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Archived questions from: 12 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My best mate loves my girlfriend. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - hi i have a dilemma. it is that my best mate, he loves my girlfriend and and he is pressureing her. I've tried talking to him but it just doesn't work. What do i do....

My love of breast milk! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - Hello All,I am a middle age man and since my youth I have been obsessed by human lactation and breast milk. When I was 12 my mom was nursing my little brother and she did for about a year, during that time I was very envious of him since I am the ...

Love her to bits but she says no sex before marriage and it's frustrating me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - Hi I'm 28. For the first time in my life I think I am truly in love. My relationshiip with my girlfriend of 4 months is fantastic. However, she does not believe in sex before marriage because she is christian. I am not religious but repsect her...

My girlfriend's libido!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - Ok, so when my gf and I get intense she loves it. She definitely gets satisfied each time, I literally make sure of it and give it my best effort. Over time I've learned how to get her off and I can do it most every time for her now. She tells me ...

Split up because of his drinking problem... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Help! I've just split with my boyfriend after 3 and a half years. We have had some great times and are really compatible together. However, he has a drink problem - not during the week, but every 6 weeks or so he has a major drink binge. He doesn't ...

My boyfriend seems to forget I exist when we're apart. Should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 19 and live in South Kent. My boyfriends 25 and lives in london, and because he lives quite far away from me we hardlt ever get to see each other, maybe once a month if im lucky. The thing is, I really, really like him, but he doesn't s...

My boyfriend likes swedish looking blondes however I am a bi racial black woman

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12 February 2011 (F) - Okay to cut a long story short my boyfriend was telling me about a woman he used to know he said if he could of gone out with anyone it would of been her because she was attractive sweet and beautiful. He also added she was blonde and swedish ...

Where do men go when they are looking for a good woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - where is a good place to meet a good man at . have already try church an it did not work for me . so i know they has to be places men go that are looking for a good women ? ...

I am so sick of my boyfriend of five years not stepping up and marrying me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (?) - I don't know what to do. I am so sick of my boyfriend of five years not stepping up and marrying me, (we've been engaged), and him saying that he spent thousands on my engagement ring when he didn't, he only spent 2K, i saw the receipt! So, because ...

Me - the promiscuous girl. A fatal flaw - cheater til the end?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - I am a lusty college sophomore, and I have cheated on my last two boyfriends. Both were not really serious, the last one was about 3 months and the one I'm in now is at about 3 months. I told the last guy that I cheated and broke up with him because ...

Can I get my ex to want me again by fully moving on from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and i broke up in october of 09' a month later he was dating another girl he left her for me about 3 months into their relationship then went back to her. He then left her for me 6 months into their relationship and then went back to ...

How can I be more social and outgoing with my old friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - I dated an immature way too old for me jerk for six months two years ago and had again during the summer. The only reason i went back to him was because i was afraid i wouldn't find another guy. I make straight A's and try my best to be nice to ...

We lied about how we met to our parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - i'll be meeting my boyfriends parents in April. and my mom wants to get to know his parents before letting me go. but the problem is that we lied about how we met to our parents. what do i do to make this work? thanks ...

He's my friend on facebook, but how do I make him a friend (or more) in real life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - So, it's been 6 months since my ex and I broke up after being together for two years. And while I have met and hung out with some guys, none of them have really stood out to me. Well, I know this sounds ridiculous, but there is a guy who works at...

Dating for 4 months and no idea what to get my guy for V-Day

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, Valentines day is just 2 days away, and I have absolutely have NO idea what to get my boyfriend. We are both 15, and we have been dating for 4 months. The thing is, he doesn't really like anything in particular. He isn't into video...

My mom doesn't let me date anyone except my boss and I don't want to go out with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - How to begin... Im 25 and living at home with my parents. Im going to school (graduating in May) so i havent moved out bc my parents are helping pay for school and i pay no rent or anything. Bc of this tho, my mother whom is very strict will bar...

How can I better manage social situations? Can anybody relate to my lack of social skills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - I've recently turned 33 and over recent years have experienced an increase in people enquiring about my love life status. This in turn forces me to assess my personal circumstances, specifically my lack of social skills. I have always struggled with ...

Shouldn't my girlfriend consult with me first before making plans?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for about 2 years now. It's a long distance relationship. Everything was going so well until I realized we don't have much to talk about on the phone. It's the same old stories, so our conversations don't last long. A...

