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Dating: Help and advice

He is very romantic around me except when his friends are around. How do I deal with the mixed messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Any advice please? I have been seeing this guy for the last 4 weeks. He is really really shy when we go out and his friends are there. He said he feels he will be judged by them. I know he has a lot going on at home. On occasions he goes funny wh...

How do I trust this moody man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - How to trust him???? I love him soooooo much but his mood keeps on fluctuating although he is very loving but angry at d same time. i want to make him happy. i want to guess his nature we mostly talk on text and meet each other after 15 days i d...

I have a really embarrassing problem. Should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - hey guys, i just wanted to know, is it normal for me to 'jizz' every time i snog my girlfriend i want to tell her that it happens but im scared in case its a turn off, or makes things weird between us, or makes her go away from me shall i tell h...

He's my ex and wants to have sex. I want to do it, or at least say that he asked me, out of spite. Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - So why did this boy "J" text me yesterday asking me if we still can have sex. When he has just broken up with me and is now going with another girl... a part of me wants to just have sex with him just to try and get back at her by telling her.... ...

How do I get him to notice / talk to me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I Am really in love with this guy in the year above me (im year nine) and every time i see him i feel strange and do stupid stuff... but we have never really talked i know we are into a lot of the same things because of the times we have talked. we ...

Should I try to make her see that he is no good, or should I let her make he own mistakes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - DearCupid.org, Okay, so my best friend keeps telling me over and over again that she thinks this one guy in our school is really hot. I don't think he's ugly but the problem is that he's a really big pervert. When I tried telling her this, she ju...

I like a girl that doesn’t like me. How do I get her attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - i really like this girl...who says to my friends that she doesnt really like me. We were kind of friends until she found out that i like her...after that she hasnt been interacting with me that much, compared to my friends. She has been playing ...

He's doesn't treat me or my son very well and I am stuck here. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My 9 year old son and I moved to another country to be with my partner and now I am stuck as I am waiting for my visa decision, not allowed to work, and can't afford to move. We don't want to leave the country because my son loves it here and is ...

I don't want to ruin our friendship by flirting if all he was doing was messing around.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have known this boy my whole life he is the same age as me but goes to a different school We know each other because our mums are best friends and knew each other before we was born, every year in the summer we all (me, my mum, my two sisters, him ...

Is it that he doesn't want to commit, or is he trying to protect me in case he doesn't make it back home?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Me and my guy friend have been seeing one another, we didn't have a verbal commitment but more of an unspoken one bc he just went away to war. With that being said, one morning I was laying on his chest and asked him if he wanted a life with me ...

I advised him to give it another try with his ex, but I've fallen for him and now I don't know what to do

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7 April 2011 (F) - hey, thanks to everyone who will reply to this in advance. So im a 21 year old girl. Ive only had one serious relationship so far and it ended in a mutual break up last year. After that ive gotten close to many guys but there is one guy who ive ...

I'm really interested in her and can't tell if she is in me. I just sent 101 roses. Now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I'm really interested in this girl. Like, really interested. We both work in the same neighborhood, in bars. I manage a big nightclub and she works the graveyard shift in the café across the road from me. Anyway, for the last about three week...

BF uses drugs. How do I deal with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a while now and its been the most rocky relationship I've ever had. Its very on again off again which is weird considering we haven't even been together a year yet. He uses drugs and I found this out a few months back ...

I want him to talk to me first at the gym. How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Simple question and may sound ridiculous men, but i want an honest answer please.Firstly, I know that every guy is different in what they like.... What i want to know is if you were at the gym and you noticed a girl, what would she do that woul...

I gave him a BJ and he told all his friends I'm frigid.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - i gave my bf a bj the other day 4 the first time. i dont like the idea but he asked and i did it. it obviously worked but afterward he said it was s*** and he told all of his friends im frigid what should i do?????...

