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Dating: Help and advice

Why do guys go for my twin sister over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Hi guys I am a 15 year old twin girl and I have a problem that I really can't figure out. me and my twin Hannah share a lot of things in common including our looks as we are identical but we after time look slightly different. Now here is my problem ...

Was asked out by a girl, but had been thinking of asking another

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Hi guys I'm in a spot of bother with my current situation. I have been interested in this girl for a while and was thunk of asking her out then just today a different girl asked me out. I said I will think about it because I wasn't sure about what ...

I'm told that she gave her ex oral all the time, but only once for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Alright so I recently got a girlfriend and she tells me she likes me a LOT. And her friends say that she likes me more than her ex. But I heard something really concerning today. So she's given me oral once...but like hasn't done anything since a...

Am I wasting my time hoping he'll grow up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a long distance relationship and things are working out pretty great. Being apart isn't easy but it's not the problem. The problem is my boy is 19 and lives with his mom. Next year he's moving out to go to college. But he ...

I feel like he could have done better scheduling a holiday for us - am I right to be upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4815 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Hi Aunts, After a busy Summer Semester, I was looking forward to my ONE week of holidays before Uni starts again. I'd suggested to my boyfriend that we might go to one of our beach houses for a few days. He never really wants to go away for long...

I just can't persuade myself to believe that she is happy that I am heartbroken because of her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - One and half year ago, I fell in love with a girl but she did not like me and she turned my life upside down. During this extremely difficult time, another girl appeared in my life. She listened to me and found out we both suffered from the s...

We have been through so much recently. Is this just our relationship being tested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (?) - My BF and I broke up about a month ago over several issues that have existed in our relationship for quite some time. During our relationship, we broke up a couple of times, but have managed to work through them, talk it out and re-build our ...

My parents are so disapproving of my promise ring.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - On Valentine's Day, my boyfriend presented me with a promise ring. We've been together since my senior year of high school, and I will be 20 shortly. We want to get engaged and then married someday, but I want to finish my college education first. ...

I'm not sure if she feels the same...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4817 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - My Gf and I have been dating for just over 2 and a half years.We both work, and she also has a 3 year old daughter which I love to bits,although she is not mine. I love my Gf,but not sure if she feels the same way about me.We only see each ...

He knows I like him yet he ignores me! And it lowers my self confidence...help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - So its been 3 months im crushing on this guy whos driving me nuts. It started off in december 2010 as i started seeing me constantly at uni, i couldnt take my eyes off him! I try to grab his attention, talk to him on facebook and try to catch him up ...

Is he just waiting to get to know me better or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - This is a usual questions but i just need some help. I will give you a small backdrop of the story. Theres this dude in my class who knows me as the smart girl and one day he suddenly started talking more with me and in the same class just gave me ...

My boyfriend is TOO protective and I can't talk to my male friends!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - OMG. This is driving me crazy. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I love him dearly. But he is SO protective. I mean PROPER. I have more male friends than female friends and he doesn't like me talking to any of them. Whenever I leave...

He doesn't text...so does he think I'm NOT easy?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Hey well i dont really know what my problem is but i know that im confused and stressed! last year my dad died through alcohol and yes it is hard but he was never there for me i rarely saw him he lived with me till i was about 13 but i didnt real...

I offended him and now I regret my behavior! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, back in december, i met this guy at school. i could pretty much tell that he was interested in me right from the start (i'm sorry if that sounded conceited; i really hope it didn't), but i never imagined myself falling for him ...

How do I kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (?) - Hey im sorta a kissing virgin and i really want to kiss my gurlfriend but i dont know how to tell if she is ready and how to make the move. Can anybody help me...

Is it possible he still has feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - My ex and I have been spending a lot of time together lately. We dated for a year and broke up back in October. After we broke up, we didn't really speak and we would hook up from time to time but there was never anything more. Now, he talks ...