If I leave, I will bring shame to my family, and they will break all ties with me! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I am a 24-year old girl from Bordeaux. My family comes from Pakistan and we are quite a traditional family with close family ties. They do not allow me to meet my friends and my only occupation is staying at home and doing my house...

My last girlfriend cheated on me. Will I ever find a another love who I will be able to trust?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - Recently, I was cheated on by my girlfriend. I loved her so much and trusted her alot too, but she proved to be contrary to what I thought of her. Do you think I will find another girl whom I will love and trust? The problem is that I have totally ...

I know he's busy but doesn't he even have time for a brief message?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Hello, Let me try to summarize the whole story really quickly. (for more detail on how things started, read "I want to show him I care without scaring him off". This is a followup.) I met a wonderful man who lives in another country not far...

Boyfriend was flirting with another girl but I'm the one who messed up by getting into an ugly fight with him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 1 year started heavily flirting with a girl recently. We already talked about this and he said nothing is serious but i doubt that girl is falling for him. Yesterday again he started flirting with her and i got so pissed off, w...

Mixed feelings, trust issues, an LDR, and meaningless fights...What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Ive been with my boyfriend for almost three years now. He is 25 and I'm 23. Recently he went to live to another city to study. We were living together for almost two years and had built a wonderful home. Our relationship is ...

Bisexual, in a relationship but want to experiment more...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Ok so I'm bisexual and I've known since I was young, around 12/13. I watch lesbian porn but to me that does not determine my sexuality or anybody else's for that matter. but what I do want to do is experiment more with other girls but I'm already in ...

Boyfriend says he doesn't know how to show me love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I live in different states so that already is putting a strain on the relationship. Earlier tonight he got angry with me for post a face book status because I was upset with him for not talking to me and not paying enough attention. ...

My girlfriend has a very low sex drive and its extremely frustrating for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - I am now 20 years old and started dating my girlfriend about 3 years ago. during the first year or so of our dating we has sex on a regular basis for the most part with no less than twice a week, anytime anywhere, it was fun and we were happy and ...

How can I change my self image, so that I can find a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - Hello dear cupid, i just found this site by accident. I figure since im here i can give it a try. you all seem to be fairly good and answering questions. I am a 22 year old guy. i am single, and have been for going on 5 years. people always te...

Trying to make our relationship work after a break...with no help from my girlfriend!

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12 February 2011 (M) - ok sooo my girlfriend of two years and I broke up about two weeks ago but we continued talk and came to an understanding that we both wanted to get back together. Her only condition was that she wanted to take it slow and not have an official...

Why is she avoiding having me meet her parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - I have been going out with this girl for 5-6 months now. I like her a lot and she likes me too. My friends and family know about her and she has met them all. But she has not told her family and friends about me and they do not know that we are ...

Valentine's Day is making me reconsider getting back with my sweet, sweetheart!

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12 February 2011 (F) - last valentines i found out i was pregnant and my 2 year boyfriend abandoned me. my son was born premature and a few weeks after i met an amazing man. but he was divorced and was in the navy for 2 years. everything went great but we found out we are ...

I don't know if he is just blowing me off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - So I have been seeing this guy for a month. Things were great. He's really nice always wanted to see me and spend time with me. So two nights ago I asked to hang out, he had already made plans but asked me to hang out the following night. Well the ...

He has my number so why hasn't he asked me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Hello, I've recently met a boy, who is my age. (I'm 20) We have hung out in a group three times We have each others phone numbers, although he hasn't asked me out. But he hasn't asked me out yet. There is intense eye contact each time we hang...

My boyfriend used his sex toy to masturbate AFTER having sex with me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - The other day my bf woke me to have sex. We did it and it was very good and after we both took a nap. When we woke I needed to run to the store for a few things. When I came back I noticed the bed comforter was pushed all the way to my side. He ...

I am afraid to receive oral sex.... Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - It might sound a little strange but I'm afraid to receive oral. My boyfriend and I will be having sex for the first time very soon (we're both virgins) and I told him that I was afraid of receiving oral, he giggled at it... It's not that I'm afr...

