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Archived questions from: 6 February, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What should I do? Do I contact him... or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4834 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I was dating this guy for about three months, and in those three months he cheated on me (nothing major) and treated me badly, but I didn't give up on him because I knew he could be a good person if it weren't for the people he hung out with. But ...

My girlfriend is scared to have sex! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I asked my girlfriend to have sex with me last night but she said she was scared and she didnt want to she was afraid it would hurt. its her first time and first time for me too. Any advice?...

I'm such a good boyfriend, so why is she all quiet with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has been giving me short answers and not really talking to me. This morning we were doing just fine, she went and got drunk last night and I didn't really think to care much of it. I deleted my Face Books and stuff, and she's kind of ...

Strip shows... are they okay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Hello guys, do u think is it ok for the guys while they are in a relationship and want to go strip show club either with you or his friends and let u go with your female friends too? and also i asked him if he go to striptease club before and...

Girls on his phone???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I recently got into a relationship with someone who lives quite far away from me at least a one hour car journey. we get on so well and we really like eachother. we were out the other day and he was texting I asked him who he was texting and before ...

Is he still in a relationship with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - My partner and ex split over 1 year ago, they have a young child, however on our 1st christmas and new years eve he spent with his ex telling me its cos of their son, although their son stayed with his grandparents on those nights. my head is ...

She's cheated on my 6 times now and doesn't know I know...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend, and lead singer of my band, has cheated on me 6 times. I still love her, im hopeless like this. She doesn't know i know, but, what do i do? I really love her, and i just blame myself for not always being there for her. Should i tell h...

I just don't want to get hurt again, because it seems that's all women do to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - So i had a relationship with a girl for 2 and a half years and got totally fucked over by her, and am finally at a stage where i think i'm ready to move on. after about 6 months. I'm in my final year of uni, and have been interested in th...

My boyfriend is sooooo depressed, how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Its funny how long you can stare at a page and still have difficulty finding the right words to express everything you could possibly be feeling at the moment... i mean realistically no one can ever truly feel how you feel about anything. i mean i ...

Her mother has waged a war against me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a good 8 months now. Everything is good except her mom. I am 18 years old, shipping off to the Air Force this summer. My girlfriend is 17. A little background information: My girlfriend is Hispanic and her...

I will NOT be a doormat!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4829 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Ladies do not sell yourself short, love yourself more. Do not hand over your life to anyone, surround yourself with positive people. Once a woman or man tell you to stay at home with them or start checking your mobile or go through your things. ...

The trust for my boyfriend is gone... what do I do?

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6 February 2011 (F) - i had one (x)friend but just he is poor i m taking with him he take me as a granted he force on me to call me , to meet me i m scared about him . i told to my family members.after 4-5 months i got admission in new coll where i met to one guy i like ...

He's made me so dependent upon him... for everything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for almost 2 years. Before we dated, we were best friends and we shared the same group of friends. But when we started dating, our friends became resentful because my bf would spend a lot of time with me. I ended up l...

Has she decided to date too soon after her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4834 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - I've met this girl in the last few weeks and we've really hit it off. She broke up from a years relationship about a month and a half ago, and she isn't totally over it. She agreed to meet me on Friday night, and we basically just cuddled for two ...

Do you know why my sudden lack of sex drive could have happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I am 23 years old and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years. I love him to pieces and for about the first 3 years of our relationship we were constantly having sex but within the last 2 years my sex drive has gone from normal to nearly none ...

I had a termination 24 hours ago and already he's wanting sex!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - i just have a quick question, i just had an abortion 24 hours ago, and for anybody that dont know how an abortion feels is painful, cramping feeling, and constant bleeding, my stupid ass boyfriend is asking me to please him sexually regardless of ...

Should I call?

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6 February 2011 (F) - hi, I am with a guy for almost a year now, but he was my ex from a previous relationship, that relationship was (and still) in my heart and my mind stands as my first true love, I have lost contact with him almost three weeks now, the last time I ...

