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Dating: Help and advice

I dated a guy, didn't work out but I like his friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I hung out and went on a date with this guy who liked me, and discovered pretty quickly it wasn't going to work. Overall, it lasted for about a month, in which he thought we were dating. Apparently he really liked me, so it was awkward when I told ...

My husband is in a nursing home, is it wrong for me to want to go out with a man for a drink?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I have been through a horrible two years with my husband who developed dementia and now is in a nursing home. We have had a very happy marraige and I miss him so much and have so much guilt about him being where he is although he is well cared for ...

Is it rude to ask someone if they are in a bad mood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) - Does anyone else hate this? Yesterday I was tired since I went hiking. So, my boyfriend was talking to me on the phone and asked if I was in a bad mood. I was only tired, but it put me in a bad mood when he asked if i was in a bad mood. Why do ...

I have hidden the truth/lied to the love of my life for 2.5 years. Can this be salvaged?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - The love of my life, and I met and began dating about 2.5 years ago. We seemingly had similar expectations and values despite our very different upbringings, and insane chemistry. About a week into our relationship she was told that I had previously ...

He likes me, thinks I'm great, but is not ready for me yet! And that is why he will stay with his gf whom he thinks is clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Around March I received a friend request on facebook from this boy that was going to a college I had applied too. I didn't add him, just left it there and around july i finally added him because I was sure i was going to that college and I was bored ...

I knew I was going to regret BJ from my GF, and I do. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I have always told my (first) girlfriend, that I never wanted a blowjob, because I knew I would regret it. About a month ago, she gave me one, and as I suspected, from back then to this very moment, I am regretting it in so many different ways. I ...

BF says I should be okay that he goes on trips alone with former lovers. What should I say?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I hate rules in a relationship and I trust my boyfriend very much, and trust that he wont ever cheat. But he enjoys to go on alone trips with other female friends of his, where they will sleep together in a small tent (shoulder to shoulder) or be ...

I need more affection from her. How do I tell her without upsetting her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for seven years and sometimes we go through these stages where the affection, mainly the sex runs dry. For example,we went from having sex on a regular basis to literary nothing. It leaves me in an awkward position...

He doesn't want to see me as much as I want him to. Am I being too clingy? Is he being reasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Hello there need some advice please I am dating a GREAT guy, he is very attractive kind hearted, stable and treats me very well. He is truly one of the nicest and most genuine people I have ever met. The only thing is, sometimes he seems a littl...

I am confused about my feelings for my lesbian friend, and so is she.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - so about a month ago i started speaking to this girl at work who is a lesbian and i know she gets extremely attached really easily but i never though it would be to me. so the weekend after i met her, we went out to the club together and end...

BF smoked weed before I took him to meet my parents. Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend smokes weed. It doesn't bother me, but the other day he was gonna meet my parents for the first time, and he'd known this for a week beforehand, yet he still went over his friends and got high first. Is it just me being over sensitiv...

I need advice on finding the right girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Hey there...i'm 25years of age, i still don't have a gf that makes me annoyed and frustrated. i've a good relationship with different gals. they liked me. most of them liked me but on contrary i don't like them. because of this and such types of ...

I have written a goodbye letter to a girl who I love. Please give me some feedback

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I have written a goodbye letter to a girl who I love. I don't want to do it but I feel I have to. Please give me some feedback. Xxx, I think is time for the end of our friendship. Whenever think of everything happened between you and me, be...

Is he just settling for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - When I asked my bf why he liked me, the first thing he said was that he knew that I cared a lot about him and that I thought about him a lot. Is this normal? I feel like he's only with me now because he's settling and because he just wants someo...

What is the difference between like and love?

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3 April 2011 (F) - What is the difference between "like" and "love" in a relationship? Why does it start with like, and then it becomes love? And why do some love last and others don't?...

Should I get sexually involved with my 66 year-old boyfriend's son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - i was dating this 66 year old man. now i want to have sex with his older son. The father doesn't know. im just talking to his son on the internet. The son wants me to come to his place were he stays with his kids. I told him i would never ...

How can I get my sexually shy BF to put the moves on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend isn't very confident when it comes to anything like kissing me, putting his arms around me ect. He's not normally shy but I know he is with this. At first he even needed prompting to hold my hand! When we kiss it's normally me who ...

I don't want to ruin her chance for happiness, nor do I want to her slip through my fingers. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Hey. I've recently (three/four months ago) been through a rather violent breakup. A number of factors led to this; her grandmother died and she took it out on everyone else, we fell distant.. you know. The major factor - one that we had kept fro...

I found out, by snooping, that he is in tough financial shape. Could he be taking me for a ride?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend and it is great. I am 45 and cautious. I am at an impasse. I know this is crazy, i lent him some money, not a large sum. I had the opportunity to be alone in his house and went through some files. He told me he has had a tough ...