Pregnant, extremely unhappy, terrible boyfriend and still not over my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4830 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - what do i do? i am 14 weeks pregnant and in a very unhappy relationship. my boyfriend treats me like shit he has hit me since ive been preagnant and pushed me he dosent do anything special for me sinc i found out i was pregnant. honestly he has ...

Does this make me a bad person, knowing that he has a gf and still talking to him and wanting to fool ARound with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - I work at a fastfood place and my coworker likes me and i like him but he has a gf but he doesn't know that I know he has a gf. He's super cute I gave him my # and I gave him a hug. I wanna get to know him better. I also wanna do "stuff" with him ( ...

I am pregnant and my boyfriend doesn't want me to have the baby.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - I'm 4 months pregnant my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion and I don't want to. Me and him have been fighting over it every night. When I first told him I was pregnant he was happy but now he doesn't want it. He said when his child is born he...

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend won't stop talking to other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Right now, I am 7 months pregnant by my boyfriend and we've been together for 2 yrs. My problem is that we made an argreement that we would both stop talking to other men and women. I've held my end of the deal, but I see that he is having a hard ...

Is it wrong of me to continue my affair with my first cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - I am currently having an affair with my first cousin. We love each other enormously even though we haven't been together for too long. We have a big age difference. But to us that doesn't matter. For my part I would do anything to be with him and I ...

Should I be friends with a girl whom I want to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - The girl I went on a few dates with turned out to like me only as a friend. She is now onto the next one and asked if I would go with her tomorrow on a date with this new guy. She is 15 and he is 19... jail bait? I think so. I found out that she ...

How can he tell me he loves me, and then leave me for someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - I was 16 he was 19. When we broke up, he found a new girlfriend straight away. People tell me that I'm heaps prettier, and she's really annoying and unsupportive. I was happy because I hoped he would come back to me, but it’s been 2 months since ...

How do I avoid the Friend Zone???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - So I've met this fine girl in my class this semester, and I built up the courage to ask her to hang out. We got lunch together, and it seemed like we got along great. I've never had a girlfriend before, I'm 19, but I've been placed in the friend ...

She gone's cold. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - [Mod Note: The OP's 2 questions have been merged into one.] Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and sex was outstanding now she has gone right off sex and being affectionate, she says she still loves me and doesnt know why she is like it ...

How do I forgive him for his "fun"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Hey. So my boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. Last year, I found some posts he made on craigslist looking for some "fun". Obviously, I was extremely upset and confronted him. He apologized and cried and all that good stuff. I'm ...

Why would she suddenly lose interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - I should first point out this girl doesn't drink and party on a regular basis, she's very close to her immediate family and definitely a family person, loves kids and is going to be a teacher, and due to a 2-year long relationship ending badly for ...

Should I push her into a relationship with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - i like this girl, we have a lot of fun together but she does not want a romantic relationship right now b/c she is still getting over her ex. i want to know if i should push her into a relationship? or just take it slow and just be there for her. ...

Is he a flirt or is there something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (M) - OKAY, just to let you know... I'm gay. :) I'm really happy with my sexuality, but I really like one of my guy friends. Lucky for me though,he's bisexual. He's only ever had relationships with girls, but he HAS made out with a fair few of guys. N...

Why does my boyfriend think it's sexy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been trying new things in bed and a few nights ago I joined in with him fingering me. He said it was sexy and he loved it. And I asked him why and he couldn't give me a straight answer. I don't understand why he liked it so ...

We're going to get married, but I don't know about his past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - So I have been with My Fiance for 3 years now and I dont know anything about his past relationships or the other girls in his past all i know is that he was a bit of a player before his car accident he never likes to talk about that part of his past ...

I feel like my boyfriend still has strong feelings for his ex wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - I've been in a serious relationship with someone I've known and have been friends with for many years. I know he loves me and I love him with all my heart but the problem is this. He is still close with his wife. Neither of us are legally divorced...

I care more about my kids then I do this asshole!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - i need some suggestions/ i really am not happy at all with the person i am with right now, but weve been together for 3 years and we live together. we moved to a new city and hes the only person i know. hes becoming abusive. i mean he doesnt hit me ...

What do I do to get rid of this insecurity I'm feeling?

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12 February 2011 (M) - hey! in a six month relationship! my girlfriend previously exited a 17 year relationship with two children ive met her six months after the break up! first three months was the best then all off a sudden she died in our relationship quite abit i ...