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Archived questions from: 19 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why will my boy friend not trust me. I live a good clean life now.

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19 February 2011 (F) - Hi my boyfriend is really hung up on the fact that I took drugs years ago... I don't now, as I've grown up, it was a phase I went through as some people do. Its just every time I have a drink he thinks I'm on drugs too!! I earn a honest wage, and...

My boy friend has proposed. What age can we marry in UK ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for quite a bit now... He's 16 and i'm 14 :). He's going into the army soon and he has proposed to me. I said yes because i thought it was right :) . the only thing is i don't know how to tell my parents and ...

Does he still like me? Even though it's a long time ago

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - i'm not a confident girl at all.i just want your advice about something.i just want to know how i could possably get a particular guy to want to talk to me.something that would get him to say something first. i don't want me or him to feel unco...

Why would he act like he's hurt when he made it pretty clear he didn't want to be with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - About a month and a half ago my boyfriend, "Greg", told me that he wanted us to break up because he had just lost his job and was going through a lot and said he just couldn't focus on a relationship at the moment. I had feelings for him so I took ...

My boyfriend has a very controlling ex-wife. How can he still see his child but also allow us weekends together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Any advice appreciated. I have been dating a man for a year; he is separated for almost a year and recently filed for divorce. I am also separated for almost 2 years. He has a 10 yr old daughter who lives with the Mom. The daughter and Mom live ...

Should I stop being naive and give up or should I keep talking to him and wait for something that only MIGHT happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I met a guy through my bestfriends boyfriend. At first we just talked a little online, but it quickly became something. We talked almost all day. I felt comfortable telling him things about myself and he did the same. I began to really like him and ...

Is she losing interest in me? Or am I over reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - Hiya - I have been dating a girl for a year. It has been a wonderful year. I have noticed (or maybe I am reading into things) that she seems less interested. She has always been very generous with her feelings. We don't live together but try and see ...

Where or what are good places to have sex other than on a bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Any good places to have sex besides in bed? Favourite place to do it? Any interesting ways?...

Iv left behind a past of sex with prostitutes and escorts. When the time comes, how do I bring this up to the girl I eventually want to be with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - During my more formative years I rarely dated. Girls either moved away or just disappeared, and I know that when I would eventually transfer I'd have to leave everyone behind. Between this and the usual "You're a nice guy, but..." I just stopped ...

She broke up with me, but she wants to check on me. Why is she doing that?

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19 February 2011 (M) - My ex broke up with me but wants to maintain contact every couple of days. She said she does it just so I know that she still cares, yet she is already interested in a new guy. We were together two years. why does she still text me?...

He says he doesn't want a relationship, I'm confused about my feelings for him...yet we're room mates who sleep together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Alright, so for the last three months i moved in with a very good guy friend. We are very good roomates and the "living together" is going on very well. We are in the same class in the university and we have the same part time job, meaning we spend ...

I don't want to stay friends if she can't guarantee to be faithful. Why is she upset about MY attitude to this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

19 February 2011 (?) - I made contact with my ex about a year ago and we were both single. I made it clear to her that if she ever hooked up with another bloke that I would walk away because I don't want to cause any problems. I kind of hoped that she would want to try ...

What will I say? He wants to know more. But I lied about me on the dating site profile

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hey all. I have been chatting to this guy I met on an internet dating website. my profile was set up as a joke so i had no problem checking it out as it had nothing properly on it about me so being nice i tried to tell some quiet shy boys that they ...

Help. Is it too late? Never had a bf. what factors make it more likely that a person will find and interest a person to want a relationship with me?

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19 February 2011 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, I could really use some advice, and I've been feeling a bit lonely lately. I would really like to hear your opinions. When do you know that you have absolutely no chance with someone, ever? In other words, that you'...

She has a bf..but I really like her! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - hi after some advice please ive know this women for a year and half now i meet her when she started to work for same company. At one point when she first stared i was working with her we got on really well and i enjoyed going to work we had a awesom...

Sex...twice in one night???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - ok well ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and i would like to say its been great in the well bedroom but the thing is he wants to be able to have sex twice in one night and im not against the idea but i just know that whenever he finishes ...

Can you tell me...is our relationship over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - the other night my boyfriend and i were at a party where it was mostly my friends but a couple of his too. we had all been drinking a lot and i was having a laugh and a joke with him and his friend. they both speak french and said something about me ...

