of the guys, however, the girl seems resistant to accept me, or be my friend. I get the feeling that she's jealous of me because she feel...

Am I too demanding? Or is he too insensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 5 years. It’s one that I had to keep secret from my family and relatives due to cultural barriers. We were committed to making this work. Although it was extremely difficult for both of us, I finally managed to buil...

Revival tips needed please? I want to know how to improve my LDR with my boyfriend since he's become boring

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship since four years ago. my boyfriend is really nice and sweet but the problem is he doesn't share anything with me.. while on the other hand,i give him all the tiniest of detail.. i don't know why but his friends ...

How can I rake up the courage to end this relationship with this very over sensitive controlling guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I apologize in advance if this gets long. I have a feeling I may start to vent. I've had bad relationships in the past. I seem to keep going after the same people, though, I don't realize it until it's months in and their true selves start shi...

We hardly communicate effectively. He's sensitive. How do I improve our communication?

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13 February 2011 (F) - I am in a new relationship after the death of my husband in 2007. How do I deal with an emotionally sensitive person? we hardly communicate effectively. I don't know how to handle this. ...

We are good mates, but it looks like he wants more. I'm not sure. Should I allow it to become more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - For a long time now everyone has been telling me to get with a particular boy. This morning he told me he loved me, but we are really good friends. I dont know how I feel. We are already good mates and have gone out with friends a couple of times...

Are all our dates going to be as awkward as this one?

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13 February 2011 (F) - Ok I had my first date a few months ago days before the date I was super excited and we went to the movie so I was kind of hoping that I would get my first kiss in the dark movie theater but I was wrong he brought his 3 cousins ,mom,sister and his ...

The only thing I know is that I've liked him since we first met!

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13 February 2011 (F) - i have known this guy for 5 months, and from the first time i met him there was something about him, i cant really pin point what it is but yeh. hes in the year above me at school, and we used to talk all the time. i had made out with him a few ...

What actions do I avoid so I don't get put in the friend zone?

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13 February 2011 (M) - I'm going to be hanging out for the 2nd time with this girl that I've met. This is will be the 2nd date in my entire life so far, and I'm not sure how to flirt with women. I just talk to them while being nice. I don't want her to put me in the ...

I am unsure how to flirt with a woman.... Need advice please!!

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Why can't I get a girlfriend?

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13 February 2011 (M) - Why cant I get a girlfriend? Everyone tells me to be myself and it never works. Whats wrong with me?...

My bestfriend loves this guy, but I have been getting close with him too... what should I do?

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13 February 2011 (F) - So there's this guy that i really haven't had any feelings for until earlier this week... and this week has been one emotional week for him and me, so we got together, and as i was leaving, we hugged. This hug wasn't a normal "friend" hug, it was m...

I told her that I had fallen in love with her, but she said she doesn't feel the same way... what should I do now??

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13 February 2011 (M) - Ok, so there is this girl in college, and we have been friends for a long time. Recently I started to fall in love with her and started doing things out of the way for her. Then when I was sure that it was love and not just an attraction, I told h...

She says that she has issues to resolve, and until then she's afraid she'll cheat

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - I met this girl a while back, and we hit it off pretty well. After a few weeks which consisted of a mixture of hanging out, dates (movies, dinner, etc) she confessed to me that she is really into me, but she is scared that she will cheat on me if ...

Are my boyfriend and his sister a little too close?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and his sister are really close. Too close actually... They touch each other more than he touches me! He jokes around by asking her to make out with him a lot. I know that they have been drunk together alone before. She is 15 we are 17. ...

Should I try to salvage true, first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - Okay well, my girlfriend and I recently broke up. We had been going out for a year and a half, and I thought it was going great. We had amazing times, and I was the typical nice guy, perfect boyfriend type, because that was the way I was brough...

I feel bad about what happened in the past but I do love her sister

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13 February 2011 (M) - Ok well, about 2 years ago I was rejected by a girl I liked and was depressed and sought comfort in anyone. It just so happens that person was one of my best friends and I admitted my "love" for her and she said she loved me and always had. But ...

He just doesn't respect the way I feel

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I'm 16 and have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months, it's been great I liked him for a while before we went out so I've been seeing this relationship as a bit of a dream. But recently he's been blowing me off at dates to hang out other girls who I ...

Am I just holding her back from accomplishing what she wants out of life because I'm selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for 10 months. She is 28 and I'm 23. We moved in together about 3 months ago and we do everything together now. She has all these plans for her future about marriage and kids and all that stuff and I ...

Why does my x-emotional affair start talking to me again after telling me good bye?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Hello: I had an emotional affair with this guy at work. THings got pretty rough, a lot of back and forth 'games' almost with his behavior. Work place drama put a wedge between us. I carried a torch a while over him, dealing with his hot and...

My boyfriend is perpetually undecided and has no personal commitments...is there any hope for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I love each other but we have a problem in the relationship. We've been together for almost a year, almost right from the start we have been with each other practically 24/7, and about 3 months we started living togther (as we l...

My BF left after having sex and messaged me..."I am not attracted to you anymore" ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Hello all. As I sit here writing this I feel pain, hurt, im emotional and a billion other things. Me and my boyfriend of 4 years had sex like 1 hour ago. It seemed to being going good until I got ontop of him and I felt like he was just sitting...

After having led me on with the promise of a life together, he suddenly decides to bail out. Should I tell his wife about the whole sham?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Where to start. I fell in love with a married man. He told me that he was on his way out of his marriage. He gave me horror stories about his wife. 8, 9, 10 months go by and he and I are more in love than I've ever been with anyone and I'm not ...

He's unhappily married...should I give "us" a shot again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I'm in love with my ex boyfriend..I never stopped thinking of him, even while being with another. I saw him for the first time since 2003. Exchanged #'s and boom the chemistry was hot and back all over like we were still together. I ended up ...

Great relationship... ermmm... except for the sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Have been dating a great man for seven months. Was never particularly physically attracted, but he's ok to me physically. Anyway, got into it for a few months, but after 3-4 months, have been very turned off physically. He's fairly overweight and ...

How can I forgive him for all the hurt he has caused me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Well, I posted a question yesterday, but I didn't give many details, so I shall give them now. Three and a half years ago, my boyfriend and I started dating. We were both 17 then and we had been each others firsts. We've always been happy toget...

Stressing out here over a "date!"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - So I went to ask a girl out, but ended up not directly doing so, instead asking if she wanted to come for a steak she agreed but we had to change the time till today. Anyway I'm stressing out what to do, as it is or isnt a date and I don't know how ...

Mixed messages...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - To cut a long story short, me and this girl we went out when we young, like 12/13. Then we went out again when we were 16 for 7 months. We've been broken up for 6 months. It was all a mess and I still like her. We didn't get on for a while but now ...

She means the world to me and I've lost her... should I give up or fight for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - Thank you all for helping me through a difficult time of mine. So im not a perfect guy. When it comes to girls I dont exactly show a lot of love... I keep most of it away that way break ups are'nt tough... right? Well my ex-girlfriend and I broke ...