How can I track my boyfriend's online activity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - How can I track my boyfriend online to what sites he is on when we live separately?...

Should I text him asking him why he is ignoring me, or wait until I hear from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend split about a week ago and i was finding it really hard, and then he phoned me friday asking if i wanted him to come and see me. so he came down, we then had a chat and decided to give it another go, he then slept down friday and ...

I fell for the wrong guy. We had a fight and I am a mess. What does this all mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I knew this guy for 7 months now. We started seeing each other 5 months ago. He's 33 and I'm 27. When I first met him he was getting himself out of trouble that he got himself into 3 yrs ago with the law. I have a son and he has 3 kids with 2 ...

Seeing LDR BF soon. I'm stressing that he won't like my body. How can I stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I'm in a long-distance relationship with a guy I haven't seen in person in 2 years. He tells me that he loved my body when he saw me last (we were not together at that point, I learned this after the fact) and I am the same size now that I was then ...

Do you think I should ask him what's going on so that I know where I stand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I'm confused.... I went on a trip to New York about 4 weeks ago and I met a guy who was on the same trip as me. We got kind of close on the trip and I sat next to him on the plane home and during the course of the flight we ended up holding hands...

Does he cheat because he is insecure, or am I insecure because I don't trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - So i am confused about being about to trust my boyfriend? We have been going out for four years, and the first year was absolutely terrible that I dont even know why i stayed with him then. So what he did was emailing this girl who is like a teenag...

BF never pays for anything. Do we have a future together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I've been with my bf for almost 2 years now and everytime we go somewhere that requires money he never shouts me. We either pay separately or i pay. Im not a gold digger, i appreciate anything that comes my way bt 2 years and i still pay for most ...

He keeps dying his hair the same color as mine. Is he interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - so today at work we got evacuated and a guy i like works there too but we're never together so we spent the 2 hours outside near each other. we never really speak, but if we're passing we'll say hi or smile and if we're in the lift together we have ...

I don't think he will try anything. Is it okay for me to hang out with my 36 yr. old neighbor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I'm 16, and i've had a 'crush' on this guy that's 36/37 for a very long time, he used to be my neighbor however about 2 month ago he split from his wife for reasons that i still don't know of and he moved out and now has his own place. Anyway...

He says he loves me, but he treats me terribly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Hi, im 18yrs old (gal) been in a relationship on and off with my boyfriend from april 2010 up to now. Got pregnant and we now have a kid. I call him his phone rings he doesnt answer an i call for the second time his phone is unreachable the ...

Any tips on making French kissing a little more enjoyable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for just over 2 months now. We’ve always taken things reasonably slow with us and we didn’t kiss on the lips for about a month. Over the last week we’ve been kissing more often but we never do anything more than brief ...

He knows it's me that likes him and he hasn't said anything. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My friend has been texting the guy i have liked for a few months for my benefit saying that one of his friends likes him. which is obvious me (i only found out a few weeks ago ) anyway she never told him my name just that one friend of his re...

He's the one. Do you think he feels the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone Ok i know this sounds very very strange as we are not going out but there's this guy i really like known him for over a year now and have slept with him a few times, But the thing is deep down in my heart he's the guy i really wa...

LDR first meeting. I was on my period. Did that put him off oral?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Does knowing your partner just came off her period put you off going down on her? Im in a LDR and went to see my bf a couple weeks ago. When I arrived I happened to get my period on the second day (I have irregular periods due to a medical condit...

Is he interested in me or not? Need an opinion.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4749 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - hey everyone. there is this guy i like a lot. i met him two years ago and liked him since i first saw him. i think he likes me but im not sure, id like to know what other guys thinks about the "us". in the past two years we have been threw a lot to...

I like him and we've kissed, but is he interested in me or my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Hello :) So recently i've started to like a guy from college, and he appears to like me too. We've been out once and we've also kissed. But here's the thing, he seems to show a lot of interest in my best friend. I don't know whether i'm just bei...

I'm invisible to her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - hey everyone, i have a complicated situation here. im ( i would say ) an average looking guy, even though the girls think im handsome anyway thats not the point. i like this girl sooo much !! but to her im kinda invisible. not her type lol, i neve...

My gf thinks I'm 22 but I'm really 16! Should I tell her??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Im a 16 year old boy , but i've been living a life of a 22 year old. I smoke cigarettes and booze. And i dont look my age. I look like a guy in 20's. I got a girl's phone number from my friend and fell in love with her through the phone. After ...

How do I break up with a guy without breaking his heart or ruining my rep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Okay, so im 17, and im not sure if im gay or straight. I think i am still curious about my sexuality, and i think im just experimenting. Anyway, i dont want to be gay, id rather be asexual than be gay. I know i cant choose what sexuality ...