Should I put my life on hold for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I was with this guy for over a year, and we really and truly loved each other. Last summer though, we broke up, and now he states that although he loves me and that i'm his "soul mate", he wants me to wait until he's ready. We broke up because of ...

Player... or used???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I am 19 and I have being seeing someone for the last 3 months. Hes 26, has a good job and we live really close to each other. He added me over facebook but I did'nt know him as he was older. We have being going out for meals and lately I have being ...

HE'S doing things he would never accept from me!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Dear cupids, advice please cos I'm hurting :( My boyfriends 33 I'm 23. I deleted my Facebook cos he was always jealous when old friends tried adding me etc. To cut a long story short he is very jealous and controlling. Anyways when I was on Faceb...

Is she really upset or wants me to know it's over or is she thinking about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - I was with a girl on and off for 7 years. We did have some good times but also argued a lot. Most of the arguments lately have been about me moving in. She lives about an hour and a half from me. I kept telling her when i get my finances ...

Dating two men, wanting one.

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6 February 2011 (F) - Okay, so my last post was on my FWB situation. I was seeing a guy as FWB for about three months who would not commit. I had developed feelings for him that he was not reciprocating due to "commitment issues" from his divorce (1.5 years ago) I...

Is it a bad thing that we're always kissing???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - Is it bad that my girlfriend and I are constantly making out? We're always holding hands, and snuggling and kissing... Mah bro's say we do it a lot, and I never really noticed. My question is, is that bad? to always be kissing?...

I want to get him something but not too expensive. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - what should i get for my bf for vday?? i got him hershey kisses for "kisses" but i don't really think that's that original, what should i get for him that's not that expensive??...

I feel we're drifting further apart over this... help!

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6 February 2011 (F) - hi. I need all kinds of advice on this one. my bf and I have been together for two years. he owns a company that does gigs and his partner's girlfriend is/was also one of his best buddies of a few years. she is also part of the company although...

Desperate for help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Hi. I really don't know where to start but I really need some help. Desperately. I am 33-year old female and have been in a relationship with a very nice man for about 20 months, however, my mental health problems are making a relationship close to ...

I lied about my age, name and where I come from!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4807 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I'm age 21 (2011) I knew him 2 years ago from FRIENDSTER, first of all i just think of have fun from the net and i really cant imagine!! we be with each other so long time! YES! he's my boy friend now, he never see my identity card, passport a...

Help! Trying to understand his actions???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Hello, I am in a relationship that is a mixed bag, good and challenging (like everyone, right?). I go to a group meeting daily, and there is a man I am attracted to, and there has been some light flirting (I think). He approached me Th...

My "curvy" penis!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - I'm not sure how to put this question but I guess I'm curious about what women actually think of my penis. I guess I've never really was subconscious until recently. I've been sleeping with this girl lately that has started calling it curvy and ...

Severe lower back pain during sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - severe lower pack pain during sex .... it never happened before but last night me and my boyfriend got into a deep passionate sex session... it was amazing... till i got on top of him facing his feet, i felt sharp shooting pain to my lower back.. k...

She said she just HAD to let out her cries of pleasure!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - During sex last night my girlfriend suddenly let out quite a loud cry. It was the 1st time this had hapened so I asked if she was Ok. She nodded so we carried on. Afterwards she said her body took over and she just had to let go with pleasure. I ...

Confused with this flirty talk???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - Hi aunts, i am going to be straight up honest with you guys because i really need some answers. My girlfriend and i are now dating for about 7 months and things are quite ok we've had some ups and downs. Here's the thing: about three months ago...

How to recover from broken heart? Should I ever go back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - last night my boyfriend broke up with me because we never see each other. I love him so so so much this is just killing me. he said he loves me too, he really really loves me and he says I'm an amazing girl and such but he still broke up with me... ...