I missed his call!! Do I call him back, now?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hi All, Please help!! I told my ex I loved him a week or so back by text, as I do and I miss him terribly!! Anyway, I felt a bit emabarrsed after I had said it by text, so I sent another one saying ' Sorry about the mad texts, I was feeling a bit ...

Jealousy..How to deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - hello everyone!=] I'm currently in high school,and i'm really confused.. Last year a boy started asking me out, and it was really annoying at the time seeing as it had wound me up alot and made me really upset. People were telling me to go out...

We have big problems! Should I break up with my fiancee after 2 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I'm engaged, we've been together for 2 years now. I'm also pagan and he is agnostic. I go for religious festivals twice a year and recently asked him if I could have an altar in the house. He refuses to a) let any children we might have go to the ...

I love my chat BF but maybe he doesn't feel the same. What would be some solutions to improve things?

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19 February 2011 (F) - hi i really like this boy and we was talkin on chatsites and things and he acted like he realy liked me i have known him years and he and i are so close well untill recently he has started to ignore me i cant deal with it i love him so much he ...

Having bad luck in the relationship dept so I'm thinking of losing my virginity to a prostitute. Thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - Its terrible when a guy just has zero luck with women and has no break through what so ever. At what point is it time to decide enough is enough do you continue dealing with the pain and suffering or can one seek a sexual encounter to get it over ...

He 's active on a dating site..does this count as cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a month. In general everything has been pretty good. From our first date on, things have just been pretty serious. Our dates tend to be all day affairs, we see each other 3-5 times a week, we talk on the phone and ...

I want her to know how sorry I am for hurting her..will she ever talk to me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (?) - i was with this girl for 1.5 years and we loved each other to death. we really had a lot in common and we really did enjoy spending time with each other. our relationship got so serious at one point that we were thinking about marriage(thank god it ...

My BF has no objection to his 25yr old daughter moving in with us. I do, as we don't get on. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I have an ongoing issue with my boyfriend's daughter. She is 25 and living semi close and going to university. She is just about to graduate after 8 years with a bachelors. She is unsure exactly what she'll be doing, but is thinking of moving back...

Should I now apologize for my past actions? Or is it too late to do so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I am mulling over an issue and need some direction from the Aunts and Uncles. I'm a MM who fell into an emotional affair with a co-worker a few years back. Prior to that, we had known each other for years with no issues. Just acqu...

Is FWB all she really wants? How could I encourage it to be more than that?

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19 February 2011 (M) - I met a woman on Halloween and we spent a couple of weeks having sex almost every day (I'm currently getting a divorce). 5 weeks into our 1st meeting on Halloween she was hinting on wanting things to be a FWB but I didn't catch on because I was ...

She's still the one for me. Do you think she will ever come back?

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19 February 2011 (M) - It's been a month and a half since my break up with my girlfriend (ex) that was a 3 year relationship. the only time she contacted me once saying she missed me, a week after the break up after she asked me on a date and cancelled it because ...

If I get the help my boyfriend says I need, will he still stay with me when I get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4821 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - My fiance and I we were fighting over a stupid phone.. he turned it on and then i over reacted. he told me he wasnt doing anything, but he said i hurt him so much that now, he doesnt know what he wants from me. Meaning, like about the marriage...

Should I lie? Or wait a while before I reveal my problem, when I date someone new?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Ive asked about my memory loss before but this is a little different. I'll cut the story short i'm 20 and only have memories of the past 7 months, everything before that is gone and i've been told it wont come back. I was just wondering if i were to ...

I'm not over her. I do miss her. Do you think there is a future for us, together?

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19 February 2011 (M) - I dated my ex girlfriend for over two years. We began dating in grade 11 and she was my high school sweetheart (prom date, etc.). I took a year off after high school while she went to university about an hour and a half away. We made it until about ...

Two girls, can't decide

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - Ok here's my problem, I am a 15 year old boy and I have never been in a real relationship with a girl or even kissed one on the lips. There are two girls that I have interests in. Girl A, I started to talk to her on facebook about 2 months ago when...

He flirts with his ex-girlfriend and doesn't care that it upsets me!

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19 February 2011 (F) - I see my boyfriend everyday flirting with his ex-girlfriend. I tell him how I feel and I tell him I get jealous but he doesn't stop. He says he 'loves" me but I don't think he does. What should I do????...