Do women give oral sex out of the blue, or is there an ulterior motive behind it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - A few friends of mine were talking one night over beers and one said his girlfriend gave him a blow job 'out of the blue' when he got home from work one night - for apparently no reason. We all called BS, but he was adamant that he didn't do a thing ...

We were each other's first for everything and she broke it off. How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of 4 1/2 years broke up with me about 6 weeks ago. She told me she didn't love me anymore. She started talking to a new guy almost right away, but every once in a while she text me or calls me and says she misses me or is thinking ...

He was jealous and possessive, but says he's changed. Should I risk going back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I hope there is someone out there who can help me. I have been dating this guy for almost three years I love him so much. We recently broke up because he is extremely jealous and possessive and things seemed to get worse. Since the break up he has ...

It's over but I can't stop thinking about her. Why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - I find myself thinking about my ex throughout the day. We were only together for a few months and we split up about a month and half ago. It's hard to explain... it's like, I'm not thinking about anything specific, it's like - she is just on my ...

He says he wants to, but I am afraid I will ruin the relationship if we have sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - okay, so i've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now, we've been close friends for about 5 years. I'm the first serious girlfriend he's ever had, even though i've had quite a few boyfriends before him. the thing is... i'm not a virgin, an...

Girls, thoughts on chewing tobacco?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Quick question for the girls on here. How much would it bother you if your guy dipped. By dip i mean used chewing tobacco. Enough to leave him or view him differently? What if you have been with him a while and you barely find out hes been dipping?...

Why has she suddenly changed her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - So me and my Gf have been dating for almost 3 years. Im 27,she is 26.Since last year she has been talking and hinting about getting engaged. To make things worse, her cousin and 2 of her friends got engaged,so all the pressure was me.She said ...

We sleep over each other's houses. Is what I am doing wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (?) - I need advice from parents with older kids. I'm 19 years old, have a job, keep a 3.9 GPA in college. I also have a boyfriend. I'm a nice kid, I do what my parents ask most of the time and I don't do drugs, don't drink, I'm quite responsi...

Need advice. I want to wow him at the airport for the first time and wow his family too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Hello all. This is a question for future reference. I'm meeting my LDR boyfriend in July for his birthday. I will be meeting all of his friends and his family as well. We've been dating for three and a half years, and I've no clue what to wear! ...

Do girls like their space? Will she feel crowded if I request more of her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I am middle aged guy in late 30's dating a 26 year old single mom. We met a year ago through a internet dating site and have been seeing each other for over a year now. I am a settled, educated, professional, who has separated ...

My boyfriend is acting ungratefully. How should I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to buy him a expensive pair of shoes that I can not afford right now. I was straight up with him and told him that I couldn't afford them right now and his reply was that he never ask me for anything and if it was something ...

Am I being cheap here and over-reacting? Or does my boyfriend not give me the respect that I deserve?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Sorry this is going to be long; thank you in advance for reading and for your answers. I’ve been dating my bf for about 2 yrs now. He’s always been a little clingy and overbearing, but I attributed that to the fact that he’s had a disturbed childh...

I don't want to lose my virginity to her because she is not a virgin. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Hi I'm a virgin and I've met a girl. shes not a virgin though and she wants my virginity but i don't want to lose my virginity with her as she's not a virgin either what do i do about this? ...

When a man says "Be Patient With Me, ".what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this man since Nov. all was great until Feb. I saw him 3-4 times a week, slept over and suddenly that slowed down. I found out that he sees another girl on my off days, he has no idea I know, I have asked if there are other women ...

My jealousy is starting to ruin the relationship. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (?) - I get so jealous about my boyfriend's past and especially jealous when he hangs around other girls or talks to them a lot. I know he loves me and doesn't like them, but I still get jealous and believe me I constantly try to just let it go but I ...

Can your second love be your true love forever? Even if your young.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year. He just started working everyday from 7-3:30 but has Sundays off. This has been difficult for me since im used to talking to him all day plus it’s been harder for us to get together. He try’s to ...

