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female
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anonymous
writes:So I've met this guy who I really like and he seems to like me quite obviously. We've kissed but that's it. The thing is I'm really unsure as to whether he actually likes me or just wants to sleep with me. The day before we kissed for the first time, I overheard him saying to his mates 'I just want to bang her right now!' Talking about me... But later that night he was talking to my friend about me saying he thought i was gorgeous and that he likes me. He seems like a player and I know he sleeps around but he is very sweet to me! I always catch him looking at me and he rings and texts me a lot and has never pressured me into any thing. I'm still unsure though, it's like i want to see the worse in him, but it could just be that he acts like that in front of his friends? But he is so different! What should I do? Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011): I wouldnt say this guy is after anything serious, it seems like he could be leading you on.
If a guy really liked a girl and i mean really liked her he wouldnt be saying things like "i want to bang her" to his friends, he just wouldnt talk about her like that.
So I think thats how he prob see you... someone he wants to bang!
Just be careful
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011): He seems like an idiot to me. 'I just want to bang her right now!', why would you still like him after that comment? I think that alone tells you he isn't a respectful person.I mean if he's talking like that about you to his friends now and you haven't done anything, what will he say to them if you got into a relationship and started having sex? Whether you want to prove yourself wrong or not with this guy is up to you, but I personally don't think you should give him the time or day.
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