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Dating: Help and advice

Some advice on teen dating and getting a boyfriend, please.

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16 April 2011 (F) - Hi I'm 15 and quite inexperienced.I'm not particularly shy, I have a pretty small circle of close friends but know other people in wider circles and I would say I have a pretty average social life e.g going out with friends most weeks etc. I was ...

I can only relax for sex if I've had a few drinks. Am I alone in this?

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16 April 2011 (F) - hi, i'm a 21 year old woman who sufferers with severe anxiety disorder and as a result, my sex drive seems to be zero. i find it incredibly hard to relax as a result of this and can only seem to relax enough in the bedroom if i've has a few drinks. ...

Is he playing a game here or what is going on?

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16 April 2011 (F) - This is really frustrating i'll keep it short and simple. There's this guy who i like i've never spoken to him before i've just seen him around but we both know of each other. I really felt he was attracted to me to and lots of other people who...

Co-worker Crush

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16 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm very attracted to one of my male co-workers...a sort of instant attraction if you will. When I started 6 months ago, he knew my name before I even had time to process my new work enviornment and tried to make small talk here and th...

Will we have a 2nd date?

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16 April 2011 (F) - so im just trying to figure if this date went well. we had alot of conversation, laughed alot.. or he seemed to be smiling alot, joked around. we hung out for a few or more hrs and then when he was leaving he lingered, so i hugged him. before h...

What should I do to be good at sex for the first time?

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16 April 2011 (M) - hi i am 18 next month and i am still a virgin. I feel a little insecure about it. I have started going out with this girl who i know quite well. the thing is that she is a few months younger than me basically the year below me in school terms and...

Is fighting normal?

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16 April 2011 (F) - Is it normal for couples to get in to small fights/arguments through out a week? and if so why is it? Thank you....

Should we wait, like she wants, or will our lack of sex at this point tear us apart?

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16 April 2011 (?) - i have a question about my relationship and the sex i've been with my girl for 1 year and 9 months we are planning to get married and we've already had lots of sex the past summer but she wants to stop being intimate and we've haven't had ...

Do I have a shot with her?

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16 April 2011 (M) - I started talking to this girl that's in my English class in college about three weeks ago. Since we both take the train to school, I suggested we meet at the train station in the morning and walk to school together. (This was about two weeks ago) ...

I can't get over her. How do I get her to want me?

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16 April 2011 (M) - i am absolutely in love with this girl, she knows this and she claims that she doesnt like me...however she has been doing all sorts of things, she has been trying to make me jealous intentionally in front of me randomly when i am in a good mood, ...

Question about dating and sex in the later years.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - I'm a woman of 78 who has been alone a number of years. I joined a Senior Dating site recently. Now, this guy who's 68 contacted me. He is looking for a friend and a lover and asked me if I was interested. His first question to me was I still ...

Can you tell me if he is interested, or just being nice?

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16 April 2011 (F) - I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for .. I miss him when he's not around and look forward to seeing him when I do .. ,I'm rather shy when it comes to dating guys and I fear rejection lots he seems rather shy also !! .. I was wond...

Must a guy make the first move?

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16 April 2011 (M) - I have known a girl for sometime now. she likes me but pretends she don't. I want to be sure she likes me before making a move. Must a guy make the first move?...

Would adding her on Facebook put us in the dreaded "friend zone"

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16 April 2011 (M) - Alright kind of a long question here. Alright, so there was this girl who lived in the room next to me in residence at university and about 2 weeks ago she mentioned that she and her boyfriend had broken up but she seemed to be over it from what I ...

How should I tell my mom about our secret relationship?

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16 April 2011 (?) - Hi everyone, thank you to whoever takes the time to read this. I'm a sophomore in high school, and I've been in a relationship for about six months now. My parents don't know about the relationship, (they're really strict, and Asian) but they know ...

My GF has severe trust issues, she starts to restrict me from whoever she considers a threat, and impulsively dumps me over these issues!!

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16 April 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and a half, and were really great together. Recently she says she cant trust me, when i have never done anything to ever make her not trust me. About a month ago i went home for a few days and...

I like him, but he ignores me. What should I do?

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16 April 2011 (F) - There is this guy I really like but we barely see each other besides our soccer season. He is really sweet but sometimes in the hallway when I see him I won't say anything. This whole week he hasn't talked to me at all because he wanted to see if i ...

Looking at porn in a relationship. Is it cheating? Why is he pushing me away?

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16 April 2011 (F) - Ive been with this guy for 5 years now. when we got together i told him my veiws about porn. its cheating. we have been through heaps together. We have a daughter together and everything. When i was pregnet everything changed. He started spending...

