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Dating: Help and advice

LDR and valentine's day???

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8 February 2011 (F) - i was just looking for some ideas on what to do about valentines day with my LDR. We have been kinda in a relationship for a while now , and as ridiculous as it sounds i dont actually have his address :S being vaentines day on monday i obviously ...

Trouble reaching orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - I'm a healthy 16 year old guy but I'm having trouble getting to orgasm or cumming when I'm with my girlfriend. The first time she went down on me it took me 1 hour and 30 minutes to cum and it makes me feel bad to take so long, I'm wondering if ...

Walked on and lied to...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - My gf and I recently got into an argument... we have been dating for three years and we have been arguing alot lately... she said during our last argument that she could do anything... (lying a lot lately)... and I would come crawling back to her... ...

Dealing with heartbreak...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I am looking for some help and advice. My girlfriend who I was happy with decided to split with me we have been best mates for four years and we broke up because of stuff it was my fault, not hers really. She is now with my best friend. I ...

I feel like I've let my boyfriend down...

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8 February 2011 (F) - hi everyone, i've been with my boyfriend now for over a year and i really do love him so much and i do see a huge future for us and we've been through so much together. however, lately i've had an unwanted crush on someone from my college class it...

My skin is ruining my confidence!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - i've got a sweet and lovely boyfriend. everything is going great. but im having a very stressful year because of exams etc, and my skin keeps breaking out. I'm prone to coldsores, and they are really disgusting and it completely brings my confidence ...

She forwarded me an email from him calling me a lardass!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Ok This guy and I have known each other for two years and have been dating for two months. I recently received an email from this woman that says they are together and have been trying to work things out. When I confronted him of course he denied ...

Problem is we want different things in our futures...

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8 February 2011 (F) - My bf and I are totally in love. We get on amazingly and are always laughing and having fun. Problem is we want different things in our futures. And it makes us both sad to think about it cos we're worried it could split us up. What do I do? ...

How can he say he loves me...???

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8 February 2011 (?) - Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months. At first it was pretty complicated as he didn't want his rather controlling parents to find out. Anyway after about three weeks he told them, so everything was good for a ...

My girlfriend always has an excuse to not hang out on weekends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - I've been going out with this girl for about 2 weeks now. We both like each other a lot and we flirt. Everything seems so perfect when I see her at school. But when it comes to me asking her if she can hang out over the weekend, she always comes...

How can I break it to him that I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we love each other very much. He is 20 years older than me and because of this I think he is embarrassed to bring me around his family. I'm pretty sure they don't even know he has a girlfriend. Mine on ...

Got boyfriend but planning on sleeping with a married man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I live with my boyfriend, we have been together for 2 years! i met a young newly married man who is making passes at me! i now have strong feelings for him, and we are now planing on taking it to the next level'(sex). am so confusd! should i give ...

Should I ask my uncle to help us out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I dont know what to do anymore???? Ok I have been with my boyfriend 2 years in May!! When I first met him he was working hard always workin extra hours if he could! We got together and we moved to his moms to a very small town! There was NOTHING ...

Why does she verbally assault me all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - my girlfriend knows that i struggle with depression and low self-esteem, she has the power to make me feel good and the power to make me feel awful, and she does both! im confused and it doesnt help me when she verbally assaults me like she does ...

My friend is flirting with my boyfriend

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8 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently started going out, but my friend (whom I have been friends with for 10 years) has started flirting with him, he isn't fazed and he doesn't actually like her, it just really annoys me because she knows I've liked this guy ...

Dating ideas, Quick!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - I'm looking for more fun inside date ideas. My girlfriend and I watch A LOT of movies together, it's practically all we do. (Blame that on the weather) We've made bracelets, tye-died shirtsand napped together, (which was such an amazing feel...

My boyfriend got someone else pregnant!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i got back together last year in august. We broke up in 2009 the mnth of my bday bc he cheated. He says he cheated bc his parents drove him away frm me because they were controlling and our families fought a lot. he said us being ...