Should I become promiscuous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - I will come out and say it: due to a bad and nonexistent upbringing, I used to be the "nice guy" with very little luck. I am 24 years old and I have been with only 7 women in my life (mostly due to luck). Due to fortune and the great advice from an ...

How can I get her to notice me without talking to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - I like a girl and I want her to take notice of me, how can I let her notice me without actually approaching her and talking directly to her?...

My boyfriend is possessive and mean to me. Now he has told me about a woman he finds attractive. Is it time for me to move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together a long time, around 3 years. He's always said "I'm it" he wants to marry me, etc. However, his actions speak differently. He put a deposit down on a ring, but later got a refund, which hurt immensel...

While drunk I sent her a really angry text, how do I make amends?

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19 February 2011 (M) - Look I need advice. Last Tuesday, the day after Valentine's, I had a little fight with my girlfriend. We had never fought before. We had plans for Valentine's Day. I bought 2 tickets to go to a concert, also I bought flowers and chocolates, but my g...

When Three Become One: Can Polyamorous Relationships Work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - In these enlightened times, love, sex and relationships are much more flexible than they were even twenty years ago. It is no longer shocking for a couple to live together before marriage, or even to live together with no intention of marrying. ...

What to think about my boyfriend's female-friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - My bf and I had just gotten to our 5 months when he had an emotional affair with a new female friend. Now all I ask is if he could tell me when he goes out with friends and I would do the same. Well during that whole period I found out he went wit...

I would love some examples of how I could take control in the bedroom!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I enjoy a healthy sex life with my boyfriend of 2 months. Recently we have been opening up about what we like, and he says he really likes the girl to take control. This is something I've never really done before. So how do I do it? I know this ...

She dumped me all of the sudden, I'm not sure what to believe!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - My fiance had cheated on her husband and divorced. She still says the ex is her soul-mate. AFTER WE WERE ENGAGED! All the sudden she said we were through. She wants no contact anymore. Just 2 days prior we had sex and fun. But she couldn't sleep ...

He won't even look at me now that he has a girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Ok let's see if y'all can help me..Ok me and this guy only went out for a few days but before that we talked and flirted with each other and even after that we flirted and talked and texted and IMed on Facebook,and like whenever he had a girlfriend ...

Getting over my ex and the fact that she has a new boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend is dating someone new, and the new guy just happens to be her ex boyfriend from college. I wouldn't think this would bother me since our relationship ended 6 months ago, but it is. I knew we were having problems for the 3 years or ...

She wants a two week break, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - I am 45 year old male, I've being dating a woman the same age, last week she told me she wants two weeks space. Does this mean she wants a clean break, I like her a lot and she says she likes me to but I'm confused. She won't answer my texts so what ...

I feel as though I'm doing something wrong when it comes to oral!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for quite a while and then we broke up. Before that we gave each other oral sex etc and really loved each other. In the few months that we were apart we saw other people etc. (I dated a VERY BAD kisser) We're back tog...

Work/sports buds or more???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I've had a huge crush on this guy I work with for months. He sometimes says really cute things to me and compliments me (but I don't know if he says this to all girls or just me) and he is so attractive.. I get sooo nervous when I'm around him.. I ...

My gf always thinks I am checking out other girls when I am not. How do I calm her down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (?) - I have another question. It's about my girlfriend's insecurity. Now what happens is that she says she catches me looking at other girls when I don't. I will admit that i do get bored and my eyes start to wander but i never check out a girl. ...

We don't see each other much and it worries me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - Hi i am 16 yers old my gf is 18yers, i go whith here in the same class but( i have a problem i am russian and she is chinese)on on sanday and saturday she is going to work every time and somtimes friday night. i dont have free time to spend with ...

Two guys like me and I like both of them!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Two guys like me. I like both of them. One of them asked me to be their girlfriend and I don't know what to do. I've made a pros and cons list. I can't find anything bad about going out with either of these guys besides that if I choose one the ...

How do I get over all my securities? My guy says this could ruin our relationship if I can't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - how do i get over my insecurities? My insecurities hold me back from a lot of things as far as my relationship with my boyfriend. i feel embarrassed at times when we make love and when we partake in other intimate activities. he constantly tells me...

I would like her back. But will she ever realise how good she had it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - If i treat a girl like a princess and she thinks it's weird, because she has never been treated like this, will she come back?. I have cut all contact if she texts me, i don't respond. will she ever realize what she had? Will she ever come back...

