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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Help! I don't know if I'm being selfish!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I need help in reasuring my thoughts are legit and I'm not being unreasonable.... I married my husband 4 years ago. We dated for 8 years before he finally purposed. I honestly think he asked me to marry him because he overheard that I was planning...

He wants to go out, but I want him to stay. Am I being selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - me and my bf are very close we do everything togther and realy we dnt go out much without eachothr our relantionship is good but latly he told me hes bored and wants to go out to the bar i knw he wants sum alone time but i just dnt see it fair that ...

I need some internet dating tips!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - how can you tell if a man on the internet is interested in you . have talk to several men on the internet . an i am new at this so how do you go about if a man is interested in you without asking . i have found the few that i have talk to i can not ...

Can exes be friends when there seems to be inappropriate communication involved?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Thanks for reading in advance! I'm in a very good relationship with a great guy, we've been dating for 9 months and it's very serious (we live together). His last relationship was rough because his first gf (L) and his second gf (K) hated each ...

What do I do? He's a tranny porn lover!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I am in a relatonship of 6 months and I am getting ready to make the big leap and move in with this special someone. Sounds great, right? Well ...he recently divulged that once a month he has an incredible urge to look at shemale porn and he just ...

Screwed up by sending a stupid text accusing him of being a player & a cheater

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - A co-worker started flirting with me at a Christmas party. After quite a few drinks, we ended up going home together. I though I wouldn't hear from him but I did. He texted me every day for 2 weeks - some of the stuff was very romantic, like he'd ...

I need to know how he feels about me! Can someone interpret the signs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Well... I've been researching all over the internet to figure out my problem, but I just can't seem to find the answer. There's a guy that i've known for about 5 and a half months now ( let's call him "Cory" ), and I realized I had a crush on him ...

My parents don't think he's good enough for me. How do I approach this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Ok - my b/f and I have been dating a little over 4 years, we met in college. We've already decided that we want to marry, but we're not ready yet because of our job situation. Since graduating, I have returned home and am living with my parents. I'm ...

I'm trying so hard to change myself and do everything she's asked, but I feel like it's not good enough. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - So I've dated this girl P for 5 years. We dated for 3 years, got engaged 2 years ago and had planned our wedding. We did have some problems mostly my family and P didn't get along. In addition we did have some personality conflicts (I'm stubborn and ...

In the heat of an argument I slapped him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Okay so I posted a question earlier...It was a long story so I will make it short. I have been with a guy for six months, we are sooo into each other although there have been some issues. Valentines day didn't turn it good at all, it was terrible...

She is trying to ruin my professional-reputation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Here’s my problem I started seeing this guy at work about a year ago. Nothing serious, we were just hanging out since I just broke up with my ex 2yrs bf. This new girl came working with me, I trained her. We were getting along pretty goo...

Three-way relationship advice needed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - 3way relationship advice. I'm in a relationship with a bi sexual girl right now, we've discussed the idea and both have agreed its something we would like. Not just 3 way sex but a real relationship. I have a big heart and a lot to give in ways of ...

Things aren't the same between us, do I still love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - hello I have a question and I feel so confused I've had this bf for 7 yrs; we do not live together I'm 30 hes 42 i loved him with all my heart and soul. He went away to another state for work and came back after almost 2 yrs while he was out of ...

He verbally abuses me, but we have a son together. Should I stay with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Ok, my boyfriend is 6yrs older then me we have a son together. we currently dont live together but we are in the process of buying a house and we plan on getting married. Yesterdayw we got into it, he called me mutiple names and told me i was a ...

Why won't he even hug me? Let alone touch me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - hi. um, i've been with this guy for like three or four months now. something that's kinda bugging me is that he's one of those guys that hug people alot, yet he barely ever touches me. i'm not saying i want sex[i really dont. i'm too young anyway] i ...

Is it normal to need time to get used to my boyfriend after being apart for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I am in a LDR for over 2 years, we see each other every 4 months and when we are apart, we are constantly on Skype (we probably talk an avarage of 4 hours a day on week days and probably the double of that on weekends). We miss each other like crazy ...

Does she like me? Or is it all the partying we do together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - I like this girl and I know she's a flirt to begin with. The only times we do hang out just us is when we're studying at the library or something. She and I text pretty often... both of us initiate conversation. We have a lot of the same friends ...

Should I stay with my older girlfriend? Or should I break up with her and go for the other girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I really need help with an issue that I suppose has been going on for a while now. The answer may be really easy but I just don't know what to do. I have been in a relationship with an older woman for the last 3 years. She is 12 years older t...

