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Archived questions from: 19 April, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Me and my ex's friend like each other but what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - Okay im 15, about 4 months ago I split up with one of my girlfriends because I didn't see her enough. Recently I ran into a lot of luck with quite afew different girls about 4 telling me they liked me, but I went out with my friends and some other ...

My boyfriend has been emailing a girl I never knew about

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Im going out with my boyfriend for two years. At the beginning we established we were at opposite ends of the spectrum. I was a virgin and he had sex before with a good few women. I always wanted to wait til I was married. I guess i had a cinderella ...

Have any guys stayed with a girl that they dated in their teens?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Is there any guys out there who met a girl at 15/16/17/18 and are still with them? maybe married to them, engaged, still dating and how old are you guys know? I keep hearing so much stuff about how when guys meet a girl at 18 or younger they nev...

I'm 13 and dating a 20 year old, my friends are telling me to be cautious. Please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Hey everybody.. I want some advice I am dating a 20 year old and I am 13... He is very sweet but I'm still scared because all my friends are telling me to be careful. He said " no matter how long u want to wait to loose ur virginity I will wai...

I really miss her! Should I contact her or should I wait a while longer and not ruin the work I've done to get over her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

19 April 2011 (?) - I’m taking a break from my closest friend because I fell in love with her. Taking a break was my idea and she wants to help me through this anyway she can and didn't suggest anything like a break to me. She sees me as a brother so I know that there ...

My friend says he wants to date me...now it's weird hanging around with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - One of my friends told me he was starting to like like me, and now i find it weird to hang out around him. what should i do?...

Girlfriend of 5 years wants a break to figure out what she wants....I'm confused!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - I am confused on the whole situation and am just looking for some advice. Basically, my gf wants to take a break for a little bit, mainly to figure out what she wants, and if the opportunity arises, she might date. We've been together for 5+ ...

Should I remain friends with an ex who cheated on me while we were dating?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - My Open Question: Why would he do all of that and want to be friends afterwards? During our relationship, my ex boyfriend had a one night stand at a party cos he was having problems getting it up and he thought he'd try elsewhere. he w...

Does he like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for I can't stop thinking about him .. Hes even giving me butterflys and I get really nervous when I see him .. I haven't felt like this before , not even with my exs, having him around gives me ...

Signs of a Rebound Relationship?!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - I was just wondering if my ex gf in a rebound relationship. We were together a year and 3 weeks after she was in another relationship... Here r some weird signs I've noticed... 1. She never talks about her new bf to her friends, but tal...

I cheated on my BF, because although he's a great guy, the sex is awful. Is it my fault?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

19 April 2011 (?) - I've cheated on my boyfriend and i feel really guilty. he is a great guy. he knows what i like, he treaats me to things all of the time, and he loves me and i love him. but when we have sex, he is awful. he just cant please me. he always comes no...

I want to build on my friendship with her, how do I do this despite the problems in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - i really really really like this girl a lot!!! she knew that i liked her and since then she changed her attitude towards me. She didnt talk to me as much, she hesitated to sit next to me in class and lots of other things, i basically didnt get her ...

Should I take the initiative with a woman I like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - There's a woman I like and we have gone out together a couple of times. I make a point of keeping in touch with this woman through e-mail and phone calls. She seems responsive to me and even encourages me to stay in touch, and she seems happy to ...

For the girls: What is the best approach for a guy who wants to dance with you in a club?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - Hey everyone. i really need some tips about how to get a girl dancing with you in a club? that would be cool if all the girls in DEARCUPID would answer this question since i guess they would know better what works with them :D im kinda a good loo...

Is it normal to talk to a guy everyday that you just met?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - I just met this guy two weeks ago via an online dating site and he seems like a good catch. We share a lot of the same interests and characteristics, and we plan on meeting for the first time this week. Hence the question above, we communicate ...

Questions about going to the movies with my friends and my crush.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - So I think I like this guy but I'm not too sure because we don't have any classes together so we don't talk often at school. The first time I really talked to him was about 3 weeks ago when we went bowling with a few friends. We exchanged phone ...

What is the difference between love, lust and attraction? And why do teenage girls seem to prefer the fast boys most?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - i want to know the differences between love, lust and atraction between two people. And why is it that so many teenage girls seem to be atracted to the fast boys (boys who move fast to try to get the girl interested in them, and then move fast on ...

She's married, I'm single. But there is an attraction. Should I make a move? Do you think she gets a thrill out of talking to me? What should I do?.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - I have been attracted to a woman who I work with for several months. I believe (through mutual eye contact mainly) that she feels a similar attraction toward me. We had never had a conversation other than to say the usual 'hellos' and ' hi!s'. I ...

