A
male
age
30-35,
*hilipk769
writes:Hello. Well I'm 20 and Irish, i study physics and play guitar. I've always been single, have never had any sort of a relationship, date, kiss, whatever. Granted, im by no stretch of the imagination attractive, atleast Ive never known anyone to fancy me, and I honestly accept that realistically, some people just never get married or anything... and I accept that I may be one of these people. So I'm not being unrealistic, and do not expect any miracles, just some reasonable advice. I honestly feel like I dont know what to do with my life. Until recently, i was somewhat overweight, but have been gotten in shape as I believe a career with the army may well be the way to go. Im not particularly afraid of a single life and hope that I dont come across as needy. If Im honest, all I want is to be a husband, I just realistically never see it happening. I would just like some advice as to what options I may have. Thanks
View related questions:
overweight Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (24 February 2011):
 I have some advice and a story, if you could just message me because I don't want to share this with everyone.
thank you,
`SY
A
female
reader, Taylor_1118 +, writes (24 February 2011):
Come to America! Girls love accents ! And american chicks go crazy, i would, so sexy. Thats point number one. Point number if your in over weight get in shape, a hot bod and a sexy irsh accent they will be a line around the block,and you play guitar! Trust me come to the U.S. But also be a kind sweet man with true good intensions and loyal and a good woman will come and snatch you up. You are 20 not 60 and even 60's not too old for love. You will be just fine.
...............................
A
female
reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 February 2011):
 I agree ever Irish man I have laid eyes has been mighty fine, sadly they were taken.
You could move to another country, that might be possible with the military.
Neither of us can tell the future, you're still young and have the rest of your life to find a wife. So you really don't know if you will be a husband or not. For now, I suggest you focus on you; figure out what you want to do with your life. The army is a nice choice..it will shape and mold you into a fine man. Besides, the uniform is a chick magnet.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011): Hey, youre irish, move to america and the girls will flock to you! Heck move down to England and youll be snatched up!
But on a serious note, be happy being who you are, and you will find someone who loves you for that. I can promise you there are weirder guys than you who are getting married, I know a few!
Really, the kind of girl you want to be with is one who will love you for the man you are, and you will be the most handsome man in the world to her, because you are the man she loves. SO have faith and hope and you will meet the right girl some day! Just dont rush into things for the sake of a relationship!
...............................
|