He wants sex but won't tell me where we stand. How do I make him understand that this is important to me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

7 April 2011 (?) - There is this friend of mine that i study with at my uni. we have know each other for roughly 2 and a half years and a lot of nights we study until really late (between 2am and 3am). The problem is we are attracted to each other and sometimes after ...

Although I am not ready to have a GF, I still feel as if I am missing out on something important in life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - I dont like flirting around with girls, not because it is bad but because am not ready for it. i don't have a gf and don't need one now, but when i meet or see a girl especially with her bf, i feel i am missing a lot of things in life. my question ...

Her best friend is a boy. Am I wrong because I feel jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - hey guys, i go out with a girl that has lots of boys as friends and has a boy best friend, is it normal for me to get really jealous and sometimes upset because it seems like she likes him ? ...

His moody behavior confuses me. What does he really want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Ok, brace yourself. This might be a tad bit confusing. So, "Leonidas" and I were together before from November till February until I got pregnant and had an abortion. He clearly has relationship issues which I think are pretty obvious? He grew up in ...

Boyfriend likes his space and doesn't share things with me when I stay at his place

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - me and boyfriend together 5 months and i sleep over once or twice a week. when there tho i feel in the way as he dont like me in the kitchen and says i will make crumbs and he likes to do things his way. wont let me wash up or anything 4him. also he ...

My boyfriend and his sons always pick on my mentally handicapped son

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have a boy friend whom has 2 boys.. I have 3 young children my self... My boyfriend hates my oldest son and him and his boys always yells at my son and picks on him cause hes mentally hanidcap... What do i do ? Do i leave my boyfriend?...

Does my dream guy like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Hey there! Alrighty, so, I need some help figuring out if my dream guy likes me! He's very confusing; almost like an intersection during the holidays. Anyway, he started a chat session with me on Facebook nearly a year ago. He asked questions about ...

When is it too late for closure? is revenge helpful? Should I try to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys, it's me again. Well, a guy broke up with me about 7 months ago and I haven't heard from him since. 2 days after the break up (which was a bad break up) he was in a relationship with this girl (Who I suspect he was cheating on me to begi...

I keep having dreams that my boyfriend turns into a drunk, abusive, cheater! Does this mean anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I keep having dreams about my boyfriend where he turns into a complete loser. But he's nothing like this in real life. In my dreams he turns into a complete drunk, shouts abusive things all the time, and even cheats on me with my friends right in ...

I got physical with my girlfriend during an argument. She has forgiven me, but I cannot forgive myself! It is always on my mind. How can I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and we get along great. I can honestly say that she is the only girl I ever want to be with again. BUT at the same time I am so confused and disappointed in myself. A month ago, we got into...

My boyfriend can't stay hard during sex and it’s upsetting me? Does anyone know why? Need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend can’t stay hard when it comes to sex. I accidentally fell pregnant with his baby, but never knew at the time he was on Viagra, which he has now run out of. I never noticed he had a problem until now. He tells me it’s not me and that it ...

My boss bullies me, and my boyfriend is a colleague. Am I right to feel peeved that he ignored me at a social gathering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - My boss is a horrible person and a bully. She treats me like crap even though I do a good job (I have great stats for my work, better than almost everyone else). For example, she recently forced me to apologize publicly for a mistake that was her ...

She broke up with me for another man. Does she want me back now? What should I say to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Two years back, I had a girl friend whom I loved so much. She had all the qualities I would need in a woman. I love her and did everything in my capacity to make her happy. We co-habited for two years in Kampala Uganda during my studies. When I ...

Am I just a bit of fun, so he keeps me a secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - How do you know when you are being used for "one thing"? Ive being in a relationship for 6 month now. I would be offened if he didnt want to or fancy me like that but Im not sure if thats all he is after. Im not saying we are at it all the time or ...