He wants me to do a strip tease for him. I feel so self conscious about it. How can I please him and deal with my feelings about my body issues?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going away for a weekend, and he wants me to dress up, and give him a strip tease. I've dressed up for him before, but it makes me feel self conscious, but not overly so, because I pick outfits that cover up the bits I'm ...

Can I really trust him? Does he have a sneaky side? I found a message on his phone that has seriously upset me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - i realy need someone's advice. i have been dating my bf for 2 years known him for 3. we were best friends before we start dating, and when we did, i felt as though i was the one who was more into the ralationship for about a year. after the firs...

I don't know how they guessed that I'm dating my supervisor. Things are stirring up. Should I get a new job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Hi there. I'm pretty sure I'm in a huge pickle here. I don't know what to do. Crazy thing I just recently started dating my supervisor, we keep it professional, work stays at work and our play time stays at home. Anyways, he is the best guy I've ...

Lack of Commitment...Do I call it a day or is there another solution?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - I have been together with my boyfriend/partner for 6 years. We have tried living together - I say tried - because he only ever had the minimal amount of clothing/belongings there. He never changed his postal address and kept most of his stuff at ...

I like my co-worker an anonymous note about my feelings for him. Now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - So... There's this guy I work with that I always thought was cute and friendly. He started on the job before me so once I got to know him a little better, I got up my courage and asked him if he wanted to hang out sometimes. He turned me down (and ...

Does he like me, he talked about another chick

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - I have known this guy for ten years, we used to like each other a lot until we both left for boarding school. Him and I finally come back from boarding school and are now at high school together finishing our senior year. We are neighbors. I ha...

My buddy has not been a good boyfriend to the girl that I like

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - So I have a recent dilemma with one of my good friends. She has been a friend of mine for about a year now and we have grown rather close within that time frame. I am a good friend of hers, and I am starting to develop feelings for her as time ...

He's single again! Should I go for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - ok ..so the guy that i really like is single again...i dont know if he has feeling for me or what..but i still really like him...should i try to get with him or should i let him ask me first?...

We went on vacation together but he didn't post any photos of me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Hi, would like some clarity pls.i went on vacation with my boyfreind,had a lovely time together,but im quite disturbed by the fact that he posted all the photos of our vacation,and he dint include any of me or of him,i also saw other vacations he ...

How do I get this girl's attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - Ok so i really like this girl (hs freshmen) and im a (junior hs). We talked for a couple of weeks but nothing serious really happened. and i realize that im older than her but idk if thats really a problem. But after i asked her on a double date and ...

We break up and and ex dates girl complete opposite of me! Will he get bored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - my ex is dating someone the complete opps of me when we were in a relationship he said he hated blondes, girls who smoked and wears make up esp tan. yet after he broke up with me that is excTLY WHAT HE WENT FOR my question is they been going ou...

Should I confess my feelings to my stepbrother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - I would really appreciate some advice To cut a long story short I am in love with my stepbrother and I really do not know if I can tell him. Each others parents are not married which makes things easier and my stepbrother and I are both single adul...

I'm sexting guys that aren't my boyfriend..but I don't want to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - ok, so i am in a relationship with a wonderful guy, and i am sooo happy with him, happier than ive ever been. but i on facebook, i always seem to add guys that are attractive, and they always talk to me, and this one guy sent me a message on yahoo ...

How do I keep him wrapped around mu finger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Dear Aunt/Uncle Agonies, Okay, so I was in love with this one guy, but I've pretty much given up. :( I think I like someone new....but am too shy to do anything. How do I get his attention and keep him wrapped around my finger? ...

How can I come across as more approachable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - I've never really had a relationship and recently asked a close guy friend what he thought night be the problem. Anyway after a while of him being really polite he said that sometimes when I'm on my own I have a look that is kinda distant and makes ...

What should I take my girlfriend to do to surprise her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - I know this question isn't important compared to some issues people have on here, but what should I surprise my girlfriend with? She is gone right now on a week long trip and I really want to surprise her with something when she returns, preferably ...

My friend can't seem to accept that I've come out of my shell

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - So I have had a couple of confidence problems in the past but in the last year I've really come out of my shell and I'm being a lot more confident. However I have a friend who can't seem to accept this, she was always the more assertive one and now ...

College: "An expiration date" to our relationship? and a "new beginning?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - Background: My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 month. I'm 18 a senior and she's 16 a junior, we're both in high school. Our first couple months together were a blast; we would hang with each other almost everyday. She was perfect in ...