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Archived questions from: 5 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She said she loved me. how was she able to move on so soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - So my ex and I have been broken up for a few months now. And the breakup has been really hard for me because I loved her very very much. When we broke up she stated her reasons for the breakup was that we were different people. This issue never ...

I have dreams where I get the hottest guy..but it doesn't happen in real life

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5 February 2011 (F) - i feel very insecure about my body, i always have. my friends are beautiful and skinny, meaning they get guys and attention. i dont want to look pathetic, but i just always feel less then them. i have these dreams where i get the hottest guy and im ...

How to tell work colleague I'm interested...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - There is a guy at work who I really like and talk to all the time. I'd quite like to tell him that im interested but am not too sure how to go about it/what words to use because I really enjoy this persons company and don't want to jeopardise any ...

I'm 18 and finding 16 year old ladies very attractive

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5 February 2011 (?) - I'm 18 years old. im loving being 18. im drinking on weekends and love seeing the ladies. but recently ive been attracted to 16 and 17 year olds. im becoming obbsessive with 16 year olds especially. my step brother, 16, sometimes brings his friends ...

Can casual relationship turn into something else?

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5 February 2011 (F) - Hey you all. Hope you're having a lovely saturday night. I have a problem here with this boy that I really like and I want to know what others think about this.. I started seeing this guy a while ago. Got on really well. had a wonderful tim...

Is it a waste of time to go after someone who isn't over their ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4805 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - I would like people's opinions on dating this guy. He's 23, was in a serious relationship for two years. She dumped him and for at least six months he was miserable and still wanted her. They got back together for about two months but then she ...

We're friends but he treats me like a girlfriend, yet there's no "relationship"...

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5 February 2011 (F) - I meet a guy nearly a year ago and we started dating and we got on really well, he would always want to be my "boyfriend" but i got scared, but when i realised i wanted that he backed right off. So we became friends and we both dated other people, ...

Do I give her second chance and give her the benefit of the doubt because she is so confused or do I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - So it's been 1 month since me and my girlfriend broke up, we went out for 3 years, but one of the main reason we broke up was because of all the stupid fights which tore us apart. Near the end of the relationship she lied to me about going to a ...

Shall I tell the girl whom I love that I saw her boyfriend in town with another girl or just sit on the side and watch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - I recently upset a girl that I love a lot (she knows it) by saying her current boyfriend is using her. I said that to her because I care about her and put her at the top priority. I heard about that by coincidence, so I have no evidence to prove ...

How do you become a trophy wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - What do you do to become a trophy wife? Is it just about looks? Or is it if your a wonderfull wife and mom? Thanks for your time....

I broke it off. Yet we still work together. Has anyone been in the same situation? How did you survive it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - I have broken it off with my boyfriend of two and a half years. I love him very very much and we have tried and tried but I felt I had to end it because we can't seem to make each other happy any more and I am just so exhausted I really have not...

Does his ex still mean something positive to him? Or does he just not want to see her again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - Ive been with this guy for a year now, when we first got together he admitted to having sex with his ex but he said he only did it once and that she made him do it etc. he was only 16 at the time and she was around 14. Eventually he admitted to ...

Is race an issue here? It's only recently that our relationship started.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - i live in a multicultural country and have never been attracted to guys from my own race(asian). so recently i started dating this white guy, he says he is crazy about me, but always avoids being out in public with me, or introducing me to his ...

He broke up with me, but has now put new photos of me on FB. What does he want from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - We were together for 2 yrs. Broke up 2 weeks ago as he was stressed with Uni and isn't doing well. He's 27 and I'm 23. We have not spoken at all since. By the looks of things on his facebook he seems to be moving on by always saying he's going out ...

Madly in love with him, but he has a girlfriend! what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - i am seeing this guy who really seemed to be the one i really wanted my whole life , actually im 20 but ive been through a really hard time fixing my broken heart ,so .. right in the moment that i was thinking how lucky i am and how exciting he is , ...

Met a nice guy, should I text now or when I'm ready to meet up?

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5 February 2011 (F) - I met this guy in a pub last night . We got talking and at the end of the night, we swapped numbers. I text him telling him that i enjoyed it, and that i hoped to see him again, and he text me back saying he would like to see me again and said he ...

Is he serious about me? Or does he just want to get laid?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy on and off... It all started off when we ended up kissing on his birthday (we were best friends)...and the kiss was so good that we ended up getting frisky a couple of times after that. I fell for him...and even told...

What is wrong with asking someone out for a coffee?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - It's me again...The guy who is all stuffed up in the head. Some people have told me in the past that I make inappropriate sexual comments. They say it's part of Aspergers Syndrome. But my question is...Why do people get so touchy about inapropria...

My boyfriend is a compulsive liar and its getting very difficult to deal with him now...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - Why are there so many lies? my boyfriend is a compulsive liar. he makes up stupid little lies about everything like whos house hes at who hes with, if hes working late or not. i mean i would find out the truth and wonder why he even lied in the ...

I've been a fool and she's cheated but how can I get things right again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - Heres the thing. I am in a relationship with this women for a 2nd time that I love but she has cheated, insulted and said bad things about me behind my back. I have forgiven all that because I believe that, if you can't accept someone at their worst ...

Girlfriend is meeting with her ex and I'm scared

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - Hey, i have a GF of 1 year and 3 months, she lives with me and we are deeply in love, recently she has been talking to her ex BF on facebook and yesterday he asked her to go to brighton with him today to pick shoes, she also wants to go in his house ...