Will I ever be able to enter a future relationship and not feel weird about it... or should I just avoid men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Okay... I'm haunted by a question - if you can call it that. In 2009, I had a relationship that went... bad. Before the relationship went bad, it was a committed relationship that went strong for 2 1/2 years, and we were friends for almost 5 yea...

How do we work on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I've never done anything quite like this before, but I'm going to give it a shot. I've been with the same guy for almost four years now. For most of our relationship, things have been wonderful. We have similar interests, similar goals/wants in l...

What's he trying to tell me? Is he going to break up with me on valentine's day???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going through a hard time in our relationship. Basically I hurt his feelings and now hes telling me he needs time to think.. he wants me to give him time and space to think.. but i should look out for my postman on valen...

Should I be worried that I don't hear from her as much or is she genuinely busy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - I have been dating a woman 10 years younger than me for about a month and a half. When we first met it was instant fireworks. She called me every day texed me all the time and told me how much she misses me. She does live an hour away, is going t...

The what's and why's of watching Porn!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Hi I just need some advice from Women and Men I have been with partner for 10 years we have four children he is 27 and I'm 32!! We have sex every day almost!! We recently got wireless devices which he watches Porn on ok so here goes the questio...

How can I tell him I really DO like him and figure out how to start a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy, who we'll call jake. we're both 19 (he's about six months older than me). we met back in december when i was on my first date with his ex-best-friend, who i used to talk to (and no, i'm not the reason for their...

It doesn't feel normal and all of it is making me massively frustrated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, Ok I am a 40 year old Woman who has raised 3 children who are now 21, 19 and 17. I was single for 11 years so for all you single mums out there, hang on in there, I know its hard but we are women therefore stronger than we believe ourse...

Does this gift sound okay to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - i have this boyfriend and we've been goin out for 2 weeks now... its valentines day on monday and i have an idea on what to get him but im not sures if its ok. im getting him love heart sweets with a lego guy and gurl (he's such a boy!) as well as ...

Who should I believe... my boyfriend or my friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - My friends I havent seen in years, are telling me that my bf tried to play them but my other friends and boyfriend are telling me that they played him and i dont know who i should believe!!!! My friends are like my sisters and i love them but i love ...

Valentines day... what to buy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two moths now, and i want to get him something special for valentines day but idk what, can you help me?...

Are guys attracted to "sweet" girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Are guys attracted to "sweet" girls? I've been on a few dates, and a lot of times the guy will tell me that I'm "sweet." But they don't seem interested in me. Could they just be saying that as a nice gesture so they can walk away without har...

How can I keep these feelings of worry and guilt in check?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I dug myself into a bit of a hole here. My boyfriend (now ex) and I dated for a few months before moving around the world to a very small town to work together. After fighting almost constantly (but also having a lot of very good times), I broke up ...

Why cant't I distinguish between love and sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Hi all, I have a question. Please can you enlighten me on this.I have had a series of bad relationships with emotionally abusive men. I know this is to do with my self esteem which I am currently working on by going to see a therapist every week, ...

How can I save a relationship I cherish with a man who is currently going through a divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I'm pregnant. Totally unplanned. I used protection but it failed. It has come as a huge shock. My bf told me he was divorced when I got with him. I have just found out he is actually separated and going through a divorce. I asked him why did you ...

What does it mean when a guy promises to call at a certain time but he calls an hour or more after?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - What does it mean when a guy promises to call at a certain time but he calls an hour or more after? I am talking to this guy who already told me that he wants a future with me, but he keeps making me uncomfortable by his failure to keep his word...

I just wonder, where do I fit in her life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - This girl that I dated at one point, now who is single and got dumped, and we did remain friends durring their relationship. We joke around flirt and everything, she told me she didn't want to get my hopes up or anything, that she didn't want to ...