Loves me or loves me not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - hello eveyone.this is my first question and i hope that you can help me.just to clear this out,im gay and i dont want any hate in here.so let me begin.im 18 years old and i am at this college.there is a fellow student of mine that i really like and ...

Is he with her for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4778 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - There was this friend I liked for a year. We've known each other since elementary school til now in highschool. I recently moved to another state 3000 miles away But he knew I was returning and I even came back for the summer time. Summer was ...

How do I get over him and stop blaming myself for our breakup?

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7 April 2011 (F) - When I was a child I was sexually abused and when my boyfriend and I broke up two years ago I felt like he left me because he could tell I was molested. We had sex and then afterward I told him that I loved him. He told me he was not capable of ...

I took a guy's virginity and stopped talking to him cold turkey. Now I feel guilty, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - About three weeks after ending a five year relationship with my ex I started talking to a guy and things went off great. It was honestly really amazing, he was perfect. I ended up having sex with him, and he had told me before hand that he was a ...

He said if he wanted to be married it would be with me but he wasn't sure if he was the marrying type...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I broke up a couple of weeks ago. We were great together we were dating for about 4 years he knew very well I wanted to get married he always told me to give him some time.....he said if he wanted to be married it would be with me ...

I want a long-term serious relationship, but I get bored easily!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4778 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I'm generally an easily bored person, and it's no different when it comes to relationships. I'm constantly wishing for my ideal man--someone who is engaging, funny, and charming among other traits. Maybe it's because I want a unrealistic fairytale ...

How do I decide between my boyfriend who I want to marry and my best guy friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I am having a really big problem… so my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He’s a great guy, very sweet, and would never do anything to hurt me. He wants to marry me one day and have a family. We’re 17. So, two months ago my ...

How can I get laid without lowering my standards?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I've only dated people that I had really good chemistry with before, but it's been over a year since I've met anyone I'm interested in. It's hard for me to meet new people since moving to a new city and working around 80 hours a week. I thou...

Complicated girl trying to get a complicated guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4778 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - This is a bit long, but I tried to keep it as short as possible. I'm a 28-year-old virgin who has never even held hands with anyone. People find this hard to believe. I'm not religious, just never found a guy I would be interested in, perhaps I'm ...

We aren't technically dating yet but I slept with someone else. Should I feel guilty?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for the past two months, but we are not dating yet. We talk every day and we hang out once or twice a week but we have talked about where the relationship is going and we both know that we will probably start dating in ...

With my dream girl, I don't want to get hurt again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Hi, i'm just here for some advice on a relationship i've just entered, though were not officially together yet, were basically seeing eachother. i've liked this girl for years and we've always been quite flirty with eachother but i had a girlfrie...

Advice on dating outside your own race?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Ok, I'm a white boy and haven't had many girlfriends at all. Where I live there are a lot of Hispanics in addition to whites. I have found a lot of the Latinas to be very attractive and outgoing but haven't asked any out cause I think they wouldn't ...

We used to like each other, I still like her but I don't know if she does. Help please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Well, I liked this girl... and still do and I knew she liked me. But, I don't know if she still likes me and we don't talk. The thing is that I am about to graduate and I didn't want to have to make her wait because I am going into rhe military. So, ...

I'm 26, she's 17, is it wrong to pursue a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Im a 26 year old guy and iv recently been seeing a 17 year old girl, we have literally everything in common and get on so well. Been out on a few occasions and we both like eachother. Would it be wrong to ever start a relationship??...

Boyfriend in service will be away for 7 months and I need ways to cope

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Hey All, I know Dear Cuprid isn't necessarily for this type of question but I honestly don't know where else to turn. Many of my questions have been answered from people who genuinely seem to care and I'm hoping it's the same case with this o...

Why do I cry so much over this boy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 850 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - why do i cry so much over one boy? i like him and we used to talk quite a bit but then a girl in my year asked him out with me and he said no hes a year and 7 months older than me now he doesnt talk to me at all and he deleted me from facebook...