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Dating: Help and advice

What gives him the impression that I'm perfect?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Several weeks ago, I registered in a dating site that's fairly popular among college students, graduates and working class professionals (bet 18-30 years old). I figured I give it a try considering I haven't had success finding a suitable mate ...

How do I convince her to go out with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Hi there helpers!! I want me and her to be close. I have been dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years and it has been 2 months since the mourning. I am ready to be in a relation now again and I am starting my 1st job in USA tomorrow. I am very happy and ...

Are we friends? Or is he playing me for a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for seven months now. We, supposedly, are just friends. He suggested that we do not date anyone else, a monogamous relationship, but we are just friends. We do love each other. We use to go to Church and his friends ...

Why did her feelings change so quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - hi ladies. i screwed up a second date by coming on to strong and i also was a little drunk when on the date. she dumped me a few days later. i waited two weeks then called to apologize and explain my actions. she basically said ok to starting over ...

My boyfriend is booking a holiday with ‘the lads’ to Ibiza this summer, and I'm NOT happy about it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Urgh. I’ve been with my boyfriend a year and a half, and am having huge issues with him booking a holiday with ‘the lads’ to Ibiza this summer. I can sense your eyes rolling, and I’m sorry :( I’m 24 and he’s 32, so far our relationships be...

Taking The Initiative With A Woman

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - There's a woman I like and we have gone out together a couple of times. I make a point of keeping in touch with this woman through e-mail and phone calls. She seems responsive to me and even encourages me to stay in touch, and she seems happy to ...

Would you date an escort?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Would you date a girl who was or is an escort? but she is really loving, smart, honest and does everything for you. It's just her job and she's only doing it a few years to save up some money and invest in something good. (house, car etc) ...

I'm not ready for such a serious relationship but I don't want to lose her

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18 April 2011 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. She had many personal problems and I really wanted to be there to help her out. Due to this the relationship took a turn for the very serious. After about a 8 months her personal ...

When is it okay to ask someone to hang out if you've only met them once?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Im really just curious, when would you all consider it okay to ask someone to hang out if you've only met them once, and whether that be friendship or a dating relationship....

What if you feel he's meant for you, but has a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I'm not 100% sure how I feel, but just suppose... just SUPPOSE that you meet someone, get to know him, and realize that he's meant for you. Suppose he means a lot to you, no one will ever mean as much to you, and you've been searching for someone ...

Does my b/f take me forgranted?

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18 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months now and we are serious with each other, we have discussed the future and he said to me that he can see us togeather in the future. Okay, so my main concern is, He is at uni and is always ...

Is there a way to ask her out when I'm so shy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

18 April 2011 (?) - I'm too shy to ask a girl on a date, I'm not really scared of her saying no I'm just too shy to ask her but I really want to be with her. No matter how hard I try I can't seem to be able to pluck up the courage to ask her and I don't really want to ...

Why do women lose their power when they fall in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Why woman always becoming so powerful,when she gets dumped,or living alone,but when they fall in love ,they lose their power? Also usually man ,even married, are very attracted to this free and powerful energy,so many times ,they live their ...

I'm not sure what do about my current relationship or this other guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - What do you think about my situation with the guy I am dating and his friend?. I'll call the guy I am dating C, and i'll call his friend J. J winks at me a lot, and I knew him before C, as I saw him in a bar once and he kept looking at me then. On ...

She seems untouchable but approachable, how can this be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - The question sums this up. Theres this gorgeous girl i always see about at my college, we don't know each other though. But when i see her and we look at each other, there is a connection there. So we know of each other, im just not sure what sort ...

How do girls want to be approached by guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - this is mainly aimed at girls i like this girl and i thought that she liked me but the other day when we were talking i just got the impression that she didn't like me. she is currently going out with my "friend" who isn't a good friend or boyfri...

Her immaturity is driving us apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid Key facts: -She is 18 years old -Maturity level of a child -Defence mechanism: complaining and irrationality When I first met her, I believed that beneath her immature perceptions of humanity there would be a deep philosophi...

Found a condom in my BF's wallet...but we don't use condoms!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been togther for 3 years and i found a comdom in his wallet we don't use comdoms i ask him about it and he said he was going to use it on me i don't beleve him what sould i do...

I'm shy, how do I know if he likes me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for.I'm rather shy and so is he a bit ..So I was wondering, how can you tell if a guy likes you ..I'm not too sure!!!! , I was wondering if anyone can help me out ?What does it mean when a guy ...

How can I be friends with my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - i am 13 years old, i have a crush on a 14 years old boy he is annoyed with me does not like to see my face also i have to make a normal friendship with him how do i start ?...

I acted oblivious to his presence and his reaction made me more confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I asked a question a while ago about this guy at the gym and i took the advice from people to act uninterested and see how he reacts. Well i tried this and now i am more sure of him liking me what do you think!? But he still wont make a move! why i ...

Am I being too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - so i met this girl a few times.. at a party and at a bar.. little chit chats here and there. nothing special. one night i saw her again at a bar so i went up to her being nice and just started a chat. then i sat down and she came up and started ...

Does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - So I've met this guy who I really like and he seems to like me quite obviously. We've kissed but that's it. The thing is I'm really unsure as to whether he actually likes me or just wants to sleep with me. The day before we kissed for the first ...

How can I break up and afford to live on my own? he wants a threesome. He's over protective.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Recently my partner and I broke up, but we still live together, he goes through my phone and expects me to have a threesome with him and one of my friends (who's a girl) He has been treating me a little child lately...xo. Here's more info I ...