My boyfriend is not very hygienic, his room is a mess, he has a pet rat on his window sill and I've started coming up with really nasty skin irritations!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - Hi there guys i need some help and fast! Okayy, so i've been with my amazingly lovely boyfriend for two months now and things are going well. Although, over the time we've been going out i've started coming up with really nasty skin irritati...

What are the signs that a boyfriend truly loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - how do i know if my boyfriend actually loves me? ...

I feel lovesick, lonely at losing her. And so many questions on how I can go forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - i need some serious help ive been through some crazy relation ships b 4 but i have been ready for something real for a really long time im sick of wasting my time and life on dead end relationships but recently ive meet the most amazing girl ever ...

He's really good-looking and it makes me feel like I'm inferior....

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5 February 2011 (F) - Hi poeple my names Annie I'm almost 18 and Ive just started a new job as a cook in a food place (not exactly)a career but nontheless its employment. Well theres this really nice guy I met there named brendan,hes foreign and moved to my part of the w...

How do I get my boyfriend to improve his hygiene?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend to improve his hygiene? We live together so I know he only showers about once a week. The thing that I really hate is that he often goes for days without brushing his teeth. I've mentioned it to him before but it just ...

"Love u a long time"...what does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - Hi theres this guy ive met and have become very fond of Anyway a few weeks ago he said to me love u i wasnt sure what to say so i just put lol on the end Anyway last nite throught txt messege he sent 1 saying Love u a long time x But my ...

What dating advice do you have for single women 50+ & over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - I will be 52 years old my next birthday. My life has been filled with a string of disappointing relationships. After a 12 year relationship, my first love dumped me, married someone else, divorced them and then returned and wanted to marry me. Of ...

I get more anxious now that I know my GF has cheated. How can I trust her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - i need help. my girlfriend has cheated before and i do belive she has changed but i still get nervous and have trouble with her talking to the other man who is also my friend. what should i do??...

Can I get an STD from performing oral sex on my virgin boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - Me and my boyfriend have never had any sexual encounters if any kind. Could either of us get an std from unprotected oral sex?...

Why do I attract men, but always end up getting dumped?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - My last two relationships have been disasters,in each case the relationships started off wonderful, but as time passed and we became closer, the men seem to become afraid. I don't know what's the problem. I am never outright dumped, they just ...

How do I recover from this strange relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - I was in a short-term relationship with someone who said I was wonderful, beautiful, a nice woman with a "good heart." Although we started our as friends our relationship progressed. He was warm, caring, intelligent, funny..all I could want in a ...

She told me not to wait around for her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - every thing was so perfect she told me she wanted to make this work so bad and likes me a lot that i am the best thing that has ever happened to her and i think she really meant it we were the perfect couple and had everything in common possible and ...

Is it too soon to start dating again?

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5 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I cant get over this guy i was with for 3 years and lost my virginity to but he has bad controlling issues, and refuse to be treated like that we have been broken up for a couple weeks and I've never felt so free, and i have given up...

Do I end my troubled relationship and start anew with this friend who's helped me? Or fix the troubled one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - emotional turmoil... i'm going through a bad relationship right now. One of my friends, who is a girl and i have a friendship thing, for she was trying to cheer me up. i think i'm starting to fall in love with her... she has always flirted ...

I didn't stand up for my girlfriend when someone slapped her butt. How do I show her I am still the man for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (?) - Hello everyone. It's been a while since my last question, but I've have another. Recently my ex and I got back together again and things have been great, but the way we got back together is the problem. She was dating my ex best friend and I had ...

Could my friend be gay too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm a 15 year old closeted gay, and deathly afraid of anyone finding out. And I was wondering if my friend could also possibly be gay? I know it's a long question and I'm sorry. My friend, "Mike", is 15, nice, makes good grades, an athlete,...

My lack of self confidence is preventing me from persuing this relationship. What can I do to change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - Hey, I'd be greatful if someone could help me. I am a 22 year old, bi female and have been in a 4 year relationship with a girl, which didn't end very well, but I'm sort of over her. I have slept with one guy and have had relationships with guys, ...

Why does my boyfriend take me for granted and annoy me on purpose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesnt say I love you anymore, only texts, and sometimes short texts, doesnt call, and sometimes seems to enjoy annoying me on purpose...what should I do??? I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. About 3-4 months...

My best friend thinks I stole her boyfriend, and now she's hanging out with my ex! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - I'm currently single and have been, basically, since like October. Well my ex and my best friend started hanging out. To where they were together every weekend...her all up in his truck. So I asked them what was going on, and they claim they're ...

I'm in love with a boy who is my best friend. Is he interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Does he love me? I have this guy who I'm in love with, but I don't know if he loves me. He's my best friend. When he and I spoke over web cam, his mom/cosins/aunt were like, "you're a cute couple" and that he should kiss me. He started ...

What do I say to these people about my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - ok so this is really embarassing, but i have an ugly boyfreind. i mean hes not that ugly, but he had acne (which i know he cant help cuz i have it 2)but what pisses me off is that every ones making fun of me for it. now grantit, hes been suspended ...

I don't know how to act on my first date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - Well im about to go on my first date. I've never been on a date. Ever. So to me, this is a big deal! I'm going on a double date with my best friend and her boyfriend and I'll be going with my crush. We're going to go see a movie and then go eat to ...