Best way to move on???

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6 February 2011 (F) - i recently split with my boyfriend who i'd been in a relationship with for 18 month, im finding it hard to let go and move on but i need to because he cheated on me, twice. any ways, songs anything to help me move on? please...

What do you get a runner for valentine's day???

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6 February 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is really into running and sports and what not. And we have been going out for almost 9 months... I don't know what to get him for valentines day... We set a 30 to 45 dollar limit!...

How to win him back again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - i am trying to win my ex boyfriend back. we were going out for 3 months and everything was going well until one day he randomly suggested a breakup. i know he still likes me, we've talked about it, and i can feel it. but he doesnt want to continue ...

Is he losing his affection for me? How should I view his change towards me

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6 February 2011 (F) - hey iv'e been with my boyfriend 4 months, but recently he and i have been acting weird. its probably just me but yea.. :/ well we had eachother in our msn names like "j....." and "s....." but today he removed me from his msn name altogeth...

I really want to start something with this girl, but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4834 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - I want to ask this girl out on a date. We've been going to the same school for five months and I haven't really talked to her. When I get close to her I just don't know what to start talking about to try and hit things off. I've sat near her during ...

I've lost the desire to have sex with him

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6 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for three years. At first our sex life was great, but now, I never seem to want it. He has put on a bit of weight recently and I find it off putting. I know this shouldn't matter when you love someone, but I can't help ...

It's only been a week -- should I get him something for Valentine's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Just got a new boyfriend. He's great and dead sweet, but its a week before valentines day. should i get him something if we've only been together a week? and if yes, what?...

How should I explain to her that I'm not interested in having kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - I am in an awkward situation at the moment. I have just met this lovely lady who is of a different ethic background to me, and she is already dropping hints about having a family one day. We have already had sex. But I made it clear to her before ...

There is a 3rd person in this relationship... His mother... Please advise on what I should do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - my partner is a lot older than me - this is not the issue, however his past is! He's been living with his mum for a year to get some money behind him, we split up last summer and have now been back together 4 months. his mum this time round has not ...

After a turbulent relationship, should I give him space, and how long?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Here is my story in chronological order. After several break ups and being cheated on twice in two relationships, I came to a conclusion in 2008 that I would be ready to get married to anyone who is ready to give me a commitment. During this ...

What should I do to regain her interest? Advice needed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - Ok, so I've been dating this girl I met a couple of months ago. And it started off great! She was crazy about me and she had strong feelings towards me. She loved my personality, my confidence, my great sense of humor... Things were going very ...

My boyfriends gone travelling for 6 months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has just gone away travelling for 6 months and im devastated, we both decided to see where we stand when he gets back which i think is the best idea but just thought of not bein able to pick up the phone n call him whenever i want is ...

Can you truly love someone and yet have sex with someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - I have another posting with more details and a different question, but after reading some other posts (and just being honest with myself) I feel this question needs to be answered as well. Long story short, I met an amazing girl, we had a perfect...

Pregnant, financially unstable, and the father wants nothing to do with the baby. Looking for guidance!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Hi All. Sorry this is long, but I need you to know the whole story. Im 20 years old, single and currently in college, but looking for a full time job instead as college is no longer stimulating/interesting me. I was seeing and messing around w...

I like good conversation. How can I encourage my GF to talk more too?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I are wonderful together, we get along, we have a wonderful sex life and see each other every day. Sounds perfect right? Not quite. I like talking, I like conversation, I like expressing opinions, but she doesn't. My girlfriend ...

Due to insecurity I'm seeing a Dr. Is it a good idea to bring my BF to my therapy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I often post messages on this board because it seems as if I often have relationship problems. I am still living with my boyfriend but we're going through something right now, and he says he needs to think about what he really wants...

