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writes:My fiance always jokes. I am a humorous person and I like to joke, but not as much as he does, which is all the time. For example, when I call to say good morning he answers, “and what do you want now?”, and laughs. I know he loves me so much, but he can’t be kidding all the time. I need to hear love words. Today when we spoke on the phone, I used the same humor he uses all the time…I talked all over the call humorously with no little serious word, and he said, “what’s wrong with you are you mad??” Then he hung up the phone. I didn’t call him back and I won’t. I need advice how to treat him to be normal. Sometimes I miss his seriousness, so I drove him crazy so he would realize I’m fed up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear strontiumdog: thanks for your reply, i did talk to him about this issue as an adult but he said you are moody and peevish i hate this type of gurls, you have to be cheerful :S:S:S when i do these things he thought iam a stereotype of moody women who run after struggles and fights, so i have to pass things and laugh :S
Petinal: your reply made me happy :) hope so thx sweetie
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reader, petina1 +, writes (23 February 2011):
 He sounds as if he is so happy,probably because he has you in his life. Trust me, as soon as he does have something to worry about, then you will see the real person behind the mask. He could be using humour to conceal something that he would rather forget, maybe a childhood issue. You need to get behind the facade and y ou may have to let him know you are serious and the silliness is getting you down and pushing y ou away. I'm wondering why you got engaged to him, y ou must have liked him being like this initially.
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