What can I do to catch her in a lie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - So I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now. Since I've known her, she's always taken her car to work. Suddenly, like for the past 2 weeks, she hasn’t done this. I only found this out because I drove past her house to make sure all was ...

Why is it that I love my boyfriend but want to be loved by this other guy too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now(11 months) and its been great being with him. No break ups, a few arguments now and then but all resolved =). Thing is i'm nearly 16 and hes 19, i think because of his age he,s told me he's ready to...

He says he wants more of a relationship but does not want to be pressured into it. Where does that leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a about 7 months now. When we met it was out of the blue, I was enjoying my lunch...and what I found out later is he saw me from outside when I walked into the restaurant. He followed me in, got himself lunch and then ...

He sent me flowers on Valentine's day. Is it too much to think this means something? Is he interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I met this guy on a dating website almost a year now. We're talking as friends, nothing serious. He sent me flowers on Valentine's Day although we live in two different continents. Does this mean anything? I really like him, but I'm just worried to ...

Did he go to the pub for a pint or was he "helping" another woman in need?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I am employed part time. I am also self employed in two other jobs. I don't have any qualifications or experience in a particular industry so I don't get paid a huge amount. My partner works full time. He has fifteen years experience in his line of ...

Do you think this man has lost interest in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Last spring, I hit it off with a guy, who was charming and doting and looked at me like the world would end if he turned away. After a few weeks we had our first kiss and slept together. We had a couple more great nights talking and drinking and ...

A friend a mine has given me a second ultimatum! I feel she is crossing the line. What do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Okay, I'm embarrassed to even be posting this. It's sad that middle age people have to even indulge in the following behavior. Let me explain: I have a friend who we will call Sue. Sue and I have been friends for over 2 years. We met online and h...

Do I have the right to be concerned about his porn use, and the fact that he lied about his facebook friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend almost a year now and everything is absolutely perfect to me. I've never loved a man the way I love him. I've been in relationships before, but we both feel we’re made for each other. He treats me very good, but sometimes ...

Did I do the right thing in not being in the same bed as my friends who were messing around? And how do I face them tomorrow?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Okay I am not a pretty girl, I am not into going out all the time or drinking, drugs, etc. but what happened tonight has made my life slope bad so here it goes: this is my story! I have liked this guy for 3 months now. He's sweet, nice, and kind t...

We've been together over six years and he's still not sure about marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have lived together for 3 years. I am 24, he is 32. We have a good relationship and have had our ups and downs like any relationship. Our sex life is not what is used to be but I...

Any advice on how to repair a relationship with a Gemini?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Last year a guy a new on and off for 25 years was able to contact me after a 15 year separation and we started dating. I guess you can say we are what you call long lost lovers. The problems I am having with him are the same ones I had for so many ...

Help me to figure out why I behave this way

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Hello! So I'm posting this question to just get some anonymous advice about something. I have been friends with a guy for a while and I kind of knew he liked me more than just that. But I kept feeling like I wasn't really into it. He finally ...

Is it realistic to ask him to wait?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months officially and we've known each other for a little over 2 years. We stupidly used the "pull out" method for a while and I no longer want to take the risk. He hates condoms and wants me to get on b...

I have had a lucky escape from this relationship. So why do I feel so bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I recently split up from a man, still in the very very early stages of a relationship because he shared some information about himself that made me scared to get involved with him. He said he had been very damaged by his abusive upbringing and now ...

I am so confused that I can't even think straight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Hi..there's a guy I like, he's like 6 years older than me. When we first met, he said he got an ex and his ex cheated on him for another guy. Now we've been like meeting outside and having lunch and I really like him and he looks like he's ...

She won't reciprocate in the oral department

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Hi - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years, however she will not perform oral sex on me. I regularly perform it on her during foreplay, because she enjoys it, just like I do. She has said for the past 18 months on and off that she has had a ...