What do I say on a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I'm going on a date. I don't know what I'm going to say. My dad says I should just say, "Tell me something about you," but I still don't know what I'm going to say. I actually never went on a date. Help! ...

Guy I'm seeing doesn't know who he is or what he wants., and I don't know how to deal with it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I've been in a complicated relationship with a guy. We met 3 1/2 years ago. It's been crazy and unhealthy, but I could use some help to figure this guy out. Firstly, we met and he was with someone else. I knew that. They were having a bunch of ...

How do I convince her that I won't break her heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - There is this girl that I know, and we have been best friends since we've met. We started talking again after a year and I came to realize that she has liked me since the 6th grade, and so have I. I have asked her out and she said no because she was ...

I told my boyfriend I don't really enjoy sex, and he's taken it personally, as if he was bad in bed! What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hey all. So I'm 17 and I'm sexually active (about 7 months now). And honestly, I'm not a fan. My boyfriend is the only person I've ever had sex with. (We've been together since we were 15.) To be honest, sex was never really and interest of mine...

Scarred by the past--how do I learn to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I had a child when i was 16 and the father denied the pregnancy. This whole thing affected me so badly that I find it difficult to stay in a relationship. When the person I'm with tries to get close I push them away and tell them that I'm wasting ...

Does his staring at me mean that hel ikes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I like someone and I catch him staring at me a lot but I am not sure he likes me or not because whenever I catch him looking at me he turns away and doesn't talk to me. I don't know how to tell him that I love him. Please help me to know how would I ...

I'm not sure if I should love him with all my heart or just be really cautions...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - so me and this guy have been dating for 9 months ... in the first 3 months he tells me he just wants to be friends it hurt i let it go.. then he comes back he tells me that he needed time for his self to figure out if he really wanted to be with me ...

The girls go for my mates not me

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19 February 2011 (M) - I go out with friends who get drunk and some times we meet girls but the girls tend to go for my mates instead of me and I just end up getting annoyed with my friends when they start talking about what they and one of the girls did is there anything ...

Drunken text has caused quite a strain in our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - Look I need advice. Last Tuesday, the day after Valentine's, I had a little fight with my girlfriend. We had never fought before. I sent a stupid text while I was very drunk. She got really upset because she said I was comparing her to my ex. ...

He's unmotivated, unemployed and I'm feeling emotionally detached from him. Should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I need some advise. I am 23 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He is such an amazing man. I have never been treated so well in a relationship. We do EVERYTHING together. If we are not working or in ...

My fiance and I have been together a year and I'm a virgin. But is he a sex addict?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hello, i've been in relationship for a year, and then got engaged to a guy, but i feel inside he is sex addicted. we 've never been in a sexual relationship and i am still virgin, even in my thoughts about love.. last time we went out we were exc...

Why do people think of single mothers as taboo and easy? Need help finding decent men!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - It's been two years now that I've been doing the single parent thing, (I'm over my divorce). And... I can't tell you how disappointing it's been for me, to merge back into society with a different status. I recently stopped attending this mega chu...

I told him I'm pregnant today. He became abusive and aggressive with me. Where do I go from here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - hi everyone, im 22 and this guy is 20. i need some good advice here. today i found out that i'm pregnant this is my first time being pregnant and the guy im pregnant for he's a player. its been nearly 3half weeks i havent heard from him. he's been...

I am gutted. Is he fobbing me off, for doubting him? Or is he angry with me? Or is it over

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Been going out with my fella for 6 months now and we just had our first fall out - need to say sorry which i have done several times - don't know what else to do he sent me a today to say he can't come sunday - was gutted as i only see him once a we...

I'm not interested in relationships. What affect will that have on me in future?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm 15 years old, I haven't had a boyfriend, I've been asked a couple of times but I'm not interested. Every boy I know behaves in unacceptable ways. They're cocky, or not sensitive, too sarcastic. Don't get me wrong, I can tak...

My family object to decisions my fiance and I made. Advice please on how to handle interferring relatives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I'm 22, I've been with my boyfriend (28) for a year. We are very much in love and wanting to get engaged and be married in two or so years when he graduates college and receives his BS. The problem is I'm getting some negative feedback from my dist...

Am I just a booty call? Is he messing me around? Or is he genuine

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - i met a lad at boxing a few months ago, and we've always had a bit of chemistry. recently last month he in boxed me, giving me his number, because he quit the gym. we've been texting ever since, he comes into my work at his break just to see me, ...