How do I keep things going between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I hope you can help with my love dilemma. Basically, I met this guy new years eve. He blew me away, and I fancied him so much we ended up sleeping together. The next day, he left, we didnt exchange numbers or anything and I thought I would ...

Is he getting action on the side when I'm not there?

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8 February 2011 (F) - hey everyone so im not sure if im doing something wrong in my relationship. i know that i can be a negative person and i do have depression but it seems like all my bf and i do is fight. we can never find something to do and our money is tight, a...

Is my girlfriend a Nymphomaniac?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - I'm in a relationship for 2 years, but I'm starting to suspect my girlfriend is a nympho. What are all the signs I should look at to be sure? She has weird behaviours but I never caught her cheating. 1. She enjoys inviting men to her apart...

I don't want to do anything rash that'll make me look like I'm desperate.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I am a 25 year old woman, who's working and I'm in a relationship with a 21 year old boy. We met about 8 months back, when I was on holiday and at the time we met. I had just broken up with my previous boyfriend of 5 years. It was love at first ...

I really miss him, how can we rekindle the spark?

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8 February 2011 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for over a year and we both are much in love and can't live without each other. I am a uni student and it is my last year and he works full time which is very hard to have time to spend together. I know...

He's now cold towards me and it worries me!

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8 February 2011 (F) - I have known this guy for sometime now and he has made his feelings known to me. He's never dated b4 as he says, and we cherish the moments we have together . But while I'm away,he seldom calls and I often get worried and call to hear from him. But ...

Does this shy/quiet guy from college like me? Are there any signs I should look for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I met this 27 year old medical school student at my university. He seems really shy/quiet and polite. I am not 100% sure if he is shy or just the quiet type. However, we became friends and had very few conversations during these past two months. He ...

Is this girl flirting with me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - Is this girl flirting with me? We are in the same classes at school and we see each other a lot. I have noticed she touches me more than other people (like during a conversation she will put her hand on my shoulder). She also said something t...

Will our different religious beliefs clash too much? And would he compromise his beliefs about sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Hello there, agony aunts. (: I have had a relatively close male friend who I have known for several years. We went to high school together and have always gotten on great. Almost the whole time I knew him, I had been with my ex boyfriend (who I...

My boyfriend through me into the snow during an argument! I'm not sure what to think!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I was walking outside with my boyfriend of 6 months, when we got into a small disagreement. We were holding hands, when he suddenly flung me across his body and into the snow on the side of the road. I landed, unhurt, but shaken. He is much stronger ...

What should I do about my child's deadbeat daddy? I'm a tornado of emotions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - My ex was cheating on me, when I busted him and his mistress. He lied to both of us, and I told him to leave. She ended up marrying him 6 months later. The problem is I was 6 weeks pregnant (and yes he knew), now I have an 18 month old. He is taking ...

I have pre-martital jitters! I'm scared and need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4831 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Been dating a guy for a few months. Several months into our relationship, our families were introduced to each other. When we started, I loved him very much, but just before the family introduction, I started experiencing some things. Though, I had ...

Will she forgive me, and talk to me again? Should I give her time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I broke up back in September. She broke up with me because she was feeling like she wanted to see other people. I was the best boyfriend she had and she loves me so much, but she is so upset because she has these feelings. So we ...

My friend is going to ask my crush who he likes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Hey guys! I've got a problem. I really like this guy and he just broke up with his girlfriend because he didn't love her and he loves someone else! The thing is he knows I fancy him and won't stop annoying me about it and keeps saying my name in a ...

Should I wait for my boyfriend (and father of my children) to get out of prison, or should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is currently in prison. We've been together over 5 years and we have two beautiful children together. I really do love him a lot and I am sure he loves me too, but I just can’t get over the fact that he has put us in such a horrible ...

My boyfriend broke up with me, but he's giving me mixed signals! Do we have a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend just broke up with me right on our one year mark. We had a great relationship, and I didn't think anything was wrong. We lived together too. He said he just wants to be single right now. He said he wants to be single for the next 5 y...