I have no feelings for him but he seems to think we're going out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - He really likes me, but I'm just not that into him.... what do I do?!? In brief, lovely guy, goes to my college and we share some classes, he's funny, charming, really sweet guy, and he recently told me he really really likes me and asked me out...

She just wants to be friends and I want more. It is driving me crazy! Should I leave her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Hi Agony Aunts, i am wondering if you can pls. help me with a problem that is driving me crazy. I have a friend whom i am feeling very close to. she just wants to be friends. but the closer i get to her the more i feel i am falling in love with her...

Why don't any girls want me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Okay, I realise this is a difficult sort of question to answer so I will tell you all the basics about me: I am 17 years old and have never had a girlfriend. This isn't exactly through choice, girls just aren't interested in me. I'm a quiet ki...

Is he hiding his feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - "I know him since my childhood (Family friends) .. but in between for few years we lost touch when he felt the country (some 8 years back) .. later again we got in touch through gmail and facebook. we used to chat once in a while . . (not often ...

Am I just his rebound because his ex didnt want him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - my boyfriend just broke up with me and now he want to get back together. he just had his best friend(a friend of mine to venssa) to tell his ex that he liked her but they got in a huge argument cause he didnt want her(my best friend ever morgan) ...

Why would a girl get scared off if a guy has never had a girlfriend before?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Hi there question for you girls. If a girl ask a guy when was your last relationship and the guy replies he never had one why would the girl get scared off and not give that person a chance? The worst thing as well if she asked the guy if he is a...

I cant find anyone I am interested in!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Im currently a 22 yr old uni student and lately ive been feeling pretty empty with the lack of a gf. ive spend the past two years in uni and not found one single person i might be interested in. I keep thinking that ill never find someone and I feel ...

Is this a fair offer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend moved out and to another city to be closer to his children from first marriage. Job prospects also better for him there. He told me he wants me to move too and be with him, as long as I get a job and pay my own way within a month or ...

He wants me to kiss him all the time but I cant bring myself to do it! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Ok so i have been dating this guy, lets call him J, since 9/11 of last year. I truly love him, with all my heart. He my total ideal guy. I really do think it was fate that brought us together, and i think that when we are older, i want him to be the ...

Age difference dilemma......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - i really like this guy i work with *no rules at work about dating co workers* and we have been flirty for a while now, but i have just found out that there is a huge age difference (9 years! i'm about to turn 18 and he is 27) i really want this to ...

If my hymen is already broken, does that guarantee my 'first time' will not hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - if my hymen is already broken, will sex hurt for the first time? i used to horse ride when i was younger, i have been using tampons for 2 years and my boyfriend has fingered me a few times so i am pretty sure it's broken. does this mean sex won't b...

Letting go of the one you love.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Okay....so i am 22 year old guy and recently i became very good friends with a girl...The thing is she has been badly hurt by her ex boyfriend 2 years ago and still has not recovered.I used to give her emotional support,she has like cried in front ...

Is he angry at me? Does he like me? What is going on?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Okay..so I like this guy and nobody knows. At first when i didn't really like him, my friend dare me to text him I love you and don't say just kidding until later. So I'm like ok how hard can that be? So I texted him sayin its nothing personal and ...

He doesn't want to go out with me because he thinks relationships cause too much 'drama'! How can I make him change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Okay well theres this guy that i really like, and for all intensive purposes we can say his name is Romeo. So anyways he like me, and i like him, a lot, but he doesnt want to go out because he doesnt want to be in relationships because "they cause ...

I abruptly cut off all contacts from the person who means the most to me, because I have herpes. How do I deal with it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Hi Ags I was diagnosed with herpes two years ago so I stayed single because I'm humiliated about it and didn't want to get rejected by men. Somehow along the way I've fallen in love with a man who's also in love with me. We've been going out for ...

I sense there is something more behind his behavior....maybe he's emotionally cheating on his gf? Or am I being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I recently connected with an old male school friend on Facebook. I saw no harm in it. Other female classmates have befriended him on Facebook. In addition, I have befriended other male schoolmates on facebook. When I chat with male classmates,...

