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writes:My brother's older mate said I could use his account to ask a question quick just to clarify...I'm 15, gay and out and I find it hard to put myself out there to find a boyfriend since I broke up with my ex. Not sure if this is relevent but our relationship was very strained, we was both coming to terms with our sexuality completely. I was realising that I wasn't infact bisexual but gay and he was still coming out to himself. We didnt argue a lot but we did disagree and in the end we split but stayed good friends.I've been on a few dates since and even had a boyfriend but I couldn't stay interested... Looking back now it was my fault for loosing such a sweet thing.So my question to you, (through my friend's acount), is what is wrong? with me ?
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reader, fallenangel95  +, writes (24 February 2011):
..I think you just need sometime, go slow with your relationships and think things through. I think when you find the right guy, you will lose all of that lack of self confidence. Don't give up on yourself.you just need to be patient. :D
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reader, crazybeast +, writes (24 February 2011):
crazybeast is verified as being by the original poster of the question In responce: Over that period of time I had really come to terms with my sexuality and came out to my family and friends(again).
I only asked the question because if I do meet a nice guy I can never be confident with myself enough to give the right signals i guess :(
Also I dont really have the confidence to put myself out there as much.
When it comes to my ex we know we wont ever get back together because we feel we have already been down that road... In some ways I think he is to blame when it comes to guys because I get what I need from him. As in, We are really close... he is the one I go to if I have a problem or a shoulder to cry on but it's not the same as having a boyfriend, I can't kiss him or sleep in the same bed
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reader, Eilish +, writes (24 February 2011):
 There is nothing wrong with you and nothing wrong with coming to terms with yourself. You have yet to figure out who you actually are, and embrace that. And let everyone else accept it too. Don't go into anything that could turn out serious until you are certain with yourself first.xxx
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reader, fallenangel95 +, writes (24 February 2011):
I don't think there's anything wrong with you, I think your just trying to figure out who you are.Maybe you should give it another try with your good friend.:D
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