Was he at the party I made a fool of myself at? Should I bring it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Ok, here's the situation: I'm seeing this guy (let's call him C.) with whom I'm in love and I'm starting to think that he loves me too, but he's too proud to admit it (he shows anyway). The other day we met, C. accidentally told me that in Decem...

We hardly see each other, and every time we do, he starts a fight! What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year, we have been working faithfully at keeping our relationship together and it's been a success as we live so far apart. We see each other every two months and the day before he leaves, for no reason ...

Should I admit to snooping on my boyfriend's facebook? Or keep lying until he confesses?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I have a big problem. I snooped in my bf's facebook, as i know his password e.t.c, and i saw some chat boxes come up saying the names of some girls that we have argued over before. when i clicked on the boxes, there wasnt any text there, but i'm ...

Two year age difference, does it make a difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - So I am 17 and have been seeing a guy who is two years younger than me. We really love each other but I worry about the levels we are on sometimes. help?...

I'm dating my best friend's brother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - So here is my problem. I'm in love with my best friend's brother. When she found out she was pissed but now she says she is cool with us being together. We have been seeing each other for about seven months but I still feel guilty. The thing is...

He is back on the dating site, where we met, and he won't add me on Facebook. Is he taking me for a fool, or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Help needed please, I'm going insane here - been seeing this guy for 6 months he lives an hour away from me and works afternoon shifts so I only see him once a week - sometimes twice, he texts nearly every day, says he is very comfy and happy with ...

My boyfriend falsely accuses me of cheating, but I think he's the one who is being dishonest! What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Hi,and thanks for reading. My bf and I have been together about 3 years now. Throughout our relationship, he has accused me of being with other men. I’ve never been disloyal to him, so there’s no reason he should feel as though I am cheating on ...

I still love my girlfriend, but she has cheated on me twice and doesn't seem to regret it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - My girlfirend has cheated on me twice now and she doesn't seem to regret her actions. The last time she cheated, I found them together. When I spoke with her about the issue, she took the other guy's side. What should I do because I still love her?...

My boyfriend's friends pressure him to be single like them. He broke up with me, but immediately regretted it. Should I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 14 months. We are both 17. Our relationship has been very good. We love spending time together and have lots of fun. We rarely have disagreements, but when we do, we are able to talk things over ...

My on-off boyfriend has been talking to other people about getting engaged, how do I tell him that I am ready?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 and I recently found out that my on-off boyfriend is thinking about getting engaged. I found out from his little sister and he doesn't yet know that I know. How do I let him know that I know he's been talking and thinking about it and that...

We work two different shifts, and my boyfriend blames me for everything! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I'm in a two year relationship where we are on two different work schedules. The problem is everyday I'm at fault for everything that goes on between us. We don't have that much time due to him getting off work at late hours in the morning, and I ...

She teases and flirts with me, and occasionally we touch each other. So, why did she call me her toy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - This girl and I are friends. We tease, flirt and even physically touch each other. One day, we were flirting a bit and well she said "You are my toy". I know she likes to joke around a lot, but I don't get why she said that. I am not sure how I f...

Should I wait to see if he contacts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I have a wonderful friend who is quite intuitive when it comes to people. I asked her if she knew of any available men within my dating area that she thought I would like (she is married). She connected me with an old friend of her's that she ...

My daughter broke up with the one I thought was "the one" and I can't get past it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Not sure why I feel this way but something is obviously wrong. My daughter dated this boy for two years. I definately thought he was "the one". She broke it off with him suddenly and he was devastated. I did everything to try to get them back ...

My Crush Now Chooses To Ignore Me. Have I Done Something Wrong?

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16 February 2011 (F) - About a year ago, I was in the middle of a Christmas gift-purchasing rush when I stopped by a store to pick up a final gift. All the while, I noticed a very cute sales girl who was most definitely giving me the eye the entire time I was shopping. As ...

Am I overreacting about my love interest rejoining the dating website where we met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Is he into me or am i a fool I have been seeing this guy for 6 months now and i think the world of him but i have doubts, he says he is really comfy with me and loves being here, i only see him once - maybe twice a week sometimes as he lives an...

We're stuck sexually, I'm going to Mexico soon and she's freaking out after I fingered her. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - So I've been together with a girl for like 14 months and things are going pretty good but kinda suck on the "sexual" side... She's beautiful and kind and I really do care about her but not much happens in our "alone time" other than lots of kissing ...