Am I right to feel that my bf does not want to spend time with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4676 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - hello I been with my boyfriend 6 months and we are ok most the time but at times i feel he dont want a lot of time with me. we stay at his twice a week as im there one night in the week and one at the weekend unless he visits family then we do a day ...

Why is it whenever I get into a relationship, I feel trapped and want to get out?

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3 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupids, I'm 17, a good student, I have experience of a real relationship and have been out with about four guys in the last three years. My problem is, two years ago my step-brother was a bit nasty to me. At the time I was 14, and...

My boyfriend says he loves me but insults and criticizes me. I am so confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - well its like this. i had this relationship with fazmi at first. we had the affair for about ten or eleven months. we truly loved each other. but we had to break up because my mum got to know about our relationship and she made a big mess. but i tr...

Boyfriend wants to move out....but stay together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years. When we first met I'd only been divorced 6 weeks. Spark flew but I needed time. We stayed friends for about 3 months until I decided I wanted to be with him. But now he was going through a tough time ...

Does this text mean "we're" over or her track practice is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Ok, the other day, I was talking to one of my bestest friends in the whole world who happens to be the oppisite sex and I just so happen to love her like none other. Anyway, We were talking to each other and I was helping her through a tough time in ...

What dating avenues would you suggest for a Real 40-Year Old Virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - The problem is, I wouldn't even know how to broach the subject with any woman I might be interested in but that doesn't mean I don't want a relationship. Any advice?...

I've been with him for 4 years, but he doesn't want to move in together...Where is this relationship headed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Hey Guys Ok iv been with my boyfriend for four years and ready to take the next step ie move in together but he's not ready and it really hurts me.. He's a great boyfriend but im worried that if he doesnt want to move in together at four years w...

My boyfriend has women's underwear in his drawer that could belong to his ex!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has intimate womens clothing that probably belongs to his ex? So a few days ago I went through a drawer of my boyfriend (he let me do this, he was there). It was a joke as he has a pantihose fetish so he let me have a look at them. H...

My online date and I have just agreed to be exclusive...When should we become facebook official?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Last night I asked the guy I'm dating to be my boyfriend, and he said yes without hesitation. It was so simple, I'm almost in shock! We met through okcupid so we both have accounts through that, and we're both listed as single on facebook. ...

I am 13, gay, and I'm having anal and oral sex with my boyfriend. Is this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) - I know people say don't have sex until your married,but im 13 and me and my boyfriend are planning to spend our lives together, so I gave him oral sex. We both enjoyed it so I let him perform anal sex on me. It was painful but the best night of my ...

Ex-flame. Sparks evident. But I have a loving girlfriend. Is the next field always greener?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, I am a 21 year old guy who has been in a relationship with a gorgeous woman for a year and a half. As far as I am aware, I am in love. Tonight, I bumped into a girl who I spent the night with (no sex) four years ago, and we disc...

He's bored with me when we are not doing anything, like having sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in our 20s and have dating for about 18months…. I sometimes feel as though my boyfriend doesn’t take me seriously. He is a very smart, fun, well-rounded, down to earth person who has a lot of friends. I love him a lot. ...

How Do I Deal/Be Supportive to A Super Busy BF? He goes to School FT & Works FT.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I'm not sure how to treat my ex. I broke up with him because he stopped spending time with me. When we met he was working, had a car and a motorcycle, house etc.. and 4 months later he got suspended with pay(though he lost his job), then had to s...

Fat girl seeking a man that love fat women

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - i am a 19 year old female. i am a heavy girl and i have never had a boyfriend or even my first kiss. I am horrible on the computer. I have been searching the web for men seeking very fat woman but can not find any chat rooms for men seeking the fat ...

This relationship has gone downhill. I would leave him, but I think I would miss him too much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - We started this relationship 4 years before. at first we are just classmates but we don't like each other. and at last by some misunderstandings and forces from our friends we started a relationship. but when he got a girl he started using that girl ...

I want to reopen the lines of communication with him, should I send him a birthday text?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My bf and I split up 7 months ago after a 3 month relationship. I told him I was happy to remain friends, and a few texts went back and forth afterwards (all friendly - I never sent any begging letters, never let him know how hurt I was, etc), but ...

Confused about my friend's ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My friend had a boyfriend and they broke up about 3 weeks ago. Now the guy keeps on talking to me and starts saying he loves me. At first I thought it was just one of those normal love you text's but then my other friend told me that he probably...

Girlfriend has been less affectionate lately... or am I over reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has been acting different lately. We used to have sex three to four times a week, now we barely do it once, she even stopped taking the pill... but what I dislike most is that I don't feel she enjoys it as much anymore (we were...