I'm in love with my ex's cousin. Should we start dating or will this hurt the family too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Ok, so here is the gist of it, I have been in a relationship with my man for 10 yrs, and we have 3 kids. I thought I was happy until I met his cousin. We started talking on the phone blah blah.... We move to the same area where I can be around his ...

Why is my boyfriend behaving differently now that I am pregnant?

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6 February 2011 (F) - I am pregnant 4 my long time boyfriend. we love each other no doubt about that,but i have personal problems with him since this pregnancy. I got to know i was pregnant after he travelled out,though there was indecision problem if we should keep it ...

In the beginning he was attentive. Now he ignores me. Does he still need me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - My bestfriend and I have recently started dating. Before us dating he used to like me a lot and I wasn't really that much into him. He tried his best and we finally started dating. Now, he just doesn't seem to care as much as he did before. We don'...

I'm in love with a girl who has been through a lot. What on earth should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - Hello. I've gotten myself into a mess of a relationship and its driving me insane, so I figured it can't hurt to tell my story and see if someone has a word of wisdom to share. Its a long story so I'll get too it. Here it is: I am 17 years old and ...

Perfect relationship suddenly ends and she is with someone else in no time...WHY?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - Please bear with me, I will try to keep this concise but it isn't easy. The first week of August 2010 I began dating a woman. I am 30 she is 33. I had only been dating casually for the past few years, and generally tended to be the one t...

My partner wants me to abort his child ... please advise me on what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I just broke up with my Turkish boyfriend, as he was not happy that I am pregnant. He had promised to marry me and even went to meet my parents to ask for my hand in marriage. We have been spending lots of time together since then, until I to...

Should I confront him and tell him how I felt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Hi. Well I've been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months now and a week ago we both decided that we wanted to have sex together. Before we started he told me he has a rape fantasy, but I didn't take any notice really. It was my first time and it ...

What does she mean "I'm not that great a girl?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - What does a college girl really mean when she says "I'm really not that great a girl" after asking her out? I met a girl in college and things were going great. We both had majors in journalism and had a lot of things in common. I never had the lu...

Should I wait until Valentines Day to tell her my true feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - hi everyone, i had a question, theres a girl (she's single and just a year younger) who i've liked for a while now. I want to tell her how i feel and me and her have been kinda flirty lately and i was thinking about doing this on valentines day. G...

Should I pursue a relationship with him because he really really makes me happy and he is very sweet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Ok I am 15, and I am "talking" to a guy who is 20,21 in march. No one in my family knows because my mom and my brother dont like him at all, due to past events. My best friend Liz, who is like a sister to me, supports me fully because she and her ...

A teenager and pregnant.... I am scared to tell my parents!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I just turned 16 two months ago. I have been dating my boyfriend for two yaers now, and well we´ve had a past thats not so cute. He´s been real aggressive and stuff but thats not the problem now. Well im pregnant with his baby and im really n...

I want opinions on what he did!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Last year I was interested in, lets call him A, eventually found out A was interested in my best friend. I got over it after a while. A and I actually became friends. He recently got a job that requires him to fly out for 4 weeks and he's home ...

We haven't been talking! Are we at the boring stage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I haven't really been talking to each other at school, on the phone or anywhere actually. Should I be worried that our relationship is at it's boring stage?...

I'm in my own world, will I ever get a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I am almost 16 i never had a boyfriend or a date is there something wrong with me? I only had one kiss and it was with a guy i did not like at all but i guess he liked me but i didnt want to kiss him he just kissed me. and i know everyone has talked ...

Girlfriend prefers having guys as friends rather than girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - Hey guys, ill try to make this as short as posible. Me and my girlfriend (my first) have been dating for 9 months, we were friends for a few months before we started dating. We love each other to pieces, best thing in my life, and same with her. ...

Long history of flirting, is there something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Well it all started when I became close with this guy in one of my classes at college, I'll try cut the story slightly. :) Well we began talking and soon were quite good friends, he'd sit with me and my group of friends (who are all girls) s...