Why would he leave for a year if he loves me? And will he realize how much he misses me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been on and off for the last 6 months, but we've been together a year and a half altogether! He's 20, I am 23, and I am his first girlfriend. We break up over the same argument every time... he wants to work away whi...

I'm having some second thoughts about Valentine's Day celebrations, but am I wrong ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for a little over six years and on days like Valentines, anniversaries, Christmas, and birthdays I always try my best to make the occasion special. However, over the last year, I get the feeling that these types of ...

Does he like me? Should I tell him I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone! Ok so there's a guy I really like maybe even love. He supposedly knows I like him and he liked me a little last year. And I don't wanna sound like *blah* but I'm an AMAZING girl and I just don't see how he would like me more this ...

What to do for Valentines Day (and to avoid sleeping on the couch!)

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8 February 2011 (F) - hmm i know there is something i should be remebering?....girlfriend....love...she said she will kill me if i forget the date.....ummmm...what the....???....VALENTINES DAY!!!! ah obviously cupid didnt shoot a clear enough love arrow, and now...

Broken and wiling to never open my heart again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - This guy that I liked forever lead me on for about 2 years and just shut me down about an hour ago, I have forgiven him for every lie he said to me, i have forgiven him from doing all this other stuff, but he just shut me down, and even though i ...

She flirting with my boy friend. Now I'm feeling ignored. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months so far. It's been great! But i just have one problem, my bestfriend likes him! she sits next to him in class, so all i hear is her laughing and twirling her hair and looking at him! it makes me...

I think we have spent too much time together and now I'm afraid he is getting bored with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this really great guy for a month, being with each other is like drug to us and we couldn't help but spend almost every single day together for the past month. I remember going a day or two without seeing him and ...

My boyfriend has changed so much. It's taking a toll on me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I'm just going to say it and sound horrible.. my boyfriend doesn't really have a life anymore. He's so different to the person I met 5 years ago. He used to have a circle of friends. He'd meet up with his brother once a week to hang out....

I'm ashamed of my cutting scars

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

8 February 2011 (?) - I've got a couple scars on my body from cutting/injuring myself when I was younger. I'm ashamed of it and when I know I will be intimate with a man, I always put on makeup to cover them up. If he does notice them and asks me about them, I li...

I want to learn the best ways to approach her and get to know her better. Any ideas on how, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - Well, to start off. I would like to say that she does look at me an awful lot. Not to say she wouldnt be looking at anyone or anything. (As she is new to the job) But she tends to stare at me as we walk past eachother and she'd give quite a smile to ...

When I do see him I can't think of anything to say!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - So i like this guy alot, and he likes me too. but we dont get much time to talk anymore and sadly when we do get a chance to talk, i cant come up with anything worth saying... anybody have some good short conversation starters?...

She has feelings for another. how can I get over her, but not lose her as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - Well to start me and my friend started to talking to this girl, he really didnt care while i fell pretty hard for her. Well she told me that she only had feelings for my friend who by the way broke her heart two days later. So since we r such good ...

I can't figure out what her intentions are! Should I pursue her, and go all out for her on Valentine's Day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - My ex and I broke up recently. We had a great relationship of two years that started off as friends. We broke up because we are both growing into different people, but I want to fight through that because I believe that's what love is..fighting ...

Is he a natural flirt? Or is he really interested in mt

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - i think that i have found a guy who just like to flirt and that's all . we have been flirting with one another for now about 4 months, and he has not made a move to ask me out nor for my number. i think he is just a big tease . my question is, Is t...

How do I break up? Our relationship has stalled.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - My bf and I just had our 2 year anniversary, but I've wanted to break up for a while. I thought things would get better but it feels like things have stalled. And the relationship is stale. We have lots in common but it's the little things. When...

I really like him but he's going out with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4831 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - it's almost valentines day and theres a guy i really really really really like. here's the bummer:he's going out with someone!!!!! and also i get nervous that ill say something dumb in front of him! help please!!!...