He won't respond to my text messages, he doesn't pick up his phone and I haven't seen him in 3 days because of World of Warcraft!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend just started playing world of warcraft with his brother. They used to played it, but my bf quit because uni started and there physically was not enough time. He told me he used to stay up til 5am playing WoW during the summer and ...

I love her but she hurt me so I don't know what to do now....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for two years now. Recently we got into a huge argument. As a result of the argument I went over her house to talk to her. I told her that I wanted to forget about everything and get try to make it work between us. She ...

I want to be his but unfortunately, he already has someone. How do I deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 23 and about six months ago, I met an insanely hot and gentle-spirited 29 year old doctor... with a 38 year old girlfriend. His girlfriend doesn't want more kids as she had three from her previous marriage (her eldest is my age with her ...

Unrequited love since Kindergarten....she represents everything positive in this world that I could love!! How do I approach her with this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - This is one for the books. I've known this girl since Kindergarten. She was literally the first person I noticed when I walked into the classroom the first day. It was pretty much love at first site. I've had a crush on her ever since and she's kn...

Tips for keeping a relationship casual. Anyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - I am a 25 year old guy, virgin, and never had a serious relationship before, never been in love. I'm just looking for any advice or points of view. I started dating this girl a few weeks ago. I have no experience in relationships, b...

Why would he just stop talking to me? Is it me or the distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Last summer i went on a road trip to Montana with two of my friends. Long story short, i met a boy while i was there. I've never felt something so real in my life, he made me the happiest i had been in a while. We kept in touch for six months ...

Falling for my sister's best friend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - My younger sister recently moved in with her life long friend "Katie", they are both 19. Katie has a 1 yr old son from her ex bf, whom is an a**. They dated all through out high school but he always played mind games with her. I have always looked ...

Is she flirting or just playful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - I have become kinda close to a coworker of mine lately. I cant tell if she likes me or just enjoys my personality. She loves to tease me playfully, laughs at all my jokes and things like that. Its hard to distinguish though. She has come out of her ...

Should I try and pursue more than friendship with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Hello Everyone. I'm just a little curious to know if I would be wasting my time with this girl. Last night I met a girl for the first time, and I've never been good at telling when people are interested or not, this girl was very beautiful and ve...

Is it normal to think about the date even though I was not attracted to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Had a first date the other day. I didnt feel nervous talking to her, but im not sure whether thats because i might have not been interested in her, or whether the conversation was just too full on (we were talking about being materialistic and ...

Should I just ask him where I stand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Alright ive known my bestfriend for 5yrs. he joined the army last june and im really proud of him. we've always been straight forward and honest with each other. about two months before he told me he was going to join i had confessed to him that i ...

Did she reject me? Should I quit talking to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - So this girl and I (she's a freshmen in highschool and im a junior in highschool) have been talking for a couple of weeks and I thought things were going pretty good. And then we stopped talking for a couple of days cause we both thought ea...

Why is love the only thing he's quit??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Why is love the only thing my ex has ditched?? Ive been in a LDR for almost 3 years now and recently he broke up with me. He became depressed about life and what hes doing and became emotionless altogether. I used to talk to him everyday onl...

I want no more part of this "love triangle", but I know it will be a problem because we work together....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Well here goes.... I'm a 29 year old male and last July I got involved with a woman that I work with who is 35 years old with 3 children. She initially approached me and asked me for my number after she started working there for a month or so. S...

If you were in my place, out of the choice of 3 truly amazing guys, which would you go for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Hey Aunties and Uncles :) I was just wondering, out of the choice of 3 truly amazing guys, which would you go for? Guy 1: met him at a party last week, he is the same age as me (17), we had a lot of fun together just kissing but he is a virgin. ...

What is wrong with me that I can't find one single guy on this planet who thinks I'm worthy of being his girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I'm so confused, I don't know what to do. I'm 24 years old and I've gone from one half-relationship to the next, but never had ONE proper boyfriend, i.e. someone I was officially with. I find it very humiliating as it is, but to make it worse, ...

How can I get with my old friend? I am starting horse riding lessons again just to see her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - I'm trying to go back to horse-riding lessons, even though I don't need them anymore in a vain hope to meet up with an old friend, and perhaps see if I ever get anywhere with her. Any tips?...

I lied about NOT being virgin to GF. Should I tell her the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Okay so im deeply in love with this girl for 6months (me 19, she 21) Just in early march we came to the subject of our 'first time' agewise. I felt insecure and said 18, and she said 20. Cool thought that was that... Then late march she asked how ...

Dilemma. I want to get back with my ex, but his GF has to leave. I also want to be with my married lover, but he has to leave his wife.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I Have a lot to say so here goes. I have a big problem with men. my ex broke up with me 6 months ago because i cheated on him with the guy i,m living with now. but this guy i,m with now well we don,t really get along. so anyway my ex is let his ex ...

Should I say yes to falling in love with my best friend ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - When I was in 7th grade, I laid my eyes on the most adorable guy in school, we didn't talk until 8th grade. Soon we became the best of friends, he would walk me home everyday after school, we were just little youngsters and at our 8th grade ...

Why don't guys ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - hi, I get told by many people that im beautiful looking and they seem shocked when I say I'm single. The problem is guys never seem to approach or ask me out, even at bars. I feel really self conscious about it because I always have my hair , ...

Once a week is all I get. It's not enough. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - help, i love my boyfriend by lately only seeing him twice a week and its only for about 2 hours each time. he has a baby with someone else and i understand he has her weekends so i dont see him, and then works all week and then gym after work so is ...