Should I tell my boyfriend I had a miscarriage? I don't want to stress him out...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I just found out I had a miscarriage,I didn't know I was pregnant so you can imagine I'm still a bit shaken, my question is about my boyfriend. We have a long distance relationship, things have been a bit rough lately and he's really stressed out ...

I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I have this really close guy friend that I am crushing on. I think about him like day and night. It is just crazy. I really want to stop thinking about him. But I don't know what to do to do that. Please help!...

He's pushing me to go out with others, but how can I get him to try to make 'us' work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4815 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - i'm sorry it's long but i really really need advice and help on this, so can you please help me, i would really appreciate it. my ex broke up with me through a text saying that i couldnt fix it and that he was sorry and he loved me to but that...

Is an intimate relationship worth all the arguments and heartache that come with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - It's me again. I have a complex question here. I know that not everyone will like what I am going to ask. My question is...Is an intimate relationship really worth all the arguments and heartache that come with it? I know that this question...

Is it worth leaving my job and friends to go back to my boyfriend and a rocky relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 4 yrs. 9 months ago we broke up and i moved overseas. after leaving, he realised he misses me and would do anything to get me back and after a few weeks i decided to give it another go. Firstly i was VERY unh...

I'm 15 and in love with my brother's 21 year old friend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I am a 15. I have never told anyone this, but I think I'm in love with my brother's best friend. He is 21, and dating someone. Who he loves. I don't know if she loves him. From what I know, she doesn't. Here's the thing. I know he flirts with me ...

My wife who is separated from me is now engaged to her ex...while we're technically still married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Well my wife and I been seperated for 8 months now. I still love her with all my heart. We have 1 child together which is 3 years old. Just recently she anounced that she is engaged to her x boyfriend that she dated twice in the past. The problem is ...

I care about this girl. So why am I questioning her sincerity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - I'm not very experienced at relationships, since i've only been in two. This one being my second. My first gf and I lasted a few months, and now i'm on the 2nd month, with my new girlfriend. I do everything right, i treat her the best, tell her...

I'm in love with someone who's from a different religion and his family would never accept us...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months, however we always say it feels like more since we practically live together. When I saw him first, I was so drawn to him that i needed to talk to him - very unlike me! Anyway, long sto...

Apparently her feelings for me were a prank played out by her sister...and now she wants to be just friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4821 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Ok, this is a simple problem that most of you might've had over the years, but it's just now hitting me and I need help. There is this girl that I like so much, and, I come to find out, she likes me the same way. The only reason we aren't...

For those who have herpes, how did your partner react when you told them? I need support.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

21 February 2011 (?) - I have herpes type 1 and 2 and would like to know if other people have it and how their partners react when they tell them. I never have outbreaks I just had a blood test that showed I was positive, after having 1 lesion about 4 years ago. So many ...

Would you be upset if your fiance didn't give you a Valentine and a birthday gift in the same week?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - If your fiancée doesn’t give you a Valentine or a birthday present (Feb. 17th) after 6 years would you be upset? I have spent months taking care of him after his cancer treatment. I would have loved a card, but he just calls me names....

Does it seem like he's just not that into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Confused? What went wrong? I met a guy online about 8 months ago. He lives out of town but comes into town for business and we have seen each other about 4 times. The last time was christmas. Although, our relationship has been a bit of a yo-yo, ...

My boyfriend doesn't like oral sex because of the taste. What can I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has only "gone down" on me once, and it was for about ten seconds. He had talked for a while about how the idea turns him on a lot. After those ten seconds, he never really said anything or did it again. He randomly told me while we ...

She won't open up to me about how she feels about our problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been dating for about 9 months and the only problem is that when something happens between us she just does not want to talk about it. Even if its something very silly she gets angry easily and says its a fight and for me to ...