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writes:First of all, I am 16 and male. I fell for my best friend(girl). We have been best friends forever but whenever i am with her now, i love it and when im not, I cant stop thinking about her and sometimes just feel like crap cause i am not with her. We were on vacation together and cuddled a lot watching scary movies at night and talking until like 4 am two nights in a row. When we went skiing she kept saying that i would catch her if she fell. Sometimes I think she feels the same way as I do and sometimes I am not sure. We talk all the time and hang out. The thing that i am most worried about is ruining what we have now because we are such great friends. But at the same time I really want to be with her. Please help I don't know what to do.
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (24 February 2011):
 Well the problem with this is if you got with this girl, then (for whatever daft reason) it didn't work out,you'd have to accept the risk of your friendship not being the same again. However, sometimes breaking up (for some people) can make them stronger as friends. I think if you want to get with this girl give it a go, obviously find out how she feels first. However you must take into account the consequences of this not working out, because it could go either way. xxx
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