Her past just eats away at me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - here der is dis girl who loves me. we are together since last 2 years. before getting into relationship she told me about her past and that too that she is not virgin. she cried about it i was hurt but just in order to make her comfortable i told ...

Is she a friend or is she more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - hows it goin my best friend is a girl and i have known her all my life, we have gone to the same school with eachother since kindergarden and im not in college at a local community college and hang out with her. we used to hang out alot, then s...

How to ask someone out when you don't know them too well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - So I met this girl through a friend of mine and i want to ask her on a date. ive only seen her once and we didnt talk a whole bunch since that time she was with her friend and i was with mine. The thing is my friend gave me her number and i want to ...

Girl said she doesn't want relationship, but still very flirty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - there is a girl that recently started at my job that i like. she has come over to my house and we have kissed several times but she texted me several days ago and tells me she has a bad feeling about us getting involved since we are coworkers and ...

Why arent I ever "The One" ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Ok so , I'm 28 years old and for some reason I've never had a long relationship... one that has lasted for more then a year... I'm very outgoing and funny even.. (so I'm told) ..and ppl are quite attracted to me upon 1st meeting me EVEN THO I dont ...

My boyfriend fell for the the fake profile that I created on a social networking site, to test him . What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I made a fake profile today on a social network and decided to add my boyfriend and see what he would do. Before him, I was in a really bad relationship full of lying and cheating, so I guess you can say I've become bitter and distrusting. I know he ...

Does he like me or is he shy???? HELP

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Im 14, and im not sure if my boydriend likes me or is just shy? I've known my boyfrend for 3 years and he has had a crush on me the whole time but, about a year ago we decided to date, when ever we are together he doesn't hold my hand, put his arm ...

Just lost my virginity and need some answers...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - So, I recently turned twenty one and I've been with my current boyfriend for four months, who is twenty five. He's the only boyfriend I've ever had and it is very serious and it's likely to lead to marriage. For Valentines Day, we went on a romantic...

How can I attract a girl without coming off strong or seemingly putting a lot of effort into it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - I'm not sure if this is a specific question or just kind of an emptying of my head, but I'll try to make it as clear and brief as possible. I've just come to the realization that every relationship, or even just situations where a girl lik...

I have love for him and bills to pay. Which direction do I take? Love or the great job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We moved in together around the 5 month mark. I recently got a job I have been wanting for a long time... its a really awesome place to work. Prior to our meeting we both had planned on moving out ...

How do I react if my ex wishes me on my birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - hellos. well I have been pondering over this for sometime now and may be I need clarification. My birthday is coming up and am wondering how to react when my ex (still have feelings for her) calls or sends me a text. And what if she doesn't send at ...

Need some gift ideas for our first anniversary for both of us to enjoy together..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are about to celebrate our one year anniversary. We have decided that for every anniversary we are going to buy sexy gifts for the two of us to enjoy together. I need some ideas on what to get. I plan to get some nice lingerie ...

What can I do to help my boyfriend get over his emotional affair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I've been in love with my boyfriend (ex-fiance) for the past four years. I recently discovered that he has been having an emotional affair with a girl he went to junior high with years ago. I have not read all of the emails, but the glimpses I catch ...

She never gets upset after we fight... does that mean she doesn't care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I know a girl who I am close to. I have thought about her as a romantic interest but one thing makes me wonder about her feelings about me: whenever we fight I become very nervous, very upset and it lasts the whole day as I replay the whole ...

What do guys think about virgins?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I'm turning 18 and finishing up my senior year of high school. I am a virgin and do not want to have sex until I am sure I'm with the right person. My mother had sex at 14, needed an abortion and lived a pretty messed up life for a while after that. ...

I love my best friend, yet I don't want to turn down my friend...HELP!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4826 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I've had my best friend for two years now, btw he's a guy, and realized I loved him last December. Now, a friend of mine has confessed his love to me on Valentine's Day. I'm really confused because my friend wants to be my boyfriend, but I'm still ...

I just found out my wife had 2 "friends with benefits" around the time we were dating. How can I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - I've been happily married for ten years. I thought I knew of all my wife's past sexual partners and some details, even the ones she cheated on me with, but I got past all that and have not had any problems. Recently, I found out about 2 friends ...

The guy I like keeps teasing me about other guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - So I have a crush on this guy, and it's on a daily basis that he teases me about other guys. For example, he'll tell people i have a boyfriend named _____. Or he'll tease me about other guys liking me. Like he'll be like, _____ likes you, or you and ...

What do women think about body hair on men?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - Just wondering what ladies, in general, think about body hair on a guy...?...