Questions about sex for the first time.

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16 April 2011 (F) - Hiya, last night i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. Im already confused! On two occasions we had to use a new condom because it wouldnt stay on - is this normally what happens? Also, as it was my first time i assumed it would be real...

Just hitting my sexual peak now, I think. Should I go with younger women because of this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

16 April 2011 (M) - My body has always been late in everything to deal with the subject of sex. I lost my virginity when I was 17. The first time I ever masturbated was when I was 19. I didn't even hit puberty until I was 16. Whereas men typically hit their peak sexual ...

How to attract my lecturer easily?

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16 April 2011 (F) - Please cupid am 19years old i fell in love with my lecturer of 27 years old. He is not married yet. He lives in my street and i don't know how to attract him. Besides i don't know if he likes me, but we always stare at each other. Please give me ...

I was honest about my girlfriends weight gain and now in trouble. Advice please.

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16 April 2011 (M) - hey guys, i kinda sorta listened to the advice "communication is key" when contemplating whether to tell my girlfriend she has gained weight. i did not call her fat or was insensitive but she didnt take it so well and she got really mad. it wasn...

Ladies can you tell me why you hate porn or why you think other women hate it?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

16 April 2011 (M) - Why do women hate porn so much? I agree that when it becomes an addiction, their is a problem. However why, when a guy watches porn only occasionally, and has sex at least once every 2 days? I mean, it's not an addiction but only to spend time. ...

What is a woman's view on a 27 year old guy who wants to date, but never has dated a girl?

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16 April 2011 (M) - What is your view on a guy who has never dated? How would you react if you asked the guy how experienced he is and his reply was that everything you've done so far has been with you? Would you bother with a guy like this?...

We both got sick at breakup time. how can I be just friends with my ex who I love more than anything?

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16 April 2011 (F) - How do you become friends with someone that you still love more than anything and have been bf/gf in a LDR for 3 years?? I'm struggling...my bf dumped me 3 weeks ago, because he got badly depressed and didn't care about anyone or anything and the...

What do I do next? He treats me like a kid, not his GF. I turn off when he speaks badly to me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys, well i am still with my ex, we broke up but he said he would try for our relationship, if you read my other question.....well things are going better, but he still treats me like a kid. He never ever talks to me like a adult. i had too ge...

Boyfriend says our relationship makes him feel like he is in prison. Please help.

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16 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend feels bad lately because of my presence. He says that he can feel me everywhere even when we're apart. I don't see him a lot but he still feels like he's in some kind of prison because of me. I love him a lot and I'm trying to change...

Should I buy my girlfriend, 17, a vibrator to help her discover more?

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16 April 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, my best wishes to all who take the time to help. It is appreciated. My girlfriend and I are both 17 and have been experimenting sexually. The problem is she has never masterbated, and doesn't like the idea of doing it with her fing...

I've fallen for a girl and not sure if it's reciprocated?!?

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16 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for the last 3 and a half years, which has not been particularly healthy in the last 6 months, about 3 months ago I started doing a show(theatre) with someone I've been friends with for a long time but kind of lost ...

I dreamt that my fiancee impregnated another girl! What does it mean?

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16 April 2011 (?) - I dreamed that my fiancee impregnated someone else. What does this mean?...

Guys- if you're in a good relationship, do you still watch porn?

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16 April 2011 (F) - So about a month ago I found out my boyfriend was watching porn. Mainly on the days when we don't have sex. We've been living together for about two years and I've always been the sexually frustrated one bc I have a super high libido. I usually have ...

My ex ignored me and it hurt like hell. Now he's wished me Happy Birthday. Should I respond?

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16 April 2011 (F) - Hello,Im hoping to get some advice on the following situation. Thanks in advance. I moved to Europe and met a guy that i really liked and was in a relationship with for 3.5 months. (We are both 28 years old). I got attached very quickly. I was mean...

Why do men run away scared?

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16 April 2011 (F) - what are you supposed to do in a situation where a man runs away scared because he likes you too much and is afraid of committing and getting hurt? this man came back after not talking for a month and not seeing each other for two months to me tell...

I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 days because he dated me discreetly. How do I handle this?

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16 April 2011 (F) - Ok so ive been with this guy for 4 days and i broke up with him because he was being discreet about our relationship...he didnt want anyone to know that he went with me..but he has a new gf now and everyone knows that they go together... i dont know...

I don't know how my BF can give up a girlfriend of 10 months for a girl whom he's been talking to for a week??

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16 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months. I live with him and his family as my mum now lives in Canada (we're both moving there in October) and I don't talk to any of my family. Basically he